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|Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by BabaIbo: 11:51pm On Dec 20, 2018|
Having a bad wife is better than having a bad in-law...
Your mum loves you more than the way your fiancee and her family do.
Is this how your mom used to act prior to this situation?
Can you cope with your fiancee in the future when the problem arise (increase since the problem is there already).
No lady or guy is perfect, they all have weakness but what matters is covering up for each other and not using it against themselves.
If truly your woman is disrespectful, my brother think twice before going into a relationship that your mom is against(especially when you don't know why she is against it and again your woman and family are aware that your mom is against it), if you do, with time you will realize why she is against it.
What about your dad, what is his take on the issue?
|Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by Nobody: 11:51pm On Dec 20, 2018|
See sense thumbs up
|Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by djon78: 11:51pm On Dec 20, 2018|
Fate is trying to warn you, but you can't understand
You are soft, you are not assertive like a man
If I were you listen to your mum
Intact shift the wedding to August not even April
Let everything expose itself
Don't rush this
And you sound like a very young man
So take your time
|Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by Nobody: 11:56pm On Dec 20, 2018|
Bro I will support u and also go against u
Non of them is good bad wife / bad in law
And will now supports u ; there is something the mother is seeing dat the guy is not because lve done cloud e eye already, the mother can't walk to him and say don't marry dis girl, because do u kw why, e day back fire mostly when d son is very stubborn, he will foolishly go and tell d wife ( may b he don go hid marry her) say his mother said he shouldn't marry her that time, by then PART 2 wahala don start again, ,,,,,,,,you hardly see parents tell there children not to marry a particular person instead they will fight it to make sure the occasion does not hold
|Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by publicenemy(m): 11:56pm On Dec 20, 2018|
If she is so eager to quit the relationship I suggest you just let her go. You should never beg a woman to be with you, no matter what. Shift it to April and if she decides to throw away 3 Years of relationship with you then let her go otherwise you marriage will not last.
|Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by Nobody: 11:57pm On Dec 20, 2018|
Best Advice of the year 2018
|Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by koyyes: 11:58pm On Dec 20, 2018|
You caused this by dating for too long.
You must have said something to your mum about the girl that is making her drag her feet. If you really love this girl, why can't you convince your mum to accept the date?
You've been dating this girl for 3 good years and now, you find out she is not submissive. Must she have all the right qualities and yet, be a dundi united? You can't have it all so stop being difficult if not, the God that does not sleep will ensure you meet worst females.
If you have suddenly become allergic to miss independent and you are looking for the type that will be a robot for you, there a many of them but you must pay them heavily for playing that part otherwise, your home will forever be unstable.
|Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by madridsta007(m): 11:58pm On Dec 20, 2018|
This advise will ruin you, Mr Man.
People, do not dishonour your parents because of a man or woman whom you have no spiritual attachment to. A boyfriend/girlfriend/fiancee/fiance is not a husband/wife. This is basic understanding.
Dont be foolish and let emotions be the decision-maker for you. Emotions are a terrible decision-making methodology.
Use logic and common sense.
There are millions of women out there that can easily replace her- do men ever understand this?
|Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by tola9jaa: 11:59pm On Dec 20, 2018|
May be your mother didn't like her
|Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by Nobody: 11:59pm On Dec 20, 2018|
There is another guy in d picture already that's why the girl has d boldness to say she wan comot from d 3 year old relationship........op never smart for woman matter
|Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by youngdopeboy: 12:01am On Dec 21, 2018|
Broh, why desperate they threaten you upandan and you comfortable with it you should control the whole thing not to be controlled!!! wait, I don't get it!!! you wanna choose her over your own mother you would have been the greatest fool of all time....... the should call it off nah.... is it your life that they are calling off mtchwww
|Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by U1(m): 12:02am On Dec 21, 2018|
I don't think this can ever be an issue for me if God makes the kind of wedding I desire possible. No too much noise or too many people.
I am sure it's the entire ceremony that comes with a wedding that's responsible for particular interests in specific date.
Focus should be on what comes after the day. But people...
|Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by KingKJ2014: 12:03am On Dec 21, 2018|
With Her Age, I seriously suspect there is guy somewhere.
|Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by Nobody: 12:03am On Dec 21, 2018|
youngdopeboy:I tire o
|Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by flyca: 12:04am On Dec 21, 2018|
1. You dated a lady for 3 whole years, got engaged to her, now you have small problem with her and you are calling her “this girl”.
Something is wrong with your head
2. What exactly do you mean by lack of respect? So you want a working class woman (obviously a family can't run fully with only your income), then you also want her to be prostrating to serve you beans and bread. And maybe answer you “sir”, abi?
You are out of your mind!
Shebi her mother told you to leave their daughter alone? Eh... Why did you go and beg? Why not marry a pre-mature woman that don't know her left from right? Someone that is not working?
I am almost compelled to curse you!
|Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by globatop: 12:04am On Dec 21, 2018|
The lady might feel insecured with changed dates, take ur girl to Registry, take ur certificate, party can follow anytime.
|Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by asuustrike1: 12:04am On Dec 21, 2018|
IamD18:Have you thought of his mother'sI proposition?. His would be in laws are not taking him serious because of wedding date or do you think other suitors are not coming?
