I know the society we live in today is now almost up-side-down. In those days, I know that I would have gotten an affirmative "Yes" answer from most people to the above question, but in today's world, opinions are highly divided in matters relating to virgin marriage.

In all honesty, would you love to marry a virgin or already deflowered? you may back up your answers with valid or personal reasons... Male-female inclusive

Yes!!! Nothing sweet pass tear rubber. It' shouldn't be not a priority though, as virginity doesn't define character but omo imagine being the first and only person to lash your woman's otele. As in no prick has ever been in her before, na only you wey don see and chop and the choppables!! It's actually an honor. I'm not talking of those second hand virgins that do other stuff apart from the main thing ooh, I mean one that is pure in the real sense of the word. Imagine say she now come fine get good character, omo na jackpot be that.

how does that add to my bank account?.. or will that make I he marriage last?.... am i a virgin to deserve one?

my answer is yes.
most ladies who cannot offer virginity anymore usually cry saying virginity is not a prerequisite for good marriage and does not define good character. while I totally agree I also ask those who have lost it, does losing it make u a better wife? therefore if virginity or being de-flowered neither contributes to a good marriage why not go for the virgin? at least you are not burdened with the fact that the girl who is forming good girl for u has on many occasions told different men to hit her harder and faster...I keep telling myself this: a woman gave her most prized possession freely, (ok maybe for for few gifts, money and for the words 'I love u',) to different men and after they had u they dumped u, and now I'm the mumu who will now kneel down to say pls marry me...tufiakwa

Nope.

No.

Why will I love to marry a fairly used or badly used lady,I reject it in Jesus name

Virginity is divine.

Nope, I will like to marry a porn star

OneSentence:
my answer is yes.
most ladies who cannot offer virginity anymore usually cry saying virginity is not a prerequisite for good marriage and does not define good character. while I totally agree I also ask those who have lost it, does losing it make u a better wife? therefore if virginity or being de-flowered neither contributes to a good marriage why not go for the virgin? at least you are not burdened with the fact that the girl who is forming good girl for u has on many occasions told different men to hit her harder and faster...I keep telling myself this: a woman gave her most prized possession freely, (ok maybe for for few gifts, money and for the words 'I love u',) to different men and after they had u they dumped u, and now I'm the mumu who will now kneel down to say pls marry me...tufiakwa

I want to still believe virginity still applies to both gender, right? while some of what you may have written may be true, there are some people that must have been disvirgined unwillingly, that said, will it be a bad thing if the man gets married a virgin? will it be insane if the man's body count is just his wife? i believe women also dump men, and i also believe there are men who give themselves freely to women cos of money, while virginity is a priced posession of a woman, it is also same for men too, sadly the society we are in made it a woman thing smh!!!

At Op, yes i'd like to marry a virgin

Virgin fall on me jor

would you believe me if i tell you that i am a virgin? i'm a virgin. either you believe it or not. #teamweddingnight.

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I want to still believe virginity still applies to both gender, right? while some of what you may have written may be true, there are some people that must have been disvirgined unwillingly, that said, will it be a bad thing if the man gets married a virgin? will it be insane if the man's body count is just his wife? i believe women also dump men, and i also believe there are men who give themselves freely to women cos of money, while virginity is a priced posession of a woman, it is also same for men too, sadly the society we are in made it a woman thing smh!!!

At Op, yes i'd like to marry a virgin

well it's true what you have said but virginity is not equal fo both men and women. never. while it's it's good idea to equate it an say everything that applies to a man should apply to a woman unfortunately it isn't so. I hate dressing corporate. I prefer being on casuals and I think it's a dumb idea for some professions to force dress codes on people.my dressing certainly doesn't affect my ability to perform my job, does it? you might say I'm thinking right but then again that's the way the society has shaped it and I have to accept the reality. as as man I can choose to be loose an open about it and get away with it more often than not. as as woman most times its not the same. so it's a choice btw idealistic thinking which says as per sex men and women should be equal and then allow yourself yourself be openly loose or realistic thinking which says that men will always get away with it while women will be labelled who.res. I'm more of a realist. it's just unfortunate the way the society is but I'd rather be realistic. and as for those who lose it unwillingly it's a small fraction compared to those who don't so it's not a story men buy easily as most ladies use it to cover up being lose...

Not a priority...

I always pray for one.