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dance dance by Born2conquer: 7:00pm On Jan 13
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Re: dance dance by Born2conquer: 7:02pm On Jan 13
The best alternative is for me to leave my brand and go to a remote faraway village and start a fresh life as a villager without any worries

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Re: dance dance by Derawiz(m): 7:05pm On Jan 13
Bro..Suicide is never the option, you just have to cling on to hope believing that tomorrow would be better.

Never compare yourself with another person,our paths in life may be intertwined but it's never the same,just run your race in your own lane focusing only on your goal..

As for your friends into Yahoo,need I remind you that the end would always be bad for a fraudster?? Trust in God and keep hustling legit, oneday you'll look back and smile as by then you would be a success story to others in similar situation

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Re: dance dance by Born2conquer: 7:05pm On Jan 13
The bad thing is that.. I know all the advice's people will tell me!

Try again
Don't give up

I've motivated myself so many times on those words but NO!!
I DON REACH MY ELASTICITY LIMIT!

MANY BIG JOBS THAT ARE SUPPOSED TO PAY ME WILL EVEN DRIVE ON MY COOL HEART..

WORKING diligently without them fulfilling their parts of the dream

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Re: dance dance by Born2conquer: 7:06pm On Jan 13
This is my second account on Nairaland!

Lolz you will never sense any of all these on my main account..

You will think I am one Happy guy..lol

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Re: dance dance by Born2conquer: 7:07pm On Jan 13
I can't kill myself but I do not fear death
Re: dance dance by Dami12345: 7:42pm On Jan 13
Born2conquer:
cry
This is me and for a while..I've been suicidal and depressed .

I've seen death as nothing and something scary for as long as I could remember.

I'm so hardworking, too hardworking!! and no matter how hardworking I am..my fruits ain't always showing for the hardworks .

2016, I started my brand.... started my brand! During the course of the brand I got cheated by so many people!! Maybe because I have a meek heart!

I will work for some people and they won't pay.. and being the best around from what I does!! Like the very best!! Some good customers still prefer to go to my competitors!

I am depressed like what am I not doing well!

You see friends utilizing other brands doing the same thing I am doing..yet I am the best at what I do (Glaring).
You see people that knows me very well and appreciating what I do still going to other Brands.

I work EXTREMELY HARD ,morning till 11:59pm yet I still have just little to show for it because I save a lot and I deprived myself from some basic things.

One Ogun state governorship candidate hired me for a job in 2017 (my best moment..moments of hope)...for 3 months! I was happy this man would be paying me!.

The man never paid me! Cries!

I am still hardworking..
I did so many side hustle to compliment my brand..everything.. Its just that it's not showing for my hardwork!

I am contented..but no..it's not easy!

Thanks to YAHOO YAHOO..all the youths that started yahoo 3 years after I started my brand are now in bastard money!

And I swipe on my status daily looking at them rocking latest iPhone Xmax ,Car..
And this is me..a 5years brand..no yahoo yahoo guy still battling to save up to a millionaire.

I've lost the motivation to work more on my brand because even at the peak..nothing showed..



It just seems I will never be accepted!!

At the height of everything! I AM THE ONE OTHERS DO SHARE THEIR problems WITH... THEY DO THINK I AM THR STRONGEST.. I'M WEAK

Bro I have suffered the same thing.
Not to sound cliché but go spiritual.
What ever is native to you.
Know this your opponents are doing the same.
Forget the mainstream shit you know in church or mosque.
Meet those that know. Ask for a test.
Once you see somethiy that you are sure is genuine go for it
I promise you will see changes in less than a week.

It will shock you sef.

I have been where you are it took me 5 years to learn that the spiritual controls the physical.
No matter how good or cheap you are others that control the spiritual will be ahead.
Now that you know do the needful.
Or wallo in your problem.

