My name is shantel(real name withheld) and I am a graduate. I have this guy John (real name withheld) that I met way back in 2012 and we dated. He left the country after dating him for like 6 months. We established communication after some months.
Then I got admission the following year and met another guy James (real name withheld), he was my classmate and he used to help me with classwork and from there we started dating. He changed me so much that I started improving in my academics. He was always there for me even though I was still communicating with my ex who stays outside Nigeria. We have our ups and downs but we still find ourselves together. With his help I graduated as one of the best in my department and also took and passed a professional examination.
The other guy was sending me money sometimes during my time in school but he was not paying my school fees.
Now after our graduation, John Proposed marriage to me and wanted me to come over to his base in Canada. I accepted and he started processing my papers. Co jointly James also proposed to marry me too but I've gone deep work the Visa processing with John and he has committed so much money to it up to three million. Both loves me dearly but I feel free with James my classmate as he understands me better. And truly I love James my former classmate more but I feel am indebted to John. I don't know if it's distance, maybe it's because am always with him.
Am Just confused and in need of an advice. Please no insult..

When you travel to that Canada, you will start to miss James!

Anyways, whichever decision you make, dont regret your actions, whatever comes out, take it in good faith and never look back

dingbang:
When you travel to that Canada, you will start to miss James!

Anyways, whichever decision you make, dont regret your actions, whatever comes out, take it in good faith and never look back

What would you do if it were you?

Shantel1996:


What would you do if it were you?

accept James's proposal of course.

Shantel1996:


What would you do if it were you?

I would look left, look right then look left again... and cross the road!


What's the big deal?

*spits

dingbang:
accept James's proposal of course.

Thank you very much I appreciate. Would it be too much to all why?

LuciferVirgin:




I would look left, look right then look left again... and cross the road!


What's the big deal?

*spits

Please I need mature opinion

Who else thinks this story sounds so fake and fabu-like?

Shantel1996:



Thank you very much I appreciate. Would it be too much to all why?

its simple, all that glitters ain't gold.

Guys, beware...........every girl no matter how holy she looks has two or more boyfriends...........goan ask your babe what number you are now.!!!


Meanwhile @op, are you sure you chose john because you "feel indebted to" him or because of "canada" cos from your write up, i didnt and still havent seen what he did for you to make you indebted to him.


las las, like dingbang said, follow your heart and take whatever comes after in good stride.

u just agree for john bcus he is outside d country

dingbang:
its simple, all that glitters ain't gold.

Thanks you very much