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Re: NYSC A True Test Of Fidelity by Nobody: 3:16pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
vingeophysicist:the greatest mistake a man can make na wen u be corper yu go come dey marry a fellow corper.see as u jus chop ur own share and run away. 1 Like |
Re: NYSC A True Test Of Fidelity by mibrims: 3:16pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
Seandisputed:my guy serving in kastina now dey tell me how he’s dating 4 different ladies frm different tribes. One will be getting married in one of the Saturdays in January, Anoda already married this year June. Omg! Anoda of my guy serving in kebbi told me how a certain lady approached him asking if he’s into any serious relationship and my guy replied no. She walked away and later explained to my guy saying she’s looking for a friend with benefit that she does not want a single guy that will later fall in Love that she is engaged already. This world is indeed not my own |
Re: NYSC A True Test Of Fidelity by Nobody: 3:23pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
Nysc is really another avenue for youth to misbehave oo. from fellow corper to students.I was really discipline that was why my sexcapades where limited to only corpers. 4 Likes |
Re: NYSC A True Test Of Fidelity by Nobody: 3:24pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
Seandisputed:married women na dhier own case even worse pass.u can imagine even with the new law passed by the govt that married corpers are free to serve in the place they reside with their husbands but some will still be requesting to be posted in far away states from their husbands. 5 Likes |
Re: NYSC A True Test Of Fidelity by Seandisputed(m): 4:34pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
mibrims: Hahaha While still in Anambra, i had a girl who used to come from Owerri for the dick on a steady. Just last month, i got to know she's engaged through one of her comments on Facebook 4 Likes |
Re: NYSC A True Test Of Fidelity by Seandisputed(m): 4:44pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
lefulefu: Them want collect younger dicks na. I have a clique of friends (3 of us) the other two Bleep married women on a steady note. I'm the odd one because i can't find myself sleeping with a married woman. All through my stay on earth I've seen things married people do, and come to the conclusion that marriage is overrated if not for kids. I've seen a lot of shiit to the point that even if a woman says she's married, it doesn't move me. |
Re: NYSC A True Test Of Fidelity by LeopardX: 5:08pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
Seandisputed: You Were obviously in Batch B Stream 2 2017. I lie?? |
Re: NYSC A True Test Of Fidelity by Seandisputed(m): 5:27pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
LeopardX:Batch A stream 2 2017 |
Re: NYSC A True Test Of Fidelity by jesmond3945: 10:15pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
It seems naija girls are no longer moved by toyota but benz is the reigning thing now 2 Likes |
Re: NYSC A True Test Of Fidelity by placeofallure(f): 11:04pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
I read an article about the free-sex-for-all going on in the NYSC camp shortly before I went for my service year and that strengthened my resolve to hold myself. What I read was too degrading especially concerning women. As part of the measures I took, I went with many bulky novels and that was what I did, I buried myself in them. Not many people knew me in camp and afterwards, they didn't even know which batch I belonged to. I kept a very low profile. In reality, many will try to date you whether you're attractive or not. After all, you are far away from where your regular kondo is. All the men know this and they are bloody opportunists. Beginning from my fellow Corp members to my lodge boys, to the zonal inspector to the principal of the school I was posted to. I changed place of primary assignment twice because of sexual harassment. The story is the same with the other principal. I also worked with the state house of assembly and the honourable men were quick to show how dishonoured they are. For an average lady, rebuffing all these advances would seem a Herculean task, it is actually. My boyfriend was in town only once and he barely spent two days. His excuse? Work! How does a poor lady, who is the 'weaker' of the sexes cope? Usually, it is easy to stand aloof in a corner and chastise, and cast aspersions but have you tried to reverse the roles and possibly wear the shoes for a moment, just a moment? I bet you'll drum a different beat. At the end of the day, it's not about whether or not you have a boyfriend or a betrothed, it's about your values as a person. What you'd do and what you'd rather not be caught doing. 28 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: NYSC A True Test Of Fidelity by mibrims: 11:39pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
