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Re: Is This Cheating? by Biglittlelois(f): 2:08pm On Dec 04, 2018 |
It's cheating, how can you get over him/her in a week not possible, except love was never there at all |
Re: Is This Cheating? by HARDDON: 10:54pm On Dec 04, 2018 |
MissRaine69: Miss Rain, you ladies are too densed to deal objectively. Your Double entendre ways wouldn't let you. Besides, what you actually mean by been objective in this situation is that we shouldn't take you to roast, help clear your conscience by agreeing with you that what you did was cool. I saw through every line ... I see through every words from a woman. Deny it as you may, it doesn't change the fact that you took a calculated break so you can take a lick. And long may your conscience prick u. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is This Cheating? by HARDDON: 11:04pm On Dec 04, 2018 |
MissRaine69: No, emotional intelligence means telling yourself the truth and opening up to that poor guy. There is nothing hypothetical here. You cheated! Wow, my response was literal? Maybe you should go through them again. I gave you a deep accurate extrapolation from the situation you painted. Some might even say I am a seeth by been so clairvoyant about this. I have been with your type before. Imagine her creating a situation for her serious guy just so we can spend the weekend together! And the wimp of a guy went apologizing for what he didn't even do! Called almost through the night while she was riding me. Until she switched off her phone! Average guys suffers a lot in your hands. Guess what? She went back, accepted his apologies when she was the one that cheated, now they are married. I am not your average Joe MsRain. Bliv me, I'm not There is something I would have shared with you privately, but I don't want to complicate your life, so no, I'm not giving you my number and dnt bother trying to send a mail, I wouldn't respond 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is This Cheating? by MissRaine69(f): 11:31pm On Dec 04, 2018 |
HARDDON:You flatter yourself ...maybe borderline delusional |
Re: Is This Cheating? by MissRaine69(f): 11:49pm On Dec 04, 2018 |
HARDDON:I post what I observe amongst couples What I hear being discussed Questions asked to me Articles I read What I discuss with my friends What I read in books What gets posted on my forum Then along comes individuals like your good self who read a post and rather than discuss you automatically assume it’s a personal article and launch into personal tirade about what you think you know about me.There are many like you here on this forum. Individuals who take everything as is. So assuming you read are all novels true stories about the authors? I am not going to reciprocate with the personal slurs as that would make us equals and we are not. Take what you will from that . One thing is certain you would struggle to work in an international environment with that way of thinking. |
Re: Is This Cheating? by Nobody: 2:37am On Dec 05, 2018 |
HARDDON:This is a move most manipulative, inconsiderate women pull on their love-blinded, docile partners. It's a perfect combination of gaslighting and guilt tripping. So I was sitting out with a friend, his girlfriend, and her sister. Everything going good, everyone fine and having a good time, conversations great. Then out of nowhere disaster struck. His gf's phone rang several times and I could sense her getting uncomfortable a bit. Didn't say so much, no more smiles and all. I guess the guy observed that too so he asks her if she's okay and she doesn't reply. An awkward moment at the table. Her phone keeps ringing but she isn't answering. Boyfriend proceeds to order one more drink for her but she gets really upset and tells him off for wanting to get her drunk. Seriously? It wasn't even an alcoholic drink. Bf asks her why she's acting so bitchy raising her voice on him. At this point she gets the leeway she was looking for. Blows over, acts all angry and says she can't be there anymore and leaves immediately. Sister wants to follow her 'home' but she falls out with her too for no reason. So party's over and everyone leaves. But it's only 9pm and I wasn't gonna cut my night short like that so I called over a couple of guys and we headed to a hotel's poolside bar not far away from where I live. We were drinking and chattering away when I overheard an angry female voice at the table behind me telling someone on the phone, "stop disturbing me with your stupid calls and apologies" I'm beginning to get a little bit tipsy with a blurry vision