Re: 10 Bad Habits No Grown Woman Should Have by samysmoothfresh: 10:47pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
A near impeccable write up.
Thumbs up op.
Saffi, you wee nor comman read now..........na only for mumu threads dem dey see you |
Re: 10 Bad Habits No Grown Woman Should Have by Last355(m): 10:47pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
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Re: 10 Bad Habits No Grown Woman Should Have by Nobody: 10:48pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
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Re: 10 Bad Habits No Grown Woman Should Have by enemyofprogress: 10:53pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
Pls I need advice........ If girlfriend she's not if caught with then with the guy he's is there |
Re: 10 Bad Habits No Grown Woman Should Have by janettee(f): 10:57pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
Not working out doesn't make you a grown woman?? Rubbish write up .. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Bad Habits No Grown Woman Should Have by Delivar(m): 10:57pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
AryEmber: That number 5 is a no no for me and for your number 9, remember we dey for Ninja oh! ibkayee:
God forbid Biglittlelois: It's only stupid girls that do 3, i can never do 5, 6 applies to fat girls, who work out epp 9 is not compulsory, this is Nigeria duuhh NessaBoo:
I agree with her, she's totally right.
Heard it all before that it's the 21st century! Gender roles don't exist anymore! Women can play the role of men! Blah blah...Okay, perhaps you're right. But why would you want to? I'm all for women's rights, trust. I have had infinitely more opportunities than my grandmother or even my mother had, due to the courage of women who fought for our civil rights.
However, while our mothers and our grandmothers didn't have the opportunities we have, they did have something going for them. They well understood their role! And no, not in the kitchen, barefoot and pregnant. I mean, humble, meek, strong, not pushy, passive, yet passionate.
Hence, when a woman sees an attractive man, she should hold back from approaching him. She is the crown jewel. The man should come and seek his prize! Number 5 is for bold, highly confident and a potentially intelligent woman. You are simply not up to that class of ladies. 8 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: 10 Bad Habits No Grown Woman Should Have by blackmercyvelli(m): 10:58pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
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Re: 10 Bad Habits No Grown Woman Should Have by Diso60090(m): 10:58pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
ponti93: I dont collect numbers, i either give my card or i give my number, its your call Your KP card? |
Re: 10 Bad Habits No Grown Woman Should Have by babtoundey(m): 11:00pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
deepwater: 11. never vote for APC again
And someone just dragged politics into it. |
Re: 10 Bad Habits No Grown Woman Should Have by iceking128(m): 11:00pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
AryEmber: That number 5 is a no no for me and for your number 9, remember we dey for Ninja oh! So u no fit ask us out We Dy ask una out we no knw weytin we Dy do ba? |
Re: 10 Bad Habits No Grown Woman Should Have by 9JAFULLBREED(m): 11:01pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
Elder0001:
Continue giving green light till you end up in Shiloh
This same nonsense mentality is the reason you can't pay your own bills on a date in 2018 |
Re: 10 Bad Habits No Grown Woman Should Have by davillian(m): 11:02pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
ponti93: I dont collect numbers, i either give my card or i give my number, its your call C Ronaldo spotted. If she calls you know she likes you and if she doesn't then you burst the job. |
Re: 10 Bad Habits No Grown Woman Should Have by edicied: 11:02pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
Saving a guys digit as Mugu20 |
Re: 10 Bad Habits No Grown Woman Should Have by theapeman4: 11:10pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
Tombrown3: We tend to outgrow the bad habits we developed in our younger years naturally. If those bad habits didn’t die off, society wouldn’t be able to function because we’d be a bunch of unproductive adult-children sucking our thumbs during meetings and biting our nails in the bread aisle. But, for some people, certain pestiferous habits stick around much longer than they should. These habits should never follow a woman into adulthood.
1. DATING “BAD BOYS.” You’re not a rebel without a cause. You’re a grown ass woman with a job, an apartment and plants. You can’t, in all seriousness, have a “BUT DADDY I LOVE HIM!” attitude and then go home and pay your electric bill. Responsibility and riding off into the sunset on a motorcycle with a greasy-haired convicted felon will never mix. The appeal of the “bad boy” should wear off at the same time you outgrow your training bra.
