Hello nairalanders, pls.. i need ur advice and contributions on how i can handle a relationship i've just Started.
After series of self investigation about her, since i swore to be very cautious when starting a new relationship, due to what brought to an end of my former. I finally met her, when fully satisfied and convinced she is the type i and any male yearns for, I've never felt so special like i do when with her, maybe because she gave me a very deep tears and kiss on accepting me to her life. The feelings was astronomical, it was just out of this world.
But am in the dark over what to do in order to give it a smooth start, and avoid any mistake(s) i may have made in my former relationship.
At times i feel like being with her often of which i know she will be very much available for me.
Could this feeling of mine be right for a start ? what should i do earn myself a perfect relationship starting ? Because as i go lay my bed naso i go d lye on top am.
Help a brother.
Criticisms are welcome.

valETA1:

Help a brother.

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You dont need help. Just Be the man you are, not the man they want you to be.
There is no philosophy, formlar that guard relationship/marriage. Enjoy your life.


Mind you no one is perfect.
Give your 70%
Keep 30% for disappointment when it comes knocking.

Eberechi24:
You dont need help. Just Be the man you are, not the man they want you to be.
There is no philosophy, formlar that guard relationship/marriage. Enjoy your life.


Mind you no one is perfect.
Give your 70%
Keep 30% for disappointment when it comes knocking.

100% real, thanks

Na woman matter you wan carry for head laidis so?? Na pity I juz dey pity you

Let me help you little...pay close attention to what she say and do...if she z not devious...if she z not pleased with your opinion and she z bold enough to let you...then you just got yourself a wife material

morningstar55:
she z not devious..

But she seems to be one

You are on the right path, shower her with feelings or love if it's mutual, dont hold back, you'll be fine.

My advice for u now is that u shld not attempt to impress her with money..That will be d beginning of ur wahala o

valETA1:


But she seems to be one

That's what ended my relationship with the girl I wanted to marry...can't stand cunning people

morningstar55:
That's what ended my relationship with the girl I wanted to marry...can't stand cunning people

Since its a process, i'll get to know more and more, however i wish it doesnt cm to this.

Lemskey:
My advice for u now is that u shld not attempt to impress her with money..That will be d beginning of ur wahala o

Its one of the least i cud think of, as i learnt my lesson. Thanks 4 reminding

valETA1:


Since its a process, i'll get to know more and more, however i wish it doesnt cm to this.

That's why I said you should pay close attention...i'm not saying you should grill her oo...her actions will do the job.

If it turns out she happen to be the blunt type,it'll save you from mental trauma...

morningstar55:
That's why I said you should pay close attention...i'm not saying you should grill her oo...her actions will do the job

If it turns out she happen to be the blunt type,it'll save you from mental trauma...

Thanks

i know the love is still fresh and you are mad over her, but on a long term i want you to consider my advice.
at the beginning stage, never, i repeat d0nt do what you cant keep up with. you may call her 5 times a day because of how you feel. ask yourself can you keep up with it? what happen when the feelings are not bright? believe me, you wont feel this same way for even a year, so what happens then?
let it not be that later she would say, you were caring before but now you no longer are. do things moderately so the expectation wont be high in the future.
the major problem with relationships is that people always start from the highest point, so they end up depreciating, which often leads to problem, except the other party is understanding.
my ad8ice is start on a low and improve with time. i wish you the best in your relationship.

emmy2807:
i know the love is still fresh and you are mad over her, but on a long term i want you to consider my advice.
at the beginning stage, never, i repeat d0nt do what you cant keep up with. you may call her 5 times a day because of how you feel. ask yourself can you keep up with it? what happen when the feelings are not bright? believe me, you wont feel this same way for even a year, so what happens then?
let it not be that later she would say, you were caring before but now you no longer are. do things moderately so the expectation wont be high in the future.
the major problem with relationships is that people always start from the highest point, so they end up depreciating, which often leads to problem, except the other party is understanding.
my ad8ice is start on a low and improve with time. i wish you the best in your relationship.

Noted, Thanks

Love is a beautiful thing!! but take things slowly