oludashmi:

You are right.
Engr nephew keeps repeating how they fasted and prayed and how she never did anything for them. You call someone Aunty repeatedly and you talk to her in public like this? It would have been better to call her Baby Girl!

People think when a relative ascend to a high position they must have an unnecessary portion, mschew. However you decide to rubbish your family in public that is your headache, all we want is good record like she did as the ex-DG of NAFDAC, afterall, we saw the ConSoludotion era and how Sanusi came to expose him. Shamless people.

Xavier.:

I knew the real Dora was gonna come out soon. The NAFDAC show was nothing but drama. All Nigerians are d same, greedy and selfish

OMO IBO:

There are too many holes to pick in the write up. Lets start with this.
Missy, why dont you chew on this . . . .

na_so:

Kindly provide the link between extended  family difference and ones performance as a public officer. The way some of us talk make it almost impossible   to hope for a better nigeria

oludashmi:

You are right.
Engr nephew keeps repeating how they fasted and prayed and how she never did anything for them. You call someone Aunty repeatedly and you talk to her in public like this? It would have been better to call her Baby Girl!

People think when a relative ascend to a high position they must have an unnecessary portion, mschew. However you decide to rubbish your family in public that is your headache, all we want is good record like she did as the ex-DG of NAFDAC, afterall, we saw the ConSoludotion era and how Sanusi came to expose him. Shamless people.

na_so:

Kindly provide the link between extended family difference and ones performance as a public officer. The way some of us talk make it almost impossible to hope for a better nigeria

Ujujoan:

How she relates with people goes a lot to show the kind of person she is. No one wants a psycopath for a leader.

Correct me if I'm worng, but being a public officer doesn't give her the right to oppress her family.   

Plus as a public officer, she should have respect for authorities and if what they said she did at the burial is true, then Madam got it all wrong!

Ujujoan:

You are forgetting she made a promise . . .  'pray and fast and your lives will never be the same again'!

I wonder if she was planning on changing their lives on her civil service salary in NAFDAC  

Xavier.:

I knew the real Dora was gonna come out soon. The NAFDAC show was nothing but drama. All Nigerians are d same, greedy and selfish

Theblessed:

[b]This is sad!  For a family to tear themselves up this way, is really sad.

Satan will always try to destroy anything good God has made and, he usually succeeds through a weak  (i.e. physically, mentally, emotionally, psychologically and spiritually weak) family member, it's a pity. But, with God everything is possible! Just have faith in him you will triumph!

We all understand that this essay here is not only touching but heart breaking however, we also know that there are two sides to every story, don't we?  Dora has not said hers yet. Therefore, we reserve our judgement.
And for those who criticise the write-up above, take it easy in your criticisms!  Remember, this family is going through emotionally and psychologically traumatic phase in their lives, for them to come here to open their hearts to the world is a cry of desperation.

Perhaps through years, months, weeks, days, hours, minutes and, seconds of time had tried to make peace among themselves but failed woefully thus, decided this is the only medium to get each others attention to that end therefore, cease your criticisms and stop adding salt to injury.  For it does not pay anyone to kick someone who is already on the ground, does it?HuhHuh? So, sympathise with this family's plight instead of helping to destroy it with silly remarks on here.

This family is emotionally, psychologically and spiritually suffering, just help with your God driven advice and support the best you can, please!  Yes, they hadn't ask for our help on here but a person created by God, you naturally have it in you to help others in whichever way you can so, do it in order to save the lost souls in this family.
The devil is at work here and we should all try to stop satan and his agents in his destruction of this family via our godly and peaceful advice/support.


For my support, I suggest this family first of all seek spiritual help and that's the only way to destroy satan and his people.  Seek God first, take your problems to him and he would resolve it! Seek help though his highly spiritually gifted and humble Apostles (not those that made/call themselves bishops please, no!) There are many highly gifted Apostles in the world today, you don't look for them but beware of the wolves out there too!!!!! That's all I can say and may God bring eternal peace to your family in Jesus Name, Amen!!![/b]

Ujujoan:

How she relates with people goes a lot to show the kind of person she is. No one wants a psycopath for a leader.

