I just hate how some men maltreat their wive especially the one that love them
You keep malice cheating ontop what reason
But woman you made mistake for saying he can leave the house since you're the one that rent it
When you know your husband is lion that ready to bounce and eat any meat that mistakely come to his way
You have to go to the hotel he lodge beg him
Tell him you will change and never behave such way again
You two should start living new life

naijanewstv:
Good day everyone, please i'm having a serious problem with my husband. It started when I asked him the reason he doesn't like wearing his wedding ring when he came back to Nigeria. He picked offence that i shouldn't ask him about his ring because according to him, that ring isn't marriage.



We had a little quarrel which I later apologized to him but my hubby is the type that can keep malice for Africa. He stopped talking to me despite the fact that I apologized. Do you know my hubby traveled to his village to see his people and stayed for 3 days without any communication, refused taking my calls.



When he came back to where we are staying, he was very down. I wanted to ignore him but I could see the way he was shivering under the duvet. I had to start asking him what was wrong because he was still not talking to me. Well I treated him (i'm a nurse), he refused eating anything but I had to force him to drink pepper soup with agidi so he could take the drugs. It was when he was talking to a friend over the phone that I overheard him telling him how his friends took him to where they drank pami and ate somethings that disorganized his system. Then his friend asked him 'but hope madam is doing something about it'. His response was "she has given me what she gave me na but i'm much better'.



For one month he was around, he didn't for one day come pick me up from work but he normally drop me in the morning. I never complained but the one that really got me very angry was the day he promised to come pick me after work. It was raining heavily that day. When I called him, he said his car is having problem and was fixing it in the mechanic. I later discovered he was with his best friend's wife at an eatery he took me to on my birthday just a stone throw from the

hospital I work. I went home drenched in the rain



The real problem started the night he took us out (me, the best friend's wife and some of his friends) to celebrate my birthday. That was the day I got to see the girl but this girl already knows everything about me. She took me one side and started telling me she has heard so much about me that even without seeing me she already developed hatred for me. That my hubby was complaining to her that I value my work more than him, that i'm too possessive and too jealous, that I want to chase all his friends away, my food is very peppery, that I allow insignificant thing like ring bother me. That the day he took her to the eatery, she asked him let them come and pick me but he refused saying I said I was going somewhere. I was really mad that a total stranger practically knows everything going on in my family.



When I came back home, I asked him those thing but he said that was not how it happened. I asked him if I give you food and you do not like it what stops you from telling me instead of a stranger.



Despite the fact I work, I still tried to create time for us because I asked him if he wants me to stop my work but he said no. He was explaining how it happened but I tried to tell him that it wasn't the way the girl presented it. The next thing oga flared up that I believed the girl more than him. Another episode of malice keeping.



The next night I asked to make food for him because he is fond of rejecting food over little misunderstanding, he said no. Around 11pm his friends called him to hang out. I took keys and locked the door. After much dragging he gave up not after I have sustained injury from the push he gave me. When he slept I snooped through his phone and what I saw left me dumbfounded. That was how I discovered this man is cheating on me. Indeed I was pained.



In the morning I opened the door and he left around 10am and was coming back 9pm, went straight to bed and slept off. I was still angry myself and was just murmuring when I entered the room.



My hubby just got up took his car key and was leaving. This was happening around 11:30pm so I told him I will not stop him but once he stepped out that I was going to lock the door for security reason.



We started dragging the key because he said I wont lock it. Out of anger I reminded him I was the one that paid for the house that if he wants to leave he can leave. Hmmm my worst mistake.



My hubby left the house, then called everyone that I asked him to leave the house because I paid for it. My aunt begged him to come home lets resolve it but he refused. He went to lodge in a hotel, came back in the morning and asked me to give him the phones he bought for me. I refused and this man beat me up until I brought out the phones and gave him. He left to the airport. Went to lagos, lodged for 2 days and went back to his base.



I have been calling but he is not taking my calls. I have sent him countless of messages apologizing but no response. Its been 2 months he traveled back no communication. My people have all called him to make peace yet he refused.



Please I need to know if I overreacted. Despite everything he didn't for one day say he is sorry. My marriage of 7 months

SOURCE: https://www.naijanewstv.com.ng/2018/10/my-marriage-of-7-months-is-about-to-break.html

He's trying to explore the world after marriage which might cost him more than he thinks... You're at fault by telling him you rented the apartment you guys are living(you're telling him you're in charge indirectly)...
Try to beg and talk to him, sell that ego in exchange for him but sweetheart don't sell your self respect and worth (nobody deserve that)...
And If he won't come home anytime soon buy yourself a pet (a dog or cat), I will go for cat they'll cuddle, look into your eye just as much as you want, and pending the time you won't be able to think too much ...
Nobody will give you happiness, you'll fight for it...
Next time he throw shits at you, try act like it never happen, don't respond so as not to trigger any useless excuse... If he won't talk to you, talk to him and if he doesn't answer that's his headache....
Just stay happy(no matter how bad you are, you deserve to be happy)...

