solasoulmusic:
what I think she meant was that to avoid any kind of stories that touch she avoids putting them in close proximity intimately. It can be interpreted to mean she doesn’t trust him but in her views she’s just trying to avoid the obvious it’s more like a preventative move as opposed to being ignorant that these things happen

YouareaBITCH:
She's being a protective mother, that's all.


Alot of girls abused by their dads, their mothers didn't see it coming.. They all trusted their men too.

Prevention they say is better than cure.



I know of a lady, that has told her little daughter to keep her distance from her uncle's room
Is not like she doesn't trust her brother,she's just acting according to recent happenings

But in all, it shouldn't be the kind of thing to be made public.

fredoooooo:
But you're going to bath your son ? ...

Exwizard:
Just say your husband is a phidophile

Mynd44:
If you want have your husband bathe your daughter, it means there is something she isn't telling us about her husband.

It means a part of her large enough to influence her decisions see certain actions in him that makes her think he is capable of such despicable action. It is not a factor of all men but her marriage is kinda weird.

She needs to address her husband which she has claimed has peadophilic tendencies.

pocohantas:


Your adjectives and blue fonts won't change the fact it happens. Anything else to add?

Chai...my blue font is now getting in your way too?

What am i adding when you've successfully agreed to my earlier assertion? It happens and it's the reason why your agitation is always dead on arrival.

Na una go still complain when the man decides to use his money for his own needs and neglects the kids. Confused much?

6digitscomrade:
God bless ur wisdom..

kazyhm:


I'm not saying it doesn't happen but to say this boldly in public put the husband is some kind of trust spot. Just think about the after effect of this statement. Why will she make example out of her home in the first place ? What is she trying to tell to the world ?

naijaboiy:

Chai...my blue font is now getting in your way too?

What am i adding when you've successfully agreed to my earlier assertion? It happens and it's the reason why your agitation is always dead on arrival.

Na una go still complain when the man decides to use his money for his own needs and neglects the kids. Confused much?

sanpipita:


You claim I'm changing the topic then go ahead and twist her words, since when did not trusting her husband bathing their daughter turn to he can't be trusted with small girls, I said this earlier you guys are bent on blowing her comments out of proportion, she isnt only woman who feels this way, her opinion is totally hinged on fear and you can't say isn't valid.

fredoooooo:
But you're going to bath your son ? ... Ii

Mynd44:
If you want have your husband bathe your daughter, it means there is something she isn't telling us about her husband.

It means a part of her large enough to influence her decisions see certain actions in him that makes her think he is capable of such despicable action. It is not a factor of all men but her marriage is kinda weird.

She needs to address her husband which she has claimed has peadophilic tendencies.

Mynd44:
If you want have your husband bathe your daughter, it means there is something she isn't telling us about her husband.

It means a part of her large enough to influence her decisions see certain actions in him that makes her think he is capable of such despicable action. It is not a factor of all men but her marriage is kinda weird.

She needs to address her husband which she has claimed has peadophilic tendencies.

pocohantas:


Which your house? When will you Nigerian men, get it into your thick skulls that the home belongs to husband and wife? When?

asawanathegreat:
so where is the trust?

kindnyce:
Women should just respect their old age.
What's wrong when Daddy bath his beloved innocent daughter?

frenzyduchess:
And you think a sick pedophile father will not still abuse his daughter even if he doesn't bath her?
The only way to curb this is to encourage children to speak up when anybody including daddy touches them in their private part ,encourage them to trust that you as a mother will protect them even from their own father should it come to that,simple,life is too short to live in paranoi.

Okoroawusa:
There is an age my daughter will get to n I won't bathe her either

HardBishop:


but na true she talk sha.. don't trust men

swiz123:
I trust my husband but won't allow him bathe my daughter.

Isn't her statement self-contradictory?

This is a big insult to the unfortunate man who wasted his money by paying her bride price.

No matter how hard I try to push the thought that her father molested her as a kid, it just won't go away.

Okoroawusa:
There is an age my daughter will get to n I won't bathe her either

naijaboiy:

No she's just a paranoid and anxious fück. Probably diagnosed with Bipolar and anxiety disorder, due to a traumatizing experience she may have had in the past.

That mental issue has fùcked her thinking up to the extent that she can't trust her kid with the biological father. It has nothing to do with her husband being a pedophile, she needs serious therapy.

Xisnin:

As an adult, you should understand that a few words may mean many things.
A wife is afraid of letting her husband bath her child and you think it is normal?
Any woman who lives in the same house with such a man is a criminal and a monster
who doesn't care about her children

What stop the man from molesting his daughter if she quickly goes out on an errand?
Do you think paedophiles would leave their victim because they aren't bathing them?