placeofallure:don’t 4get i earlier said 90% of ur gender are opportunist but well until proven otherwise, u av spoken 4 ur sef and the remaining 10%. I read stories of how Nigerian husbands kill their wives abroad because whenever they bring them overseas they will always want to play smart. 2 Likes |
Re: NYSC A True Test Of Fidelity by Judek2(m): 12:16am On Dec 30, 2018 |
I'm really proud of myself.. I just finished my NYSC, but did it only on 3 occasions.. That was Only with the girl I call my girlfriend who I invited from the East on those 3 occasions.. I Didn't date any corper or resident.. My guys where changing them girls like clothes, knacking more than 3 different girls every week (unless they were sick.) But I kept my cool, and I'm very proud I did. Now, That's how the ladies should behave.. But, the good girls are not yet born.. 6 Likes |
Re: NYSC A True Test Of Fidelity by Nobody: 12:39am On Dec 30, 2018 |
Whether Corper, jambite, undergraduate, working class etc all of them na ashawo.... Just collect your own, awka pass. 4 Likes |
Re: NYSC A True Test Of Fidelity by Nobody: 12:56am On Dec 30, 2018 |
It's the den of hypocrites. |
Re: NYSC A True Test Of Fidelity by Nobody: 1:10am On Dec 30, 2018 |
mibrims:And you overlooked where she was sexually harassed, where she had to change her PPA twice but still won't stop her from being diiick choked by irresponsible sex starved men? Why do you guys like crying wolves? huh? You all love shifting blames, throwing stones and all at women when you are the real problems!. Damn! I dislike petty boys! 4 Likes |
Re: NYSC A True Test Of Fidelity by pocohantas(f): 2:27am On Dec 30, 2018 |
Yea, women fck around during NYSC...I hear. All the guys fcking these women, no be person boyfriend? Abeg make una shift one side. All of you are the same thing. You knack person babe, them knack your own. EOD!!! 11 Likes |
Re: NYSC A True Test Of Fidelity by Bestinstinct(m): 8:39am On Dec 30, 2018 |
This reminds me of a corper I dated then. She can form holy?! Always wanting me to commit but I was too smart for that and she talks of marriage like her life depended on it. Fast-forward to few weeks to the end of her service year, she begged me not to allow her go back and I told her to go home and return after a spending sometimes with her people. One thing I noticed during the period we dated was that she travels home to see her "supposed parent" once a month. To cut the long story short sha, I saw her wedding pictures on FB few weeks she finished service meaning she was engaged while playing around with me here. I just pitied the husband... what's my own. 3 Likes |
Re: NYSC A True Test Of Fidelity by Nobody: 8:45am On Dec 30, 2018 |
Seandisputed:hahaha now she is engaged and prolly married she will sti go to d anambra to get d dick on the steady. |
Re: NYSC A True Test Of Fidelity by Seandisputed(m): 8:48am On Dec 30, 2018 |
lefulefu: She has been engaged while i was still hitting the cookie. Since i found out about her engagement na so i run o. |
Re: NYSC A True Test Of Fidelity by Seandisputed(m): 8:54am On Dec 30, 2018 |
pocohantas: I have no problem with whoever bleeps who so far it's was not rape My problem here is with engaged and married people. 2 Likes |
Re: NYSC A True Test Of Fidelity by Kobicove(m): 11:02am On Dec 30, 2018 |
vingeophysicist: The most important thing is that you enjoyed your time there |
Re: NYSC A True Test Of Fidelity by 2kurupt(m): 11:45am On Dec 30, 2018 |
What happens during service year, stays with the service year Things man see there, mouth no fit talk chiommy123:If indeed you've not served then better brace yourself coz konji mixed with unadulterated freedom can make you do things you never knew you were capable of, this implies to both genders BTW |
Re: NYSC A True Test Of Fidelity by Nobody: 11:59am On Dec 30, 2018 |
Seandisputed:haha na d husband i feel sorry for sha.except if maybe d husband dey also cheat as well. |
Re: NYSC A True Test Of Fidelity by mibrims: 12:15pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
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Re: NYSC A True Test Of Fidelity by Olalekank(m): 12:27pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
placeofallure:This is a lady who has sense, virtues and prepares for what lies ahead. You made me realize there are still some good girls out there. I'm to go for service in 2020. The way I hear these stories make me want to reconsider this scam they call marriage. I no trust ladies jack and the information on this thread has made me lose trust more and more. No doubt some people are looking forward to the camp due to the numerous sexual activities that past guys have encountered. Off topic, can someone is explain why we have to go for camp? 2 Likes |
Re: NYSC A True Test Of Fidelity by Buffalowings3(m): 12:30pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
vingeophysicist:My Nigga |
Re: NYSC A True Test Of Fidelity by Agboola2much(m): 12:40pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
mibrims:Jesus is Lord!
