DookShop:


Really! What even is the difference between this practice and those women in the east used just to breed children put up for sale for God knows what?

The surrogate mom can never access the child because of the signed NDA agreement. The hospital or agency do not follow up with the new parent. Not bound too. That can also be because of a ND clause in the agreement. If the new parents are not trying to pass off the child as their's, then what really is the reason for this? And if the new parents are not actually passing it off as their's, why not just adopt so that the parent can at least see the child or at least know how the child is faring, periodically?

With the craziness going on in this country, i won't be shocked if some of these surrogate babies are gotten for purposes other than raising them as part of a loving family.

I hope I'm wrong however.

You are not wrong. It's a very dark and shady business.

notoriousbabe:
Ajepako will you be my surrogate murder?





..Animal is this but is kill no one it has kill but gorilla is kill no for friends and is kill and say is consumption of is not good but is kill it. God is seeing it.

Very good. So l can murder you.

Salaro werey llorin

See below

I disagree with u

IamaNigerianGuy:


What exactly should be encouraged ?

Preying on young desperately poor women ? Using human beings as incubators for babies and thereafter discarding them ? Putting women through all the risks and dangers of pregnancy without the corresponding benefits ? Being a middle man for a borderline shady practice ?
This practice is exploitative and immoral. It is on par with sex change operations and organ harvesting. People have had fertility issues since the dawn of time and they did not die. The world did not come to an end.

If you cannot have a baby, adopt one.

PrincessC11:
I disagree with u

Please let me know your reasons

PrincessC11:
I disagree with u

Disagree without reasons. Na wa o!

IamaNigerianGuy:


What exactly should be encouraged ?

Preying on young desperately poor women ? Using human beings as incubators for babies and thereafter discarding them ? Putting women through all the risks and dangers of pregnancy without the corresponding benefits ? Being a middle man for a borderline shady practice ?

Do you realize that a rich woman will never become a surrogate mother for a poor woman who needs a baby ? That indicates to me what this is really about

This practice is exploitative and immoral. It is on par with sex change operations and organ harvesting. People have had fertility issues since the dawn of time and they did not die. The world did not come to an end.

If you cannot have a baby, adopt one.

This is not an issue I have put any thought into before now but your points give me reason to think. Anyway, the people who do it regardless of what you think are their vulnerabilities -- economic and otherwise do it out of their own freewill. I don't think anyone is forced into doing it. In fact, no woman would like her child to be carried by a person who is not committed to the cause (I presume).
I think your claims of immorality and exploitation are exaggerated. The poor always serve the rich, it is the way of the world. Why would you expect a rich woman to be surrogate for a poor woman? This is a business for the surrogate. Can the poor woman pay?
There is nothing wrong in it as long as all parties involved are in it of their own accord.

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IamaNigerianGuy:


I have listed the wrongs in my previous post. I assume you can read.

Your oyibo masters brought us sex change, drug addiction, pornography, pedophilia now surrogacy. All these were things hitherto unknown to Africa. How has that worked out ?
I am proud to be a black man. You on the other hand are brainwashed nonentity unsure of his identity.

The tech you used to type this was hitherto unknown to Africa, why don't you just avoid using it?

Go and be killing people for rituals to your gods na, since you are a black man who prefers his black backwards lifestyle

I even thought you were an atheist before You're definitely far from being one because atheism has no bearing with Africa

Ranchhoddas:
This is not an issue I have put any thought into before now but your points give me reason to think. Anyway, the people who do it regardless of what you think are their vulnerabilities -- economic and otherwise do it out of their own freewill. I don't think anyone is forced into doing it. In fact, no woman would like her child to be carried by a person who is not committed to the cause (I presume).
I think your claims of immorality and exploitation are exaggerated. The poor always serve the rich, it is the way of the world. Why would you expect a rich woman to be surrogate for a poor woman? This is a business for the surrogate. Can the poor woman pay?
There is nothing wrong in it as long as all parties involved are in it of their own accord.

That's the point. They do not do it of their own accord.