2. GIVING OUT A FAKE NUMBER. If you’re not interested in a guy and you don’t want to give him your number, then don’t. Turning someone down because you’re not interested isn’t mean, but deliberately giving the guy a wrong number is. So is giving him your actual number and then ignoring all of his texts. If you’re not interested, say so, and tell the guy to have a good night. If he doesn’t leave you alone, revert back into your gargoyle form until he gets scared and leaves.
3. TELLING YOUR FRIENDS EVERY DETAIL OF YOUR SEX LIFE. Your friends do not want to picture you bent over backwards doing the Chattanooga piledriver. It may have been fun to swap stories when sex was brand new for all of you, but its novelty has likely worn off by now. The devil’s business is a normal part of your lives and should remain largely private, especially if your partner isn’t comfortable with you describing every act in graphic detail over brunch using whipped cream and crepes to better illustrate your story.
4. EXCESSIVE SOCIAL MEDIA USAGE. Do you really have nothing better to do than spend hours digging through pictures and posts from people you barely remember? If your life is so boring that you spend most of it living vicariously though everyone else online, maybe you should get some hobbies. If a complete stranger can look at your social media profiles and quickly determine your work schedule, when you get your period, the names of every stuffed animal you’ve ever had and the consistency of your last bowel movement, you are giving out WAY too much information online. If you have enough time to do that, people are going to think you have no life.
5. NOT APPROACHING GUYS. It’s 2018. You don’t have to sit around in your tower waiting for some dude to come rescue you and take you to see a fruity opera. If you see someone who interests you, walk over to him and strike up a conversation. There’s nothing wrong with a woman making the first approach. That “women must be chased” BS needs to die in a fire along with lime-flavored candy and duckface.
6. NOT WORKING OUT. You don’t need to hit the gym so hard that you become a female version of The Mountain, but staying active is important for all adults. Spending all of your free time sitting on your butt shoveling sugar into your face is going to land you on an episode of My 600-lb Life. You only get one body, so make an effort to take care of it.
7. FAILING TO TAKE OFF YOUR MAKEUP AT THE END OF THE DAY. There is no excuse for this one. All you need is a makeup wipe or a bottle of face wash. Cleaning everything off takes two minutes tops. Your skin needs to breathe while you sleep, not suffocate under a day’s worth of makeup and other dirt and grime. Leaving makeup on overnight can cause premature aging, breakouts and defiled pillow cases, among other things. Just wipe yourself off. It isn’t difficult to do that in other areas.
8. COMPLAINING ABOUT YOUR BODY. If you wanted to annoy your friends and make your boyfriend/husband uncomfortable with your insecurities, then you succeeded. Otherwise, complaining about your body accomplishes nothing. There’s no point in comparing your body to someone else’s when they look a certain way and you don’t. We’re all different and our bodies will respond to stress and aging in various ways over time. If there’s something about your appearance that bothers you and you have the power to change it, then by all means, change it. Just don’t voice your complaints constantly to people who have already reassured you that no, you don’t look fat in those jeans.
9. NOT SEEING A GYNECOLOGIST REGULARLY. Lady parts, though awesome, need regular maintenance. It’s important to keep yourself informed on what’s happening down there, especially if you have a predisposition to things like cervical cancer or endometriosis. Regular check ups are good for your health and your peace of mind. See a good doctor regularly and make sure all of your lady machinery is in tip-top shape and ready to go.
10. STAYING IN UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS FOR WAY TOO LONG. Enough with the flimsy, BS excuses. You’re an adult, and you’re miserable with the guy. You don’t have to stay in a bad relationship the same way you don’t have to stand in a puddle of urine in the kiddie pool. Whatever your (disturbing) reasons are, you’re there by choice even though there are plenty of better places to be. All you need is enough willpower to walk away. Naija women will forever remain dumb and stvpid! I advise our guys should stop following those piece of shiit called Naija women 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 10 Bad Habits No Grown Woman Should Have by ibkayee(f): 11:12pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
Tombrown3:
5. NOT APPROACHING GUYS. It’s 2018. You don’t have to sit around in your tower waiting for some dude to come rescue you and take you to see a fruity opera. If you see someone who interests you, walk over to him and strike up a conversation. There’s nothing wrong with a woman making the first approach. That “women must be chased” BS needs to die in a fire along with lime-flavored candy and duckface.