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Re: NYSC A True Test Of Fidelity by carter009(m): 12:42pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
My Nigga vingeophysicist: 1 Like
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Re: NYSC A True Test Of Fidelity by Trottle: 2:10pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
NYSC is a HUGE test of fidelity, fact! If your relationship is one of the few that survived after University and all, then it is very likely that NYSC will deal it a lethal blow and bury it finally. If you are the faithful and disciplined type, NYSC experiences may make you swear off Marriage and the opposite sex and/or mistrust them for a long time or forever. I'm being realistic. You need to be the God fearing and no-nonsense type to pull relationships as such off. ORIENTATION CAMP While I was in camp, I was part of the Camp Security (Corps) which exposed me to many possibilities. During briefings by the CSO, we are usually told to keep keen eyes especially in the night, because despite the security lamps all over, people have sex place in weird places like treetops, on the plain fields, like dogs, and it does not exclude the engaged and married ones. Plus the CSO made us know that lesbianism is rife in camp, as some skip parades and remain in the hostel, and lockup the whole place while engaging in such abomination. During the second and final week on camp, it is not uncommon to know that many girls sleep with different "officials" in order to get juicy postings, and many end up being disappointed, and cry on the day the list is out, as they are only used. I got to know this, as my female security colleague told me that how was I able to get a "top" place where even girls that have slept their way through yet, they didn't get those place. I just dey look her say not everyone will lose their dignity to secure juicy positions. So, if your partner tell you that she's in the quarter guard or a "flag holder" for the overall parade, dey take one eye look her o (only the strongest survive). One of my colleagues in school was a "flag holder", and after the event, she was called aside by one of the female "scouts" for the Oga at the top, they wanted to get her number, so she'll be posted to one of the top places she'll be servicing those "Ogas". I observed the event, and knowing how impressionable many women are, I quickly called her aside, and like a brother, I repeatedly cautioned her to reject the advances or at worst, give them a number you no longer use. Thank God she's the disciplined type, she was able to escape the onslaught. NYSC SERVICE PROPER It is not uncommon to find Corp members having live-in relationships even if they have other partners elsewhere (Those who have served know what I'm saying). They'll cook, clean and engage in various activities meant for Married people. Corp members will be with their trysts, and still be speaking to their partners on phone. Very disgusting. Some Corp members especially ladies will even tell you that they want to enjoy their lives before going back home. (Enjoyment here to them means fornicating, indiscriminate partying and generally being stupid). Some will still try to task their fellow Corpers and in order to keep up with their habits they keep many partners. For guys, if you meet a Corp Member-lady that is ready for marriage and if you will not be ready anytime soon, ensure not to mess her up by eating her food...and bouncing off. It is plain wickedness. And if you are ready, ensure she's mature and not the type that still "wants to enjoy". Once you are out of camp, and you see your fellow lady Corp members in very juicy positions, it's a warning flag, though not all are guilty, but steer clear of them unless when necessary. WORD If you are the faithful and disciplined type, please keep it up and don't ever let your standards down especially if you are a lady. You can meet your future partner during NYSC period, but be very careful and let them know that you don't sleep around and engage in stupid games. If you are a man, and you have a spouse, please don't start forming "I trust her" etc. CHECK on her from time to time, sometimes unannounced and try to make friends with her fellow Corp members who will be useful in giving you info, should they suspect and/or confirm any crap. You are not being insecure, you are being wise and careful. Don't let anyone manipulate you by telling you that you are jealous bla bla bla. Don't buy into that. Lastly, if you are the type that sleep around with other peoples spouse and partner, desist from causing others pain, even if the other person is willing, shameful and stupid. Else, sooner or later, you'll be paid back in your own coins. 16 Likes |
Re: NYSC A True Test Of Fidelity by Eberechi24(f): 5:29pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
lefulefu:Lefu. how sure are you with your claims? Are you one of the ten guys nacking her? |
Re: NYSC A True Test Of Fidelity by Nobody: 6:13pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Eberechi24:me one of d ten guys biko i run from gehls who are in a serious relationships and still cheerfully share their goodies with random strangers |
Re: NYSC A True Test Of Fidelity by Eberechi24(f): 6:37pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
lefulefu:E better make you dey as you said, na good thing e be make person get self respect. |
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