Nobody gets up in the morning and says 'I want to be a surrogate mother to help couple ABC'. Practically all surrogate mothers are poor and desperate. Sometimes, these people looking for surrogates go to third world countries especially India to find a victim.
We should not import all sorts of rubbish into our country.
If you can't have a baby, adopt

IamaNigerianGuy:


That's the point. They do not do it of their own accord.

Nobody gets up in the morning and says 'I want to be a surrogate mother to help couple ABC'. Practically all surrogate mothers are poor and desperate. Sometimes, these people looking for surrogates go to third world countries especially India to find a victim.
We should not import all sorts of rubbish into our country.
If you can't have a baby, adopt

How so?.
Has anyone been made to carry a child against their will. Do they collect the payment against their will also?

post=74255772:
This practise is being done all over the world.

But we still have a long way to go about this in this country.

One of the major problems in this country is tradition

Tradition this tradition that

I support surrogacy
I support adoption

It will help to eliminate problems of childless marriage

Men won't be hopping around looking for a woman to pregnant outside because the wife couldn't take in

Women won't be hopping around to bring in another man's pregnancy and impose on her husband just because pride did not allow the man to declare that he is impotent

With this every family members will mind their business not to poke nose

It can happen to anyone

Even a man that made ladies have abortion during his single days might not be able to pregnant his wife during marriage

Anything can lead to impotency in men
Like wise anything can lead to poor egg production in women

That's life for you

Hmmmmm.

If surrogacy is necessary and practicable in Nigeria, it should be considered. But It seems like many Nigerians don't know what is best for Nigeria.And it must also be said that good things can be done badly. Science is knowledge but the knowledge could be about either the positive or negative.Wisdom is indispensable to everyone.

IamaNigerianGuy:


What exactly should be encouraged ?

Preying on young desperately poor women ? Using human beings as incubators for babies and thereafter discarding them ? Putting women through all the risks and dangers of pregnancy without the corresponding benefits ? Being a middle man for a borderline shady practice ?

Do you realize that a rich woman will never become a surrogate mother for a poor woman who needs a baby ? That indicates to me what this is really about

This practice is exploitative and immoral. It is on par with sex change operations and organ harvesting. People have had fertility issues since the dawn of time and they did not die. The world did not come to an end.

If you cannot have a baby, adopt one.

I know of a woman in her 30s who's had all her kids,but volunteered to be a surrogate for her sister to have a child. She even decided to do it for other childless couples. It's a choice. It's only wrong when some people are using helpless young girls to make money from it.

Your wisdom is phenomenal..

IamaNigerianGuy:


What exactly should be encouraged ?

Preying on young desperately poor women ? Using human beings as incubators for babies and thereafter discarding them ? Putting women through all the risks and dangers of pregnancy without the corresponding benefits ? Being a middle man for a borderline shady practice ?

Do you realize that a rich woman will never become a surrogate mother for a poor woman who needs a baby ? That indicates to me what this is really about

This practice is exploitative and immoral. It is on par with sex change operations and organ harvesting. People have had fertility issues since the dawn of time and they did not die. The world did not come to an end.

If you cannot have a baby, adopt one.

IamaNigerianGuy:


What exactly should be encouraged ?

Preying on young desperately poor women ? Using human beings as incubators for babies and thereafter discarding them ? Putting women through all the risks and dangers of pregnancy without the corresponding benefits ? Being a middle man for a borderline shady practice ?

Do you realize that a rich woman will never become a surrogate mother for a poor woman who needs a baby ? That indicates to me what this is really about

This practice is exploitative and immoral. It is on par with sex change operations and organ harvesting. People have had fertility issues since the dawn of time and they did not die. The world did not come to an end.

If you cannot have a baby, adopt one.

There is nothing shady about it and it is not in all cases that people do it for financial gains. I've read of a story where a mother acted as a surrogate for her daughter who lost her uterus following a battle with ovarian cancer. Adoption is good but there is nothing wrong with wanting to have your biological children too. Pregnancy is not a life threatening condition so I don't know what risks and dangers you are talking about.