I see that the guy is not mature enough to make decision hence believing some fallacy of his mother cursing him for standing his ground. Na him dey marry,na him dey wear d shoe. So you expect him to stick to his mother's date because of one silly curse? Let him stand is ground. If his parent disapprove then he should approve the law court. Anybody can stand as a parent since this archaic parents of ours are bend of destroying people's joy. My friend got married years back without involving his parent
|Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by maj59(m): 12:05am On Dec 21, 2018|
|Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by Nobody: 12:06am On Dec 21, 2018|
Shift the date to June not even April that your mum wants. Intentionally do that.
Stand like a man now and show that you are the decision maker.
If you don't start now ,you will never be able to make decisions she will honour in your marriage.
If she decides to leave. Let her go.
You may think you will never love any other like her but its a lie, Its because you have never tried loving another.
|Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by Nobody: 12:06am On Dec 21, 2018|
There is already guy , ,,,but am not sure d op is aware, ,,,,d OP should just tell her he is no long interested in her because she don't keep their affair to her self, ,,,,,the OP will b surprised to see d girl wedding card to another guy b4 middle of Jan......he go surprise
|Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by Nobody: 12:09am On Dec 21, 2018|
Am sure dis is the guys first love
I tell guys fall in love as much as u can make woman kw see u finish but they go say am a Christian.......while some go endure con die at 50 years out of frustration and terrible marriage way d wife don put am tru
|Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by Emanodimo(m): 12:11am On Dec 21, 2018|
From, what you have said your mother doesn't like her. Also, for your mum to think of cursing u tells she doesn't like ur gf , not bcuz of u. Ur mom suggested April, while ur gf suggested February tells that she doesn't like ur gf .
Ask you mum why she doesn't want you to get marry to her, she will pour her mind .
Ur gf choose to be unrealistic, what's her age that she feels like date changes can harm her achievement .
Go along with one of ur aunt to pay ur gf parent visit. Trust me, she will perceive what is wrong about her ur gf nature for disrespect. . .......
Then, u will understand why ur mom have been behaving like that .
Also , both of u should meet marriage counselor and pastor
|Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by Nobody: 12:12am On Dec 21, 2018|
I was once in a relationship where my fiancee's parents were putting so much pressure on me to marry their daughter. They promised heaven and earth to make sure that everything go according to plan. I noticed their desperacy and an unusual discussions whenever I'm with them.
We both love each other to the extent that she had started working on how to go about change of name ...but then my mom was strongly against it. At first, I refused to listen to her because I was scared of losing my beautiful angel and the fear of starting all of over again gave me a serious concern.
My mom informed everybody and they all join hands
that it is more safer for me to have a broken relationship than a failed marriage. Though it was very painful for me but I had to drop the relationship and let her go, months before our planned wedding dat. I just looked for an excuse to cover it up and let her see why marriage wasn't an option for me that time. She cried, cried and cried for several days but then it was better for us to be happy separately than being a the other way round.
Now, years after we are both happy in our respective ways.... please, becareful with your decision there might be a reason (that's beyond your understanding) why your mom doesn't want it to be done in February.
|Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by KingKJ2014: 12:12am On Dec 21, 2018|
The fact that she has the guts to call off the relationship and he has to beg. Baba is already playing a losing game.
His fear is "Where will I start from?", "What will people say?", "I cant get a woman like her again"
You better tell yourself the unpleasant truth than those comforting lies.
THERE IS ALWAYS A PATH IN THE DARKEST FOREST.
DONT SETTLE FOR MEDIOCRITY.
|Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by Emvicprints1: 12:13am On Dec 21, 2018|
Op I sorry for your life by the time you would have quarrel after marriage her mother would so torment your life you would want to kill your self. My brother just run run for your life
|Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by djon78: 12:14am On Dec 21, 2018|
and most of the time the next one that comes will be 100x better. Happened to me. My babe then called off our relationship. It was painful, but the next woman that came around was 100x better in looks, character, love and respect for me.
Fate is warning that guy
|Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by flyca: 12:15am On Dec 21, 2018|
I will let for enjoy your foolery because you are not the OP! May what has befallen him not befall you. Shebi he went to the girl's family to beg and cry before they accepted him back
You refer to your woman as “this girl” and you are crying lack of disrespect. Wonderful!
|Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by IYANGBALI: 12:16am On Dec 21, 2018|
Pls let me have the girl's number, we can still do our wedding this year
|Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by Nathan2016: 12:16am On Dec 21, 2018|
What i followed here is that both families have childish pride.
Oga you and your woman should decide when you want the wedding base on your both of your convinence.
Wedding no b marriage o
Forget those people talking bullshit like marriage is bla bla bla both marriage.
Ask any of the families to bring money for ordinary decoration. Yo wil see run
|Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by Lexusgs430: 12:17am On Dec 21, 2018|
My friend, it is not said that you must marry this girl..... Loads of red flags seen........ If you are already having issues with your inlaws now, not a good sign for the future..
|Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by Nobody: 12:19am On Dec 21, 2018|
No b lie bro
,such relationship after married it does not last, ,,,that was how a friend of my got fried up because he refused to accept reality, ,,,it was after marriage it became done on him that he married an unsubmissive lady as a wife, ,,,
She refuse to relocate with him because my mother said I should not go to that state with u, ,,,and dats d state d guy has all his investment worth millions of naira........dude got frustrated and had to back out,no divorce no separation just parted ways
I don't like a mummy's girls or a daddy's girl, ,,trust me they are thorns on d flesh
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