A cousin of mine is about to get married to an american born and bred nigerian. His both parents are nigerian but divorced. She has been in nigeria all her life and though she loves him, is concerned about his moral decadence. He comes back to nigeria once every 2 years and is cool and all but he drinks and smokes and she is concerned that there might be issues in future due to their differences in upbringing and the fact that he smokes. he'd probably smoke around the children .
She on the other hand is very well brought up in a typical Nigerian society. should she go ahead with the marriage?

Let her make her choice its a life time thing

There's a difference between not smoking and actually being against smoking. I am against smoking and drinking and Cant marry a person who do cos it will cause trouble in d future. Let her think well before taking such steps