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My Relationship Is At The Vege Of Collaps. I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 4:57pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
Good day nairalanders. i have been in a relationship with my girl for the past 8 months. on several occation we do have misunderstanding sometimes the one that makes me feel heartbroken and when that happen i just terminate communication with her by deleting her phone number from my phone, i will only get the phone number back when ever she call me after weeks of not calling each other. most times during this long break my conscience start flogging me for not calling her because i do most of the calling. on the last one that happen, she have decisided not to call me i even appologies to her for not calling her when ever i meet her in her work place because she is still living with her perents and had to be open to her that i deleted he number because i can no longer use that "i lost my phone" lines; u know. none of her close friends are around now, i dont know any person now i can meet for her number. Brethren am loosing my mind now in regret, i know i deserve the treatment am getting from her because is not the first time i have deleted her phone number is just that this is the first time i am admitting that i deleted it intensionally. what will i do now to appease her. I love her so mush despite that the fact that am always in a hast to conclude. 1 Like |
Re: My Relationship Is At The Vege Of Collaps. I Need Your Advice by Innobee99(m): 5:06pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
U carry same anger problem with me, someone will end up enjoying the fruit of your labor.... From experience bro 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Relationship Is At The Vege Of Collaps. I Need Your Advice by Olalan(m): 5:18pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
OP you need work on your tempers as it seems you are always over reacting to issues with her......you have to go tell her the truth about losing her number 1 Like |
Re: My Relationship Is At The Vege Of Collaps. I Need Your Advice by Zendinho(m): 5:22pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
Your reversed psychological approach backfired..... You need to be strong to handle the approach you employed.... As a psychologist, i can tell you that the love is one sided. You only tried to see if you can stay without her but unfortunately the reverse is the case. What i will advice you is to try and make peace with her but if you meet a brick wall give her sometimes, if things remind unchanged then move on. 3 Likes |
Re: My Relationship Is At The Vege Of Collaps. I Need Your Advice by Chubhie: 5:23pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
This is a vicious circle you are in. It could take some 5-6 years to learn the lessons being shown them and grow or forever be PeterPan. |
Re: My Relationship Is At The Vege Of Collaps. I Need Your Advice by CyberWolf: 5:29pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
Nacoss25:I humbly advise you to forget about the girl because by the time she is done dealing with you, you’ll probably become suicidal. Besides, I don’t think you’re mentally and emotional mature for a relationship now, so focus on your personal development. 13 Likes |
Re: My Relationship Is At The Vege Of Collaps. I Need Your Advice by madone: 5:50pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
op can u get out of here and grow up. U are soo dull and childish. U dated a girl for 8months and u still don't know how number by heart. You are just too dull to have a girlfriend, u are so unromantic,unentertaining,unreasonable,unExciting, unserrious, senile, ..may God forgive you for treating that girl so bad.while men form anger sharp guys like me are busy smashing their bae. Urs will be with a guy like me now. Maybe kissing