TooNoisy:
Money is a major cause of problems for African marriages, so intending couples should discuss about how family expenses will be paid. There is no perfect remedy, all I can is that couples need to be open, transparent and fair to both parties. Your priority should first of all be your immediate (nuclear) family, and outsiders should be a distant second especially when you start having children.

Having said that, the man should even be more prudent in spending money. Women have needs that men will never have, so it is important for a man to understand these needs and ensure that his wife looks and feels good with herself - depending on what he can afford. I also encourage couples to invest early and wisely, property and shares are a good place to start.

yettymuse:
When you talk about double standards. You get it correctly! Everybody go dey alright sha

chris31:

I dey pity u guy
Na ur type woman dey turn to houseboy

Icon79:
Apparently, this was written by a US based Nigerian because when did Nigeria start having credit score and student loans?


O pari

armyofone:
or paying bills?

tuwayz:
I just hope Nigerian ladies will listen to this, but many will not because of this african mentality that have got deep in them that a man is responsible for all the bills at home, so pathetic.

wink2015:


INSTEAD OF RUSHING TO GO AND TAKE PRE-WEDDING PHOTOS.

Couples should spend their time reading motivational books and get themselves educated on how to manage their marriage.

Pre-Wedding photos will not save a marriage problem it is just for the fun of the moment then later you are faced with the true challenges of marriage.

@Opinionated

Thanks for the share!

TooNoisy:
Money is a major cause of problems for African marriages, so intending couples should discuss about how family expenses will be paid. There is no perfect remedy, all I can is that couples need to be open, transparent and fair to both parties. Your priority should first of all be your immediate (nuclear) family, and outsiders should be a distant second especially when you start having children.

Having said that, the man should even be more prudent in spending money. Women have needs that men will never have, so it is important for a man to understand these needs and ensure that his wife looks and feels good with herself - depending on what he can afford. I also encourage couples to invest early and wisely, property and shares are a good place to start.

dabiton:
What are the problems that women have that men will never have? Mensturation? How much does that cost?

GOFRONT:


Ordinary date wen I dey date my girlfriend, she wan use her younger brothers' wahala kill me....

Abeg I wan marry lady wen no get younger brothers n sisters......I don learn

Elder0001:


Most Nigerian women work but still don't contribute.

Be realistic

obajoey:
Wife be like 'his money is our money, my money is my money' sebi na jejely i dey my papa house wey him con carry me.

joycluv:
Men are failures from the very beginning of the world: Adam was put in the garden to keep it and for Eve was created to keep him company and help him. What happened? Adam left his duty post which gave the serpent space to come around in d first place. Ok. After God had shared the punishments, women are serving their own till today, the serpent is serving its own till today but what about men? As common as fend for their families, what do see? complaints every where. Sha.....**m....****e on men! Plz don't quote diz comment. Let's see yours!

MrHighSea:
Better bare it all, IF TRUST HAVE BEEN ESTABLISHED.
When there is dough, let her know, pop champagne.
When dough depletes, let her know, share a bottle of coke.
If she vex, she is wrong.

joycluv:
Men are failures from the very beginning of the world: Adam was put in the garden to keep it and for Eve was created to keep him company and help him. What happened? Adam left his duty post which gave the serpent space to come around in d first place. Ok. After God had shared the punishments, women are serving their own till today, the serpent is serving its own till today but what about men? As common as fend for their families, what do see? complaints every where. Sha.....**m....****e on men! Plz don't quote diz comment. Let's see yours!

Danty37:

bro Your Own good.. mine girlfriend mum want to kill me with my babe expenses.. Because I said I want to marry, her responsibility has suddenly become mine.. she want to go back to school, they send list of things to me.. I have to give her 30k today.. The mum will still call me today when I get home from work..
I'm tired..

funmisticqueen:
Mtcheeeeeeeeeeew

funmisticqueen:
it is called being a man, if you want to quiy, you can become bobrisky.

naijacentric:
mumu

GOFRONT:


Ordinary date wen I dey date my girlfriend, she wan use her younger brothers' wahala kill me....

Abeg I wan marry lady wen no get younger brothers n sisters......I don learn