but I recognize the voice and turn to see who it really was. Well, you guessed right. My friend's GF, hanging out with another man and looking so happy. I made sure to not let her see or hear me as I wanted to observe her a bit. So they're done drinking and next move? Into the hotel. It's 12:30am at the time. She's getting fuvked overnight and my poor guy is killing himself trying to make up with her for getting her upset!! What was really interesting to me though, is not her cheating, but how she deployed an impeccable manipulative move to create a win-win situation for her which my guy couldn't see through. He's being cheated on but still made to apologise! Now tbh I was impressed at how she played her cards so perfectly, but it reinforced my staunch stance of never getting myself into the irrational emotional bondage called love. |
Re: Is This Cheating? by MissRaine69(f): 11:11am On Dec 05, 2018 |
FRoosevelt: I asked a hypothetical question based on no one in particular but a series of observations and incidents that I amalgamated into that one scenario. The problem with this forum is you post and rather than look at it as a scenario that could take place anywhere it’s taken literally. So sad. 1 Like |
Re: Is This Cheating? by Nobody: 12:21pm On Dec 05, 2018 |
MissRaine69:I have to let you know MissRaine69, I wasn't really replying to your original post. That guy's story I quoted was quite similar to what I experienced so I felt the need to share with him. I wouldn't just take your post up there as your personal story ( even if it were) because I do understand that you want to raise a thought provoking scenario to get people on here to discuss and contribute their views and opinions. It's ridiculous that they instead, are blaming you as the perpetrator and are going into emotional overdrive, taking it personally. On the subject though, I'd say it's quite a complicated situation and not like a black and white kinda stuff. It might or might not be considered cheating depending on the circumstances and intentions surrounding the break up. Such circumstances, I might discuss later when I'm more motivated. And oh, snap off that sad face and put on a nice smile Miss. 1 Like |
Re: Is This Cheating? by HARDDON: 7:51pm On Dec 05, 2018 |
MissRaine69: Arrhh, yet another cheap attempt at an uncalculated manipulation. Lmao @ miss international! I'd school your tool internationally. Though stuck in your village however. Ofcourse not, we are no equals you couldn't hold a candle to the least of the ladies I've rolled with MissRain manipulator let alone have any opportunity to split hairs with me if not for the wonders of the internet. Dabble into any plain you so suit as you try to hoodwink the gullible with this stew. To me, you are nothing but a lil baby trying her hands at manipulative manoeuvre for the very first time. Now run along #HenceOnIgnored 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is This Cheating? by MissRaine69(f): 8:06pm On Dec 05, 2018 |
HARDDON:Vos non potestis figere stultus 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is This Cheating? by Jaqenhghar: 8:48pm On Dec 05, 2018 |
Nope |
Re: Is This Cheating? by HARDDON: 9:01pm On Dec 05, 2018 |
MissRaine69: ne de ucuz bir fahişeyi tamir edemezsin In an unmaaped part of Nigeria forming international with Google translate. Run along cheap lil one 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is This Cheating? by MissRaine69(f): 9:15pm On Dec 05, 2018 |
HARDDON:Nothing but just a mere p.enis with a thesaurus .... 1 Like |
Re: Is This Cheating? by Nobody: 9:16pm On Dec 05, 2018 |
MissRaine69:
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Re: Is This Cheating? by Nobody: 9:29pm On Dec 28, 2018 |
ChopBellefull:Harvesting |
Re: Is This Cheating? by Kidaholic(m): 9:53pm On Dec 28, 2018 |
Dabble into any plain you so suit as you try to hoodwink the gullible with this stew. To me, you are nothing but a lil baby trying her hands at manipulative manoeuvre for the very first time
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Re: Is This Cheating? by baralatie(m): 10:02pm On Dec 28, 2018 |
ChopBellefull:good question 1 Like |
Re: Is This Cheating? by carter009(m): 10:06pm On Dec 28, 2018 |
Seriously I pity guys that do all this Love bullshit things.... FRoosevelt: |
Re: Is This Cheating? by carter009(m): 10:12pm On Dec 28, 2018 |
Lol, continue bleeping from one guy to they other, keep fooling yourself. MissRaine69: |
Re: Is This Cheating? by openmine(m): 10:43pm On Dec 28, 2018 |
HARDDON: 2 Likes
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