IamaNigerianGuy:


I have listed the wrongs in my previous post. I assume you can read.

Your oyibo masters brought us sex change, drug addiction, pornography, pedophilia now surrogacy. All these were things hitherto unknown to Africa. How has that worked out ?
I am proud to be a black man. You on the other hand are brainwashed nonentity unsure of his identity.

Your intelligence is 1/infinity.. a typical monkey.

IamaNigerianGuy:


I have listed the wrongs in my previous post. I assume you can read.

Your oyibo masters brought us sex change, drug addiction, pornography, pedophilia now surrogacy. All these were things hitherto unknown to Africa. How has that worked out ?
I am proud to be a black man. You on the other hand are brainwashed nonentity unsure of his identity.

If u don't know your culture take a book and read...
Surrogacy is not new to most African culture and it's widely practiced as a way to secure n entrench the African patriarchal system....
Ever heard of the traditional practice of women getting married to women.....
What do u think it's all about.....
Anything the ignorant n arrogant black doesn't understand, he quickly disparage it as corrupt foreign culture...
He won't make any effort to enlighten his mind n develop himself....
Small wonder few Afrocentric men makes sense when they talk.....

Hmmmmm
In Nigeria?

What about sperm donation? Can one donate his sperm for money?

IS THAT HOW YOUR WOODEN AND PLASTIC BRAIN WORKS?

IamaNigerianGuy:


What exactly should be encouraged ?

Preying on young desperately poor women ? Using human beings as incubators for babies and thereafter discarding them ? Putting women through all the risks and dangers of pregnancy without the corresponding benefits ? Being a middle man for a borderline shady practice ?

Do you realize that a rich woman will never become a surrogate mother for a poor woman who needs a baby ? That indicates to me what this is really about

This practice is exploitative and immoral. It is on par with sex change operations and organ harvesting. People have had fertility issues since the dawn of time and they did not die. The world did not come to an end.

If you cannot have a baby, adopt one.

IamaNigerianGuy:


What exactly should be encouraged ?

Preying on young desperately poor women ? Using human beings as incubators for babies and thereafter discarding them ? Putting women through all the risks and dangers of pregnancy without the corresponding benefits ? Being a middle man for a borderline shady practice ?

Do you realize that a rich woman will never become a surrogate mother for a poor woman who needs a baby ? That indicates to me what this is really about

This practice is exploitative and immoral. It is on par with sex change operations and organ harvesting. People have had fertility issues since the dawn of time and they did not die. The world did not come to an end.

If you cannot have a baby, adopt one.

Surrogate mothers is not diff than Baby factories.As said in the book of GOD,money is the root of all evil.

IamaNigerianGuy:


I have listed the wrongs in my previous post. I assume you can read.

Your oyibo masters brought us sex change, drug addiction, pornography, pedophilia now surrogacy. All these were things hitherto unknown to Africa. How has that worked out ?
I am proud to be a black man. You on the other hand are brainwashed nonentity unsure of his identity.

they brought negative things you embraced them now that they brought good thing you want to refuse it. its the Indian hemp that you smoke that is disturbing you .

What's the total cost for surrogate in Nigeria?

Someone really needs this.

What's the total cost for surrogate in Nigeria?

Someone really needs this.

snipesdam:
What's the total cost for surrogate in Nigeria?

Someone really needs this.

call me 09022196272. If you need info on surrogacy/ivf feel free to call me. No family who desire a child should be deprived of it.

Menab:


call me 09022196272. If you need info on surrogacy/ivf feel free to call me. No family who desire a child should be deprived of it.

Contact me on 08146040114 for a surrogate mother... Am a surrogate mother available and ready, also willing to relocate.. Thanks.

Please contact me on 08146040114 for a surrogate mother, available and ready to relocate.. Thanks.

sulasa07:

Surrogate mothers is not diff than Baby factories.As said in the book of GOD,money is the root of all evil.

You obviously do not read your bible