God forbid |
Re: 10 Bad Habits No Grown Woman Should Have by Nobody: 11:17pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
Ok. |
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Re: 10 Bad Habits No Grown Woman Should Have by samysmoothfresh: 11:19pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
ibkayee:
God forbid
lilly-livered freak geek!! |
Re: 10 Bad Habits No Grown Woman Should Have by ibkayee(f): 11:24pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
samysmoothfresh:
lilly-livered freak geek!!
I'm a freak too, why'd you cross it out 1 Like |
Re: 10 Bad Habits No Grown Woman Should Have by NessaBoo(f): 11:24pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
Elder0001:
Continue giving green light till you end up in Shiloh
This same nonsense mentality is the reason you can't pay your own bills on a date in 2018 I agree with her, she's totally right. Heard it all before that it's the 21st century! Gender roles don't exist anymore! Women can play the role of men! Blah blah...Okay, perhaps you're right. But why would you want to? I'm all for women's rights, trust. I have had infinitely more opportunities than my grandmother or even my mother had, due to the courage of women who fought for our civil rights. However, while our mothers and our grandmothers didn't have the opportunities we have, they did have something going for them. They well understood their role! And no, not in the kitchen, barefoot and pregnant. I mean, humble, meek, strong, not pushy, passive, yet passionate. Hence, when a woman sees an attractive man, she should hold back from approaching him. She is the crown jewel. The man should come and seek his prize! 3 Likes |
Re: 10 Bad Habits No Grown Woman Should Have by babeosisi: 11:26pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
Tombrown3: We tend to outgrow the bad habits we developed in our younger years naturally. If those bad habits didn’t die off, society wouldn’t be able to function because we’d be a bunch of unproductive adult-children sucking our thumbs during meetings and biting our nails in the bread aisle. But, for some people, certain pestiferous habits stick around much longer than they should. These habits should never follow a woman into adulthood.
1. DATING “BAD BOYS.” You’re not a rebel without a cause. You’re a grown ass woman with a job, an apartment and plants. You can’t, in all seriousness, have a “BUT DADDY I LOVE HIM!” attitude and then go home and pay your electric bill. Responsibility and riding off into the sunset on a motorcycle with a greasy-haired convicted felon will never mix. The appeal of the “bad boy” should wear off at the same time you outgrow your training bra.
2. GIVING OUT A FAKE NUMBER. If you’re not interested in a guy and you don’t want to give him your number, then don’t. Turning someone down because you’re not interested isn’t mean, but deliberately giving the guy a wrong number is. So is giving him your actual number and then ignoring all of his texts. If you’re not interested, say so, and tell the guy to have a good night. If he doesn’t leave you alone, revert back into your gargoyle form until he gets scared and leaves.
3. TELLING YOUR FRIENDS EVERY DETAIL OF YOUR SEX LIFE. Your friends do not want to picture you bent over backwards doing the Chattanooga piledriver. It may have been fun to swap stories when sex was brand new for all of you, but its novelty has likely worn off by now. The devil’s business is a normal part of your lives and should remain largely private, especially if your partner isn’t comfortable with you describing every act in graphic detail over brunch using whipped cream and crepes to better illustrate your story.
4. EXCESSIVE SOCIAL MEDIA USAGE. Do you really have nothing better to do than spend hours digging through pictures and posts from people you barely remember? If your life is so boring that you spend most of it living vicariously though everyone else online, maybe you should get some hobbies. If a complete stranger can look at your social media profiles and quickly determine your work schedule, when you get your period, the names of every stuffed animal you’ve ever had and the consistency of your last bowel movement, you are giving out WAY too much information online. If you have enough time to do that, people are going to think you have no life.
5. NOT APPROACHING GUYS. It’s 2018. You don’t have to sit around in your tower waiting for some dude to come rescue you and take you to see a fruity opera. If you see someone who interests you, walk over to him and strike up a conversation. There’s nothing wrong with a woman making the first approach. That “women must be chased” BS needs to die in a fire along with lime-flavored candy and duckface.
6. NOT WORKING OUT. You don’t need to hit the gym so hard that you become a female version of The Mountain, but staying active is important for all adults. Spending all of your free time sitting on your butt shoveling sugar into your face is going to land you on an episode of My 600-lb Life. You only get one body, so make an effort to take care of it.
7. FAILING TO TAKE OFF YOUR MAKEUP AT THE END OF THE DAY. There is no excuse for this one. All you need is a makeup wipe or a bottle of face wash. Cleaning everything off takes two minutes tops. Your skin needs to breathe while you sleep, not suffocate under a day’s worth of makeup and other dirt and grime. Leaving makeup on overnight can cause premature aging, breakouts and defiled pillow cases, among other things. Just wipe yourself off. It isn’t difficult to do that in other areas.
