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This a question from someone on whatsapp. What are your thoughts,how would you advise her? Drop your comments below.

Good Evening all,

This platform is Rilly amazing, It has really helped me in various ways to build my relationship. May God bless the good works of this wonderful admin.

I have an issue bothering me about a recent trend in this our generation. There is this thing called kayan mata (Hausa language) meaning ladies stuff that women now use to tie men down. (Like a love charm or love portion).

If you are from the north you will understand what I mean! I mean is everywhere here people troop in and out from all those mallams place to get it even married women. I have a question because I am beginning to loose hope in this our generation.

Is it that genuine love do not exist anymore? Do I have to do fetish things to keep a man? Is it only men that need to be kept? What is the man doing to keep me? Is God no longer on the throne?

I know am not a perfect christian I fall I sin I go against God sometimes but I still believe in him more than anything in this world…

Please somebody should please make me understand what is happening in this our generation.

Please keep me anonymous


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the reason for the hausa is because many of them do not want there husband to marry another wife.

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the reason for the hausa is because many of them do not want there husband to marry another wife.