I was on my phone watching a movie this afternoon, my 7 years old niece walked up straight to me with this shocking question "Uncle what is sex?" I was just dumbfounded. I paused for like a minute trying to process what possible answer to give her.
I was like: "Hey come over here, where do you heard that from?" "From my friend David".... I was like "Sex is a machine adults used in producing babies, kids shouldn't talk about it."
And she was like "Do my mom and dad have the machine, I want to see what it looks like"...
At this point I couldn't go further knowing how inquisitive she's...

I was like: "OK, that's enough for today, kids aren't allow to see it, non talk about it... maybe I'll give you more details when you're a little bit older... like 15".....

I seriously don't know what to tell her, her parents weren't home... I just went for 2 days visit.


Married folks how do you handle such situation?

If Na girl ask, tell am say sex is an evil thing that leads people to hell fire, but if Na boy, no tell am anything

Don't be silly,tell him/ her sex means gender like male or female.

Male and female. Shikenan

You're offpoint bro.

So, I actually don't know what quota to contribute to your post.

Teaser0904:
Don't be silly,tell him/ her sex means gender like male or female.

Lol, I knew what she was talking about... I skipped what she said David told her... kids these days. parents should just be careful.

daben1:
If Na girl ask, tell am say sex is an evil thing that leads people to hell fire, but if Na boy, no tell am anything

Continue...!

peteruuu:
You're offpoint bro.
So, I actually don't know what quota to contribute to your post.

Ignore the messenger and contribute to the message abeg.

Fear Indomie Generation kids

Offpoint:

Lol, I knew what she was talking about... I skipped what she said David told her... kids these days. parents should just be careful.

You still tell her that is what David means,nothing else.

Tell her O both the consequences. That's how when I was little, I was having sex not knowing what I was doing is called "sex" give her a little sex education.

Teaser0904:
You still tell her that is what David means,nothing else.

Lol, you're obviously single.

Offpoint:

Lol, you're obviously single.

What has that got to do with what we are talking about?

amaniro:
Tell her O both the consequences. That's how when I was little, I was having sex not knowing what I was doing is called "sex" give her a little sex education.

I feel that should be her parents duty o, I can't feel comfortable talking to a kid about sex knowing fully well she'll tell her parents everything. it's best she heard from them.

Teaser0904:
What has that got to do with what we are talking about?

Nothing naw, just saying it cuz of your last reply.

Offpoint:

Ignore the messenger and contribute to the message abeg.

it'll be fine.

Try to find out who that 'David' is, the kind of friends she moves with, what they watch, their home background (because there are some stup*d slay Queens and slay kings that calls themselves "parents" too these days)... When actually they can't "pay-rents".


Also, try to know what they teach them at school because some schools are becoming unbecoming these days too.


And her own parents as well!.. She must not be free to watch some nonsense with them.
But yah, do some hectic research on my first and second points.

That david needs to come and tell us where he also heard that THREE LETTERS WORD from!

speak to her like it casual biology class

peteruuu:



it'll be fine.

Try to find out who that 'David' is, the kind of friends he moves with, what they watch, their home background (because there are some stup*d slay Queens and slay kings that calls themselves "parents" too these days... When actually they can't "pay-rents".


Also, try to know what they teach them at school because some schools are becoming unbecoming these days too.


And his own parents as well!.. He must not be free to watch some nonsense with them.
But yah, do some hectic research on my first and second points.

That david needs to come and tell us where he also heard that THREE LETTERS WORD from!

Nice ideas, David is ten 9 years kid, her classmates and they live same street according to her.

The so called David told her he "saw his parents having sex last night"
I nearly faint... that was why she wanted to know what sex is.

I fear this generation o

Offpoint:

Nothing naw, just saying it cuz of your last reply.

Lol,well i am a baby mama.

Offpoint:

Nice ideas, David is ten 9 years kid, her classmates and they live same street according to her.

The so called David told her he "saw his parents having sex last night"
I nearly faint... that was why she wanted to know what sex is.

I fear this generation o

I no fear bro, na fear catch me now o!.

See to it sha. Because the girl would always remember she once asked you this question in the nearest future.

Please tell the mum to check into her friendship with David.

It's not healthy.

Heloct:
Please tell the mum to check into her friendship with David.

It's not healthy.

What will the mum do? Stop David from seeing her daughter or what. Make una leave innocent small children and stop complicating their lives. We all did this while small and still heaven did not fall. Op tell the girl that sex is an adult play.

Randy100:
What will the mum do? Stop David from seeing her daughter or what. Make una leave innocent small children and stop complicating their lives. We all did this while small and still heaven did not fall. Op tell the girl that sex is an adult play.

Hmmm.honestly don't know if am in that position o.now I give my daughter sex edu though

Teaser0904:
Don't be silly,tell him/ her sex means gender like male or female.

babe its better to know d rationale behind her questioning else another uncle will give her d answers in practical.

Heloct:
Please tell the mum to check into her friendship with David.

It's not healthy.

pls don't say such o do u know how much David has invested in d babe carry ur badluck leave the poor boy

Kids these days tho. Anyway, tell the mom so she can do the explanation herself. Or else, the parents may think you're exposing their daughter to somethings when they get to hear.

Chai.. Your answer is inadequate and scary for a 7-year-old of this generation. David saw the sex scene, he knows better and believe me, he might have even relayed the whole scene to her. It is scary because if your niece knows you lied, it could fuel her curiosity..make her go back to David and

Maybe explaining it is an act that leads to babies and whoever is not ready to have babies shouldn't do it. Don't paint it too badly to her, you can get some sex ed videos for children online too. She is your niece, talk to your brother or sister about it, to keep an eye on her closeness with David and be more close to her.

Sex is one thing parents are usually reluctant or scared to discuss with their kids.

Reinah:
Chai.. Your answer is inadequate and scary for a 7-year-old of this generation. David saw the sex scene, he knows better and believe me, he might have even relayed the whole scene to her. It is scary because if your niece knows you lied, it could fuel her curiosity..make her go back to David and

Maybe explaining it is an act that leads to babies and whoever is not ready to have babies shouldn't do it. Don't paint it too badly to her, you can get some sex ed videos for children online too. She is your niece, talk to your brother or sister about it, to keep an eye on her closeness with David and be more close to her.

Sex is one thing parents are usually reluctant or scared to discuss with their kids.

I'm just skeptical explaining to her, cuz her parents are not around. They'll be back today, if sound some how when they're back and told me what I said. It'll be best she heard from them.

my power no carry at all.

Offpoint:

I'm just skeptical explaining to her, cuz her parents are not around. They'll be back today, if sound some how when they're back and told me what I said. It'll be best she heard from them.

my power no carry at all.

Oh, well. I get you. I guess it depends on your relationship with her parents. It is something you can tell them, y'all just laugh about it and they talk to her.

I really do hope it goes well.. 7 is too early to get messed up. Goodluck, Uncle Offpoint.

Reinah:


Oh, well. I get you. I guess it depends on your relationship with her parents. It is something you can tell them, y'all just laugh about it and they talk to her.

I really do hope it goes well.. 7 is too early to get messed up. Goodluck, Uncle Offpoint.

Sorry about the last jargons I typed, Glo wouldn't allow me correct those errors... I'm glad you still grab the message.

I'll tell her parents, they will explain to her. As for me o, I'm too single to be sex educating a child...

Offpoint:

Sorry about the last jargons I typed, Glo wouldn't allow me correct those errors... I'm glad you still grab the message.

I'll tell her parents, they will explain to her. As for me o, I'm too single to be sex educating a child...

Too early for lies Baba.. Just say you are too active to even know how or where to start the sex ed