8. COMPLAINING ABOUT YOUR BODY. If you wanted to annoy your friends and make your boyfriend/husband uncomfortable with your insecurities, then you succeeded. Otherwise, complaining about your body accomplishes nothing. There’s no point in comparing your body to someone else’s when they look a certain way and you don’t. We’re all different and our bodies will respond to stress and aging in various ways over time. If there’s something about your appearance that bothers you and you have the power to change it, then by all means, change it. Just don’t voice your complaints constantly to people who have already reassured you that no, you don’t look fat in those jeans.
9. NOT SEEING A GYNECOLOGIST REGULARLY. Lady parts, though awesome, need regular maintenance. It’s important to keep yourself informed on what’s happening down there, especially if you have a predisposition to things like cervical cancer or endometriosis. Regular check ups are good for your health and your peace of mind. See a good doctor regularly and make sure all of your lady machinery is in tip-top shape and ready to go.
10. STAYING IN UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS FOR WAY TOO LONG. Enough with the flimsy, BS excuses. You’re an adult, and you’re miserable with the guy. You don’t have to stay in a bad relationship the same way you don’t have to stand in a puddle of urine in the kiddie pool. Whatever your (disturbing) reasons are, you’re there by choice even though there are plenty of better places to be. All you need is enough willpower to walk away. Good If you didn't write this quote your source please I hate plagiarism like amala and oily soup 2 Likes |
Re: 10 Bad Habits No Grown Woman Should Have by stevups(m): 11:27pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
Colourich: Ladies love talking about their sex life, from there they learn different sex styles and become experienced sexually, a problem shared is half solved, if you know, you know.
I don't understand, am I supposed to be approaching guys? please I'm not yet 30. Pls don't wait till 30. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Bad Habits No Grown Woman Should Have by samysmoothfresh: 11:29pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
ibkayee:
I'm a freak too, why'd you cross it out freak, keep "sitting around in your tower waiting for a dude to come rescue and take you to see a fruity opera" till you reach............. |
Re: 10 Bad Habits No Grown Woman Should Have by stevups(m): 11:29pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
You are a real councillor. |
Re: 10 Bad Habits No Grown Woman Should Have by Rocktation(f): 11:30pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
Bullshit. |
Re: 10 Bad Habits No Grown Woman Should Have by Rednose: 11:36pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
12. Gossiping. A really bad & destructive habit. Inability to keep other people's info to yourself. 13. Not minding your business, always wanting to know what's going on in another person's life. 14. Disposing waste items - water sachets, biscuit packaging, fruits waste- anywhere besides the trash can 15. Being rude. Some women think rude is cute - it ain't!! 4 Likes |
Re: 10 Bad Habits No Grown Woman Should Have by ibkayee(f): 11:36pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
samysmoothfresh:
freak, keep "sitting around in your tower waiting for a dude to come rescue and take you to see a fruity opera" till you reach.............
Not with all these thirsty Nigerian guys around 3 Likes |
Re: 10 Bad Habits No Grown Woman Should Have by samysmoothfresh: 11:41pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
ibkayee:
Not with all these thirsty Nigerian guys around
coward!!! The great freak. Ibkayee, scared of mere "thirsty nigerian guys"..........Shocking!!! Like whats the worst that could happen? |
Re: 10 Bad Habits No Grown Woman Should Have by greggng: 11:41pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
Ladies I am GYNECOLOGIST....I can always check you guys for free....I like to know what goes on there.....try me at your own risk |
Re: 10 Bad Habits No Grown Woman Should Have by Jasper14(m): 11:43pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
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Re: 10 Bad Habits No Grown Woman Should Have by ibkayee(f): 11:45pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
samysmoothfresh:
coward!!!
The great freak. Ibkayee, scared of mere "thirsty nigerian guys"..........Shocking!!!
Like whats the worst that could happen? Lol what is there to be scared of? I wouldn’t approach any guy, no matter the ethnicity 1 Like |
Re: 10 Bad Habits No Grown Woman Should Have by Nobody: 11:45pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
stevups:
Pls don't wait till 30. I'm a bit shy, I can't approach a man, also I'm used to men approaching me, its kinda awkward doing their thing. 1 Like |