Fake story.

But if it truly happened, then....

A one sided story always appeals to human sympathy


Let's hear his side �����

naijanewstv:

SOURCE: https://www.naijanewstv.com.ng/2018/10/my-marriage-of-7-months-is-about-to-break.html

You stole this woman's story from Cynthia Raphael Valerian's Facebook page. Ole jatijati

dafeyankee:
Selfish woman.

The whole story is all about you. He came back from abroad and would not come to pick you from work.

The whole story reverts about only your own feelings. Kids in marriages. Why are you even married?what is your reason?you told a man the house he stays is paid by you and you expect him to come back? I blame the man.

This TeeBliz syndrome Nigeria men have adopted by looking for financial stable women only, will be their downfall.

you're talking with your ass fool
what you're saying is smelling

dadalicious:
Sorry dear
I don't know your religion but I am going to talk from a Christian point of view.
Your husband is not born again.
That's the main issue.
You also need to make God your focus, and let the light of God shine in you.
I am not talking about being religious, I mean be spiritual.

dont bring religion into this abeg. There are pastors who are deeply godfearing and married but they still have mistresses littered all over the places and have affairs with married female church members. @ op... Its obvious u two aint compactable and so obvious ur husband married u for ur financial stablity other than love. He's already having an affair with his best friend's wife. This is going to play out like the Stella Damasus saga. Sorry about ur marriage sha.

gabinogem:
ur words versus his...it will be fair we hear from him... from ur explanation it's as if ur husband never loved u as a wife & regretted marrying you

or maybe he was pressurised to marry her by either his parents or pastor.all these marriages done under duress hardly last.

I can tolerate anything but wife beater?

Marriage is beginning to scare me.

lefulefu:
or maybe he was pressurised to marry her by either his parents or pastor.all these marriages done under duress hardly last.

yeah, that's another valid point.

dadalicious:
Sorry dear
I don't know your religion but I am going to talk from a Christian point of view.
Your husband is not born again.
That's the main issue.
You also need to make God your focus, and let the light of God shine in you.
I am not talking about being religious, I mean be spiritual.

does everything have to be God... what happens to commone sense, u dont drag God into every little thing.. na waoh so puttin such pepper inside food na God too

GraGra247:


Seriously!! Are you even mentally stable? For a man that clearly demonstrates all the sings of dislike for his wife plus clearly cheating on her.

A lot of psychopaths on nairaland.

I'll tell the woman to head for divorce without looking back.

bcus she said her own . Part makin it look like she the victim... untill u hear the mans part u did be speechless. .. fear woman..b b4 a man decides to marry u barly 7month and all this and u think she innocent. . pls save ur sermon

AmazonTopaz:
Apologize for what?Did you not see where she stated he cheated.

No woman likes a man that keeps malice.He hates to communicate with her.You should not be angry with someone and keep malice you adress the issue only children keep malice.
The man is a overgrown baby.If anybody is interested in keeping the marriage it should be him the fault is his.This woman is tolerating nonsense.
The man does not treat her like a queen so how can she treat him like a king?
I fault the woman for telling him that she pays for the house that was so low of her.

And where in her post did she compare him to another man?

soo b4 now she sayin she doesn't knw he cheats b4? or u think marriage stops a cheatin partner from it.. why use it as a point to feel victimize, I dont support cheatin but takes God grace for a man not to. if he doesn't go to them they will come... then u went on to say u paid for the house that was totally uncalled for..u kid his ego.. he paid ur bride prize and other expense onnd weddin did he ever used that on u when demanding those keys.. I pray u guys resolve it tho

Come and marry me.

highqueen:
I can tolerate anything but wife beater?

Marriage is beginning to scare me.

CaptainMitch:
Come and marry me.

Certainly.

The retirement party will hold January 3rd, I will be expecting you, then we should hold a 30yrs remembrance for my grandmum, during the yuletide, I will cook rice for you if you come.

highqueen:

Certainly.

CaptainMitch:
The retirement party will hold January 3rd, I will be expecting you, then we should hold a 30yrs remembrance for my grandmum, during the yuletide, I will cook rice for you if you come.

Wow ! Thats nice.
Congrats
Wish you guys well.

We sef wish you well, better come

highqueen:

Wow ! Thats nice.
Congrats
Wish you guys well.

CaptainMitch:
We sef wish you well, better come

Piko sef

How you dey, no worry make marriage no fear you, all will be well, when you find your soul mate you will know.

highqueen:


Piko sef