Correct me if I'm worng, but being a public officer doesn't give her the right to oppress her family.   

Plus as a public officer, she should have respect for authorities and if what they said she did at the burial is true, then Madam got it all wrong!

oludashmi:

Have you heard Dora's part of the story concerning relationship with her family before your conclusion? People will say this and even worse about you no matter how try for them especially when you rise to become a public figure. Dont be surprised what Dora will list to have done for them if she tries to reply based on relaltionship but people (Africans) are never satisfied.

Theblessed:


For my support, I suggest this family [b]first of all seek spiritual help and that's the only way to destroy satan and his people. Seek God first, take your problems to him and he would resolve it! Seek help though his highly spiritually gifted and humble Apostles (not those that made/call themselves bishops please, no!) There are many highly gifted Apostles in the world today, you don't look for them but beware of the wolves out there too!!!!! That's all I can say and may God bring eternal peace to your family in Jesus Name, Amen!!![/b]

whiteroses:

abeg no mind them, the boy even sound retarded, Dora stepped on abomination land, she brought soldiers, does he expect her to show up alone with no security dem nor fit kidnap her? abomination land my foot.

oludashmi:

Have you heard Dora's part of the story concerning relationship with her family before your conclusion? People will say this and even worse about you no matter how try for them especially when you rise to become a public figure. Dont be surprised what Dora will list to have done for them if she tries to reply based on relaltionship but people (Africans) are never satisfied.

Neptunz:

why defend dora ? or Are you her spokesman ? The woman has always been in the news anyways i wont disregard the letter cuz of her antecdent for craving for public attention.

OMO IBO:

For goodness sakes, what are you on about??
How do you she is a psycopath??
Do you have any proof to show that her family is oppresed by her??

If anything, the bogus write up by the so called nephew on that bogus link only known to anamabrarians should answer your question.

Read between the lines missy. read bewteen the lines.
Again madam, this has absolutely nothing to do with anything.
We are talking about a fueding family.
You need to be able to differentiate between family and professional/political issues.

Have you heard Dora's part of the story concerning relationship with her family before your conclusion? People will say this and even worse about you no matter how try for them especially when you rise to become a public figure. Don’t be surprised what Dora will list to have done for them if she tries to reply based on relationship but people (Africans) are never satisfied.

Ujujoan:

Actions they say speaks louder than words . .  I don't need to hear what she has to say!

No matter what was wrong with your r/ship with people, you should respect death. If she wanted to  make a statement, she should have stayed away from the burial instead of making a spectacle of the whole thing.

And trust me, there is some truth to what nephew engr. said. I wasn't there but I know someone who was! 

Anayways, that’s their headaceh so me, I’m not drinking panadol for it!

Hmmn madam Uju!
I am not supporting any but becareful what somebody said that another person said and told another person who told you.

If what they said she did is true, then she is indeed a psychopath! And mind you, I'm not just hearing from Nephew Engr. . . .

I am not buying his story hook line and sinker, but you just have to accept that Dora's not the saint you think she is. You keep defending her like your life depends on it. Nobody’s expecting her to be perfect and we all know how people tend to get carried away with power!

oludashmi:

I guess I am and probably she has paid me for it. But why are you asking this question on behalf of her nephew, are you a spokesman to him too?

If you read my replies from the first page till now, you will use see that I am neutral to any ones side but made it known that it is a family matter, but people who cant differenciate btw public service (which matters to citizens) and family relationship (which should be a private thing) will always make me reply.

I mean, read Engr nephew's write-up, you will summarise what is paining him

Neptunz:

dora has always been a hypocrite to me;starting from her over-blown personality to the yaradua saga,so don't need a soothsayer to tell me anything about her.this is a family issue that has been brought to the public,all thanks to dora's pride and ego.
The guy was only angry at the ugly incident that happened before and during the funeral.dora who was never in good terms with her aunt nor was she available when she was needed decided to turn the funeral into politics when the woman eventaully died.this is the most painful part that drew my attentiion and if this can be established,then dora is not worth defending.like i said,only hypocrites could have behave in such way which dora happens to be one.