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Let’s Talk About Sex: I’m Afraid Of Sex After Pregnancy, Please Help! by omablogs: 6:26am On Nov 01, 2018
I had my first baby about four months ago and since then I have been scared to be intimate with my husband. I feel physically fine but when we start to touch, I get worried and comfortable.

Is it normal to be afraid of sex after pregnancy? I want to be with my husband but everything just feels different than it was before. How do we move forward?

A: Having sex after pregnancy can feel like losing your virginity all over again mostly because childbirth does change you to some extent.

For one thing, you look different. If you had a natural birth, the sensations in your vagina may feel different. If you had a C-section, you now have a scar to be concerned about. Plus, childbirth changes your body in that you may be carrying a little (or a lot) more weight than before.

The point is for you and your husband to acknowledge that things may be the same as before. Talk about your fears to him. Help him understand what you’re really concerned about. Chances are, he’s probably nervous about what’s changed now that you’re parents. Opening up about your feelings ...Read More...

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Re: Let’s Talk About Sex: I’m Afraid Of Sex After Pregnancy, Please Help! by falcon01: 7:08am On Nov 01, 2018
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Re: Let’s Talk About Sex: I’m Afraid Of Sex After Pregnancy, Please Help! by omablogs: 8:45am On Nov 01, 2018
am not afraid of sex, am just afraid of pregnancy

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Re: Let’s Talk About Sex: I’m Afraid Of Sex After Pregnancy, Please Help! by omablogs: 12:27pm On Nov 01, 2018
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Re: Let’s Talk About Sex: I’m Afraid Of Sex After Pregnancy, Please Help! by chiommy123(f): 3:09pm On Nov 01, 2018
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Re: Let’s Talk About Sex: I’m Afraid Of Sex After Pregnancy, Please Help! by omablogs: 4:16pm On Nov 03, 2018
chiommy123:
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meaning what bro it ain't gonna work out that way
Re: Let’s Talk About Sex: I’m Afraid Of Sex After Pregnancy, Please Help! by omablogs: 4:22pm On Nov 03, 2018
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Re: Let’s Talk About Sex: I’m Afraid Of Sex After Pregnancy, Please Help! by omablogs: 4:27pm On Nov 03, 2018
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