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The Hidden Truth About Virginity by Ayomathy01(m): 8:14pm On Nov 20, 2018
VIRGINITY
We were discussing about females virginity
yesterday and someone was like the only way to
know if a girl is a virgin or not is that it's a must
every girl bleeds during her first sex and am sure
majority have same mindset but this is wrong..
Bleeding doesn't determine if a girl is a virgin or
not so I decided to release this article to help
educate our young men and women on this issue
of girls bleeding during first sex...THE MYTH
ABOUT FEMALE VIRGINITY -why most women
won't bleed the first time they have sex. There's
a very common myth in South and Central Asia
(Pakistan, India, Bangladesh, Afghanistan etc.)
and Africa (Nigeria and many other nations ) that
you can tell if a woman is a virgin, by whether or
not she bleeds the first time she has sex. There
is zero truth in this. Not all women bleed the first
time they have sex, as I'll explain in this post. To
understand why some women bleed and some
don't, it's very important to understand what the
hymen is. The hymen is a membrane that tends
to cover part of the vaginal opening (it does not
always block or cover the entire vagina, as some
people mistakenly think). NOT ALL WOMEN
HAVE A HYMEN. The hymen also differs from
woman to woman - like all women have different
heights and weights and features, all women also
have different amounts and types of hymen.
Some women have thick hymens, some have very
thin hymens, and some women have NO hymens
at all. Some women have larger hymens, some
women naturally have a very little amount of
hymen that covers only a small portion of their
vaginal opening (and hence does not really get in
the way, during first-time sex). In addition to this,
the hymen wears away on its own as you grow
up. For most women, the hymen wears away on
its own with exercise, bicycling, horseback riding
-it can wear off with pretty much any other
physical activity, even dancing! - or from using
tampons when menstruating. Especially if the
hymen is very small or thin, most of it tends to
wear away on its own as a girl grows up. If a
woman is born WITHOUT a hymen, she won't
bleed the first time she has sex. If a woman has
a small or thin hymen, she might not bleed the
first time she has sex. If a woman's hymen has
worn away on its own (which is very common as
girls grow up), she won't bleed the first time she
has sex. The result is that the overwhelming
majority -at least 63% of women - will NOT bleed
the first time they have sex, according to a study
published by the British Medical Journal. Women
who do bleed include: - Women with thick
hymens (who constitute a small percentage of
the population) - Younger girls. Because the
hymen wears away on its own with time, a 16-
year old has a higher chance of bleeding than a
25-year old. By the time a girl is of or above the
legal age of consent - 18, 20, 24 years of age, for
example - most of her hymen is likely to have
worn away on its own, meaning it's unlikely that
she'll bleed a lot, if at all. However, even a young
girl can be physically active, have a thin or small
hymen, or have no hymen at all, meaning she
might not bleed during first-time sex. - Most
often, women who bleed tend to be women who
are dealt with roughly during sex. If the guy
forces himself inside the girl, when she isn't
ready, relaxed or aroused enough, he is likely to
cause injury or bleeding. Because most people
think it's normal for women to bleed the first
time they have sex, they don't realize that this
bleeding is a result of the woman having been
hurt, and not of the hymen breaking Painful first-
time sex is generally because the woman is not
relaxed or aroused enough, and gets hurt as a
result; it is rarely ever because of the hymen
breaking. The bottom line is that there is no way
to assess female virginity. Bleeding does not
have anything to do with virginity - it has to do
with the kind of hymen a girl has, and hymens
differ from girl to girl from birth. The result is
that only a small percentage of women bleed the
first time! Only 37% bleed during first time sex according to a study published in the British medical journal. Why is this so important to be aware of? Women all over the world get abused or injured and even get killed due to the myth of virgin bleeding because most people both men and women thinks bleeding is a sign of virginity.. Women who don't bleed the first time they had sex have been divorced, suffered from suspicion leading to domestic violence and abused and even killed for honor. Educating people that a girl does not necessarily have to bleed the first time she has sex because not all girls have thick hymens and some are born with no hymens at all is important cause it can literally save lives...
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Re: The Hidden Truth About Virginity by MissRaine69(f): 8:31pm On Nov 20, 2018
Paragraphs brother ....they help
Re: The Hidden Truth About Virginity by Ayomathy01(m): 8:33pm On Nov 20, 2018
MissRaine69:
Paragraphs brother ....they help
thanks
Re: The Hidden Truth About Virginity by Mobi47(m): 10:06pm On Nov 20, 2018
sorry to say this, if ur Hymen is not there, you are not a virgin, full stop.

you are a female and created this acct just to give reasons why u are not a virgin.......m off.
Re: The Hidden Truth About Virginity by Ayomathy01(m): 10:25pm On Nov 20, 2018
Mobi47:
sorry to say this, if ur Hymen is not there, you are not a virgin, full stop.

you are a female and created this acct just to give reasons why u are not a virgin.......m off.
your opinion..
But just try to see things a little different bruh

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