Hello,

Let me start by introducing myself. I'm in my early 30s and I'm a bachelor, I'm the quiet type and I live a comfortable life.

For some time now, I have noticed quite a number of ladies staring at me during church service. I keep wondering what's going through their mind and why they can't just concentrate on the worship which they came for.

I have changed churches and this has continued even in bigger congregations.

I'm not comfortable about it and some of the ladies don't even look away when I catch them staring, they just lock their eyes on me.

Please can someone share why this is going on?

Thank you.

Let them look. When they are tired, they will come say hi

Ordinary look and you are carried away

"You're in your early 30s, you're a BACHELOR, you're the quiet type (perhaps handsome too) and most importantly, you live a COMFORTABLE life" and you are here asking why SINGLE ladies in church are staring at you



they are staring because you remind them of the apostle Paul


orishirishi



meanwhile these women no get joy again o


they are fighting desperately to avoid attending the next shiloh

dingbang:
Let them look. When they are tired, they will come say hi

It's been going on for some time now. I doubt if they're going to get tired anytime soon.

I tried getting used to it initially but mehn, i can't.

Naughtysite:
Ordinary look and you are carried away

I think it'd be pertinent for them to give all their attention to the Men of God and the secretary during announcement.

What are you feeling like now?

samysmoothfresh:
"You're in your early 30s, you're a BACHELOR, you're the quiet type (perhaps handsome too) and most importantly, you live a COMFORTABLE life" and you are here asking why SINGLE ladies in church are staring at you



they are staring because you remind of the apostle Paul


orishirishi



meanwhile these women no get joy again o


they are fighting desperately to avoid attending the next shiloh

Thanks Samy, when i changed church, i started dressing down. E no work.

Divay22:
What are you feeling like now?

I hope you're not one of them.

Kindly help me answer the the question i asked nah. What goes on in their mind?

frrank:


I hope you're not one of them.

Kindly help me answer the the question i asked nah. What goes on in their mind?

One of them in your wildest dream

I don't know... Na eye way you take see them, dem take see you.
You can as well find out from one after the close of service next Sunday.

You don't understand the green light again? Are you not a man? Do the needful jor.

Divay22:

One of them in your wildest dream

I don't know... Na eye way you take see them, dem take see you.
You can as well find out from one after the close of service next Sunday.

The 3rd paragraph is very helpful. It has never crossed my mind.

tee59:
You don't understand the green light again? Are you not a man? Do the needful jor.

Hahaha... Green light once landed me a state insult, i dey very careful since then.

Gy send ur picture so I can tell u y dey r staring at u..lol

frrank:


The 3rd paragraph is very helpful. It has never crossed my mind.

Now, i just told you.
So do the needful and also let us know how it went.

I can't be teaching you tutorials and at the end you won't show me your result.. You lie!

Divay22:

Now, i just told you.
So do the needful and also let us know how it went.

I can't be teaching you tutorials and at the end you won't show me your result.. You lie!

Not an issue. I'll surely update you.

They are not looking at you but the fresos on the churchwall........

Chai, girls have suffered!!! We can't even look in peace again..

funny people. When girls were reserved, they said they were not outspoken and exposed like their counterparts in d western worlds. Now girls are bold, d same people are complaining. Oga op, if she look u, look her back. First to tire na lazy girl/boy

@op, what are you feeling like now?
lol.

When you are focused in the service, you can't notice them.

frrank:


The 3rd paragraph is very helpful. It has never crossed my mind.

just wear a wedding ring on your finger to reduce the staring

If I may ask, how did you see them?

You sef wetin u look before you come see say them dey look u? (U see what your mind wants to see).....abi na only u be the bro wey dey the church?

Don't be too sure...mad people are also stared at. Na joke o

And you had to open a thread to make yourself feel special

gloria34:
funny people. When girls were reserved, they said they were not outspoken and exposed like their counterparts in d western worlds. Now girls are bold, d same people are complaining. Oga op, if she look u, look her back. First to tire na lazy girl/boy

Chai... You're wicked.

I'll lose concentration.

MorningStar233:
Chai, girls have suffered!!! We can't even look in peace again..

You should be looking at the MOG

Feeling yaself. U no sabi say husband scarce

Pearl05:
When you are focused in the service, you can't notice them.

When they're sitting in front rows(they rows before mine) , you can't held but notice.

I don't know for those behind me because i don't have any biz looking back.

funmisticqueen:
just wear a wedding ring on your finger to reduce the staring

That's might make things worst

Dfinex:
You sef wetin u look before you come see say them dey look u? (U see what your mind wants to see).....abi na only u be the bro wey dey the church?

There's no way you'll not notice anyone who's in front of you and is turning back to stare at you. You can't, not when it happens intermittently, in some cases.