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Re: He Wanted To Propose, But Now He Is Confused. by Nobody: 5:16pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
JONNYSPUTE:Yea right... like we don't know the next question would have been : which of your friends? Let me talk to her....blah blah blah. Of course I would feel bad, But we would have fought, settled ,made love or destroyed love and not sulk or give childish, meaningless silent treatment. |
Re: He Wanted To Propose, But Now He Is Confused. by 2kurupt(m): 5:22pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
MariaLavina: Lol @your last sentence. A pidgin English proverb says that "na from clap, dance dey start". A true player can quite easily sweet talk a gal that lies to her bf & get her to "za other room" from an Isi ewu joint. (Trust me, I've seen worse). Wisdom demands that if her bf is the insecure type then she must restrict all hangouts to just ladies except he is in the know and/or present too. |
Re: He Wanted To Propose, But Now He Is Confused. by JONNYSPUTE(m): 5:24pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
MariaLavina:.. This is where trust comes in. See,at any given time in your relationship you told your partner that you are out with a friend and he or she demanded to talk with the person,then there is no trust.My dear,trust is a very valuable recipe for any relationship or marriage. Forgiving one is not the samething as forgetting ones deed. |
Re: He Wanted To Propose, But Now He Is Confused. by Nobody: 5:26pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
2kurupt:It wasn't red handed sha... The way you guys assume and conclude on here is amazing She shouldn't have lied. |
Re: He Wanted To Propose, But Now He Is Confused. by Nobody: 5:29pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
JONNYSPUTE:At least we are getting somewhere... The said guy may be having issues in the trust department, we all don't know who he is, what he's like so we shouldn't judge. |
Re: He Wanted To Propose, But Now He Is Confused. by 2kurupt(m): 5:32pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
MariaLavina: I never said she was caught red handed but for the guy to have witnessed this while about to propose, am sure you know it must have really hurt him. Oh well, complete silent treatment is kinda childish sha but then who knows? This is probably not a first time of such happening. ( i.e. being lied to, almost compromising situations etc) |
Re: He Wanted To Propose, But Now He Is Confused. by JONNYSPUTE(m): 5:36pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
MariaLavina:... Okey I agree and since you I and know that trust is earn not automatic, what if the said girl has a questionable character that has made the said guy finding it difficult to trust her?. 1 Like |
Re: He Wanted To Propose, But Now He Is Confused. by Nobody: 6:53pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
LaBozz:My FRIEND please wake up. She is not wicked. When there is an unhealthy space anywhere, there are chances things could inhabit it. DISTANT relationships are not easy to put up with. By the way she’s not his WIFE and has no legal backing or whatsoever. What if your Guy had been seeing other ladies over there all this while... No one recognizes Dating, Girlfriend or Boyfriend. She has to entertain other serious minded Guys as well. It’s only a FOOLISH LADY that will stay put and act like a SHEEP waiting for someone she has not been formally and legally tied to her, even when other viable suitors are flocking her sides. Finally, what if your Guy had proposed to another lady and settled down with her while overseas...?? What would you have done...?? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: He Wanted To Propose, But Now He Is Confused. by skywalker240(m): 7:28pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
Xaos:That you would have to lie that you are home op dont be supprise, that girl must have been riding dirty on some random carousel, when your freind was not in town. |
Re: He Wanted To Propose, But Now He Is Confused. by JONNYSPUTE(m): 7:31pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
EVILFOREST:.. You just implied that our ladies should continue flirting right? 1 Like |
Re: He Wanted To Propose, But Now He Is Confused. by victorian(f): 7:40pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
Xaos: I wonder o She was seated chit chatting with a guy. Not like he saw them kissing or touching romantically. They both jumped into conclusion. Shes cheating. So his babe cannot hang out in restaurant with any human called MALE? in peace again. Your guy is not matured at all! And he wants to get married? He's not serious. What he would have done is this : walk to her table, greet both of them and tell her to her face with sweet smile that shebi she said she's at home, how come she's here having a blast! Then she will explain herself and make introductions between her bf and the guy she's with. There and then, he's gotten the truth of what's going on. No need for all this unnecessary games and drama Anyways he is still a kid. He's not mature in relationship. |
Re: He Wanted To Propose, But Now He Is Confused. by JONNYSPUTE(m): 8:04pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
victorian:.. Since she is innocent,why didn't she tell his bf where she was? |
Re: He Wanted To Propose, But Now He Is Confused. by victorian(f): 8:12pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
