we dated for 3 years, and he came up wit geting married to me, december last year, he came to my place and tried to see my parents,they talked about marriage stuff, he promised to come back january to get the list,

all i got, was a phone call,telling me  that he is not happy cos he some told his elder brother about his intensions and his brother became angry, why he did noy inform him,

well he concluded that he will get it hot wit who ever said that, i know i did not even call his bros,not to even discuss such,which i told him the truth.

March this year, he called it off, telling me that they told him in his church( CHERUBIM AND SERAPHIM) that we are nt compatible,that he will die soon, can u believe this?

i was amazed, although it hurts, but not becos of his person, but for 3 wasted years,
Now i find it hard to LOVE again,i dont trust any man, please i need matured mind on this,

wat should i do now!!!!!!!!!

onething thing i always believe is when things dont work out as planned ,always trust god he has a better plan for u.wat u may gain later may be 20 times that 3 yrs.This is an experience that will help u later in life. we cant use because somebody died inside river niger and not drink water again.u have to give love another chance because mr. right may be just by the corner.

3 wasted years? that was all it meant to you!

surely u was desperate to tie the not, but don't mean you should term those years together wasted.

i guess u didnt luv d guy, u called d 3years a waste
jus go on wit life, destiny is destiny.

There was no love before. simple

Thanks Alusi, i know God will make me happy cos i never cheated or offend him, i dont know why everything went like that,cant figure it my self,

@izeek, am not desperate,i never ask him to go that fast,he single handedly went to my parents,i did not force himoooo


beside, dont u think 3 years of courtship is too much to tie the knot?
u wanna court for 10 years?

i guess u didnt luv d guy, u called d 3years a waste Huh
jus go on wit life, destiny is destiny.


@ Makadi not a waste at alll, slip of teeth, at least, i realize on time that he was joking wif me,

deefact:

i guess u didnt luv d guy, u called d 3years a waste Huh
jus go on wit life, destiny is destiny.


@ Makadi not a waste at alll, slip of teeth, at least, i realize on time that he was joking wif me,

ok, gudluk wit love.

@ adiaero, thanks, i will try

Holy cow!!!this is simply hilarious.i didn't know dat ancient practices like dis is still in existence.Gee dat waz really immature of him. Dis is definitely mayday.i wonder y others complain of achilles foot while others hve achilles brain.my dear he waz jxt lookin 4 an opportunity 2 dump u.wise up ma dear.real guys will come

@Poster
first of all thank God he walked away when he did. what would you have done if he came up with reasons as silly as these to leave you after you guys had tied the knot?
secondly it is time to get on with life. that one guy disappoints you does not mean that everyone out there is the same. there is some good guy out there waiting for you and if you seclude yourself you will never get to meet him.
finally the 3 years were not wasted. rather they are an experience you should learn from. if you had not had this experience you may well walk into the same situation later on. at least now you know better.
put on a smile and go out. the world is waiting for you!

The cherubush and serafool people poisoned his fake heart.

@Poster
first of all thank God he walked away when he did. what would you have done if he came up with reasons as silly as these to leave you after you guys had tied the knot?
secondly it is time to get on with life. that one guy disappoints you does not mean that everyone out there is the same. there is some good guy out there waiting for you and if you seclude yourself you will never get to meet him.
finally the 3 years were not wasted. rather they are an experience you should learn from. if you had not had this experience you may well walk into the same situation later on. at least now you know better.
put on a smile and go out. the world is waiting for you! Wink

@ kila, with ur words of advise,am smiling already, thank you.

The cherubush and serafool people poisoned his fake heart.


u make me laugh, funny u, well ttnx, u guy are making my day,

i luv ur spirit gurl.Move on,hope u learnt a thng or 2 abt r'shp management dat wil help in ur nxt stop?wsh u d best

There are better men out there,just keep you head low and you will be amazed how many you will find
For the records that your ex is a dork

poster
i pity you, please take heart,
he was never yours and mark my words sooner or later he would
come bak pleading wif u 2 give him another chance

i advise you get another guy and date immediately so u can forget abt him
we have tons of em, here,

like odiaero,dobodobo,candylips,dual core and MOBO444 ( a korean) if you are interested in datin whites~

@ 190,please i think dats wat i will do, they should apply, dawus14real@yahoo.com.

hope they are good?
thanks dear,

Okpo!

