Over familiarity syndrome they say is what kills a Relationship. At the initial stage, during quarrels you would do everything possible to solve and resolve issues as soon as possible because you don't want to continue hurting the other person and you are also afraid of losing them.


But as time goes on the reverse is the case, you Start knowing the person out of over familiarity you stop caring so much about the other person's feeling, quarrels start lingering in from day to days or weeks and we do this because we know that these people loves us so much and no matter what we do they won't leave.


But we keep forgetting that emotional and spiritual things are slippery. When you think you are in control might be when you will lose grip.. There is no arriving point in love. You keep loving and keep renewing your love strategies until the best is gotten..
Until you are afraid of losing someone, you'll keep taking their feelings for granted.. Love is about the other person first.


TBC...