JONNYSPUTE: Maybe they just got there, not too long ago. She may not have lied. Or she could have forgotten she had a lunch date with a friend or cousin or colleague. Anything is possible at that point, as long as he didn't see them in a romantic position. Don't you think it will be easy and straight forward to simply walk up to her and the guy, then ask questions there and then ,calmly. Her facial expression, and how she explains herself, also how she introduces the guy seating next to her and introduce him to the guy next to her, will reveal alot and if she's cheating on him or not. I don't like concluding on things by just looking at scenarios. There and there, explanations and questions will be asked and answered than just walking away and assuming. The issue is this: can't she eat in a restaurant with a guy in peace? |
Re: He Wanted To Propose, But Now He Is Confused. by JONNYSPUTE(m): 8:22pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
victorian:.. Please stop being overtly emotional and sentimental here. Nobody said she can't eat in a restaurant with a guy,the problem here is lying about her location.like I asked earlier, if your bf told you he traveled and you behold him with another girl in a restaurant, will you not be mad at him?.If she can't tell his guy the truth,how can the guy trust her?. 1 Like |
Re: He Wanted To Propose, But Now He Is Confused. by Eyeness: 8:26pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
LaBozz:you jumped to conclusion 1 Like |
Re: He Wanted To Propose, But Now He Is Confused. by Jeferious: 1:22am On Oct 14, 2018 |
To argue with a lady is useless. Only few men can win a war of words with members of opposite gender. All these ones arguing with the ladies commenting on the thread are not men. They are boys. A real man does not complain. He does not argue aimlessly. Op, at one time...i would do what you just did. I'd offer her the silence treatment. Trust me when I say that it unsettles her, especially if she's really into you. Better still, I'd just mirror her actions. Hang out with other girls and lie about it. If she finds out, tell more lies. Keep lying till she gets tired of the lies. She would ask you if you're trying to get back at her for what she did. Deny your vindictiveness....But keep hanging out with other girls...and keep lying. You'd surely drive her to the thin line separating sanity and insanity. Whether you'd choose to forgive her or keep making her mad- the ball is in your court. In this life, only babies and weaklings are allowed to complain. Otherwise, anything wey person do you, do back seven-fold. First to do no dey pain |
Re: He Wanted To Propose, But Now He Is Confused. by victorian(f): 7:42am On Oct 14, 2018 |
JONNYSPUTE: If I meet my bf in a restaurant when he said he's at home waiting for me. Yes I will be surprised, I will smile to myself and walk towards his table with glittering angry eyes. if there is an extra seat, I will seat down and smile at both of them, then back to him and say : honey, I was on my way to your house, like u said on phone, few minutes ago, that you were at home waiting for me and missing me but how come u are here with a lady? And who is she? His answer there and then will decide if he's lying, if he's cheating on me and if he's simply a waste of time and space. There and then, my decision will be made after he has answered my questions. I don't leave things hanging and presume just by what I see. I don't procrastinate. I don't run away hurriedly. I face things squarely immediately . So there will be no perhaps. Your guy would have simply gotten his answer there and then, than walking hurriedly away and zooming off. Cmon? That's childish. |
Re: He Wanted To Propose, But Now He Is Confused. by JONNYSPUTE(m): 9:16am On Oct 14, 2018 |
You are only trying to justify the girls action. Everybody is not the same. Some people hate lies and once they can't trust another person due to lies,they leave..The girl is a lier and can't be trusted. Period. Happy Sunday.bye.@Victorian. |
Re: He Wanted To Propose, But Now He Is Confused. by victorian(f): 1:41pm On Oct 14, 2018 |
Jeferious: If I were the one ehn? With this your behavior of hanging out with different girls? Only you go taya. I will simply back off from you, after seeing with series of girls and u are giving me lame excuses or lies. E go shock you I don't have the patience for mind games. At this level I am, no man am with, can drive me nuts with his games. I will simply take a walk. |
Re: He Wanted To Propose, But Now He Is Confused. by Jeferious: 2:01pm On Oct 14, 2018 |
victorian:But you want the op to understand that it's not a big deal hanging out with another guy and lying to him? Why are you this afraid to take a dose of your own medicine? See hypocrisy. Meanwhile, I've backed off already when I saw you hanging out with another guy. Every other thing is just a supporting statement to that effect. So last last, nobody lost.... except the person who'd try to pull the "men are scum" stunt by ranting about how she gave her body and her all to a guy who penetrated every hole on her body and left her in the lurch after he had used her to his satisfaction. |
Re: He Wanted To Propose, But Now He Is Confused. by Jeferious: 2:27pm On Oct 14, 2018 |
JONNYSPUTE:No dey mind that one. When you see people who run their mouths/thumbs anyhow on social media just to impress, you'd know. No girl with a boyfriend that she loves spending time with would spend so much time on Nairaland. She always leaves a trail on 70% of threads of NL everyday. Now NL is not the only social media forum out there, and I assume she's also active on Facebook, WhatsApp, Tinder and other social networks. Put all that together and we have a social-media girl/keyboard heavyweight. So my brother, just waka pass when you see some certain things. The kind girl fit never get boyfriend sef, let alone irritating him by hanging out with another dude and lying about it. |
Re: He Wanted To Propose, But Now He Is Confused. by JONNYSPUTE(m): 3:17pm On Oct 14, 2018 |
Jeferious:.. Thanks bro. |
Re: He Wanted To Propose, But Now He Is Confused. by coolh3ad(m): 4:39pm On Oct 14, 2018 |
victorian: Huh?. Easier said than done....Abegi, make we hear word |
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