190,mgbo Let apply,or add me on FB, i mean good and interested ones,God fearing, uya
Mr.Cork and Okija_juju,chelseabmw and 170 see u soon

@deefect i can now understand y u felt so gutted.no no no dats not d attitude.u seem 2 desperate 2 get married and not lookin 4 love or compatibity or even @least understandin. I wont b surprised 2 see a post dat says NOT AGAIN OR I FEEL SO USED.

@deefect i can now understand y u felt so gutted.no no no dats not d attitude.u seem 2 desperate 2 get married and not lookin 4 love or compatibity or even @least understandin. I wont b surprised 2 see a post dat says NOT AGAIN OR I FEEL SO USED.


vky2k3,do u know me?
why do u judge people so fast, u surprise me, i thought we are all here to help?

are u here to abuse me?
u cant even stand me to my face,cos u don't know me, i bet u, am 1000 times better and more decent than u,

u talk dirty as a lady, may be u are talking based on experience.are u jealous that am inviting those guys? wats ur own
please mind ur business pls and leave my post, its for matured minds,

@ Op

A broking relationship is batter than a broking marriage. Stop saying you wont LOVE again, you will, wen you see or feel true LOVE den you will know this ones re not really LOVE.

@ pash, thank you for ur advise, i appreciate, the only thing there is, i don't wana forn*****cte, am praying, god will make a way,


@vic2k3, i think you are not married urself and kind of frustrated seeing me about getting there, instead of advising, u go about abusing a fellow woman like u dat is in pain, chei na waoooo

look am still a small babe ok? u can check me on FB, and see my profile, pix and were i work, AM NOT DESPERATE, OK?

i dated him 3years, without cheating on him,dat alone made me a proud girl, how about u?

deefact = 190

@deefact. points of correction:
1)mis typed name<it's vic2k3>
2)misplaced gender(i am a man or rather a gentleman)
3) misinterpretation of intentions. Bin a man (not married as u said) i felt angry,irked,annoyed,gutted @ d inhuman attitude of ur ex-fiancé. So plz take note.then on d other hand i wont like us 2 be enemies or foes so i am sorry 4 misunderstandin ur post.i will leave if u still insist.

@deefect i can now understand y u felt so gutted.no no no dats not d attitude.u seem 2 desperate 2 get married and not lookin 4 love or compatibity or even @least understandin. I wont b surprised 2 see a post dat says NOT AGAIN OR I FEEL SO USED.

vic2k3 1 u mis typed name, am <deefact, not deefect>
2 u did nt put ur gender,so dnt talk abt dat
3 u judge too quick, if am nt decent he woulnd't av gone to my parents
4 hw do u know we ar nt compatible or are u the cherubim pastor?
5 did i tell u that am desperate? i only ask if dat is true love,
6 how did u know we dnt undastand each other, we dnt quarrel mind u
7 we courted 4 (3years,) how else do u want me to understand him?(12YRS)?
8 Did u see u jumped to conclusion?
9 cnt be used again,cos am decent
10 u dont talk like a man, mind u, we can still b friends, dat is if u want,
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190.:

poster
i pity you, please take heart,
he was never yours and mark my words sooner or later he would
come bak pleading wif u 2 give him another chance
i advise you get another guy and date immediately so u can forget abt him
we have tons of em, here,
like odiaero,dobodobo,candylips,dual core and MOBO444 ( a korean) if you are interested in datin whites~

Papa is right, i could make good use of you, please elaborate more on what you want from me before i will give you my contact details.

His brother advised him against marrying you, not the church.

ok i am sorry for
1)for typing deefet instead of deefact- u suppose understand now keyboard error
2)no apology for not saying 
3) i hve already said i am sorry 
4)hey don't say dat, dats funy 
5)also hve stated this lol in my last post 
6)neva said   
7)ur pain i do share 
yea i know
9)if u say so
10)haba calculator yes we can b what is ur yahoo id
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