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Re: dance dance by faithfull18(f): 7:47pm On Jan 13
Dami12345:


Bro I have suffered the same thing.
Not to sound cliché but go spiritual.
What ever is native to you.
Know this your opponents are doing the same.
Forget the mainstream shit you know in church or mosque.
Meet those that know. Ask for a test.
Once you see somethiy that you are sure is genuine go for it
I promise you will see changes in less than a week.

It will shock you sef.

I have been where you are it took me 5 years to learn that the spiritual controls the physical.
No matter how good or cheap you are others that control the spiritual will be ahead.
Now that you know do the needful.
Or wallo in your problem.

You echoed my thoughts.

Stop comparing yourself with others. You end up torturing yourself for not measuring up.
Re: dance dance by Born2conquer: 8:19pm On Jan 13
faithfull18:


You echoed my thoughts.

Stop comparing yourself with others. You end up torturing yourself for not measuring up.

This is something we can't avoid,
Everywhere you turn to..it's there mehn
Re: dance dance by Born2conquer: 8:19pm On Jan 13
Thanks boss, yes, I think my spirituality level is low

Dami12345:


Bro I have suffered the same thing.
Not to sound cliché but go spiritual.
What ever is native to you.
Know this your opponents are doing the same.
Forget the mainstream shit you know in church or mosque.
Meet those that know. Ask for a test.
Once you see somethiy that you are sure is genuine go for it
I promise you will see changes in less than a week.

It will shock you sef.

I have been where you are it took me 5 years to learn that the spiritual controls the physical.
No matter how good or cheap you are others that control the spiritual will be ahead.
Now that you know do the needful.
Or wallo in your problem.
Re: dance dance by Berlyn1(f): 8:21pm On Jan 13
Born2conquer:
The best alternative is for me to leave my brand and go to a remote faraway village and start a fresh life as a villager without any worries
drop ur num let me call u pls

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Re: dance dance by faithfull18(f): 8:22pm On Jan 13
Born2conquer:


This is something we can't avoid,
Everywhere you turn to..it's there mehn

Yes, it is. Even the bible says those who compare themselves with themselves are not wise.

Another thing is not everyone who looks like they are doing well are actually doing well when you move closer.

Run your race. The race isn't to the swift neither is the battle to the strong. Never neglect the spiritual side.
Re: dance dance by gypsey(m): 8:23pm On Jan 13
Smoke some Highgrade ganja and have lots of sex, You will be fine!! grin

Trust me i know!! tongue
Re: dance dance by Nobody: 8:24pm On Jan 13
All these you've listed above about your friends are just materialistc things,those friends of yours will never leave this earth with an iPhone, Benz, GWagon, Dollars and what have you....(Vanity upon Vanity all is Vanity).

Do you know that in this life true happiness can't be measured by what you have or achieved...remember human wants are insatiable. If those your yahoo friends really open up to you truthfully on the things they did to get to that position, how it drains them emotionally,psychologically and how their conscience keeps pricking them , you will cringe. You will also discover that you are more happier than them...you even sleep better than them.

Life has always taught me NEVER to envy anyone. Most of these show offs you see all over the internet beneath them lies unhappy and depressed pple.

So my bro why don't you pick up your pieces and start afresh and always be OPTIMISTIC. Always say to yourself "I can make it". Yes, you have a skill, perfect on it, work harder and trust in God. Never you think of soiling your hands in anything you do cos I bet you that will mark the beginning of your unrestlessness and unhappiness. Never you opt for suicide for it's never an option. Like someone said "only cowards commit suicide". It doesn't matter how many times you have failed or people have failed you...brace up and always look towards the bright side of life.

I wish you breakthrough and unlimited favor as you stay ALIVE.


All the best.
Re: dance dance by mezarddinny: 8:26pm On Jan 13
if you think suicide is the best option, please drink sniper. no time to dey beg anybody make he no die. the population of the world is over 7n, you won't even be noticed
Re: dance dance by Born2conquer: 8:27pm On Jan 13
Berlyn1:
drop ur num let me call u pls
Thanks


Once you get it..quote this message for me to to delete this number.. It's a business number
Re: dance dance by Born2conquer: 8:27pm On Jan 13
mezarddinny:
if you think suicide is the best option, please drink sniper. no time to dey beg anybody make he no die. the population of the world is over 7n, you won't even be noticed


You better quit your ways of giving advice.. Thanks
Re: dance dance by Marcelo290(m): 8:28pm On Jan 13
This life ehn..there is just no formula for success. Forget the poo we are fed with about how hardwork brings success. I remember how I toiled all night with yet not much to show for it, but bro I would still advise you not to give up. Stop comparing yourself with others
Re: dance dance by Nobody: 8:34pm On Jan 13
mezarddinny:
if you think suicide is the best option, please drink sniper. no time to dey beg anybody make he no die. the population of the world is over 7n, you won't even be noticed
Are you OK like this?
Re: dance dance by Berlyn1(f): 8:36pm On Jan 13
Born2conquer:

Thanks


Once you get it..quote this message for me to to delete this number.. It's a business number
aii
Re: dance dance by Berlyn1(f): 8:37pm On Jan 13
mezarddinny:
if you think suicide is the best option, please drink sniper. no time to dey beg anybody make he no die. the population of the world is over 7n, you won't even be noticed
shut up!!!
Re: dance dance by Amicable22: 8:44pm On Jan 13
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Re: dance dance by Born2conquer: 9:26pm On Jan 13
CAPSLOCKED:


YOU NEED TO STAY OFF SOCIAL MEDIA AND GET YOURSELF TOGETHER. COMPARING YOURSELF TO CRIMINALS IS A TERRIBLE THING TO DO.

My work is a social Media based job..
Re: dance dance by Born2conquer: 9:26pm On Jan 13
Berlyn1:
aii

Done
Re: dance dance by Gaspardd(m): 9:44pm On Jan 13
If i say u shld go spiritual now, you will start yelling about how Nigerians re backward in thinking.
Was in this shìt yrs ago, i was (and i still am) a stubborn hustler, but nothing to show for it until i went to a church. Prior to that, i was a stark atheist.

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Re: dance dance by skillz111(m): 10:11pm On Jan 13
You are not depressed you are just sad.with real depression you lose insight and never figure out why you are sad it's a dark tunnel don't go in just be happy that you are just sad.
Re: dance dance by Dami12345: 2:35am On Jan 14
Born2conquer:
Thanks boss, yes, I think my spirituality level is low


Like I said. Don't go to pastor with your problem, most are just going to waste your time, its all about Gods plan and pray ,fast bla bla.

Find a cleric or go native, explain your problems,

If you were into spiritually I would say clean your aura and sanctify yourself. It will take care of the energies around you and bring favor your way.

You are lucky tho, most people that are troubled by this do not even know they have a problems, what is fighting them will never let them think they need help.
Infact they would fight those who could help them, and ignore those who are willing to help.

So come back later on and update this thread this year, tell us how you have soared Like a bird.

Blessings be unto you.
Re: dance dance by Dami12345: 2:44am On Jan 14
Gaspardd:
If i say u shld go spiritual now, you will start yelling about how Nigerians re backward in thinking.
Was in this shìt yrs ago, i was (and i still am) a stubborn hustler, but nothing to show for it until i went to a church. Prior to that, i was a stark atheist.

Same advice am giving.
I don't believe in god shits. I always thought it was hard work, stupid western thinking, always thinking the white mab figured it all out, it that he was telling all he knew. Or that what works in u.s works in Nigeria.

I ticked all the boxes tho. I was hard working.tick.
I worked harder.tick. I was a good person. Tick.
After I tried everything I knew there wasn't a problem with my work , something else was involved, na so I tried what i have never done before. What movies say I should never do, what church/home has been drumming into my ear.
Now I know y, some good for nothing people will be making it and honest good people suffer.
My people really do suffer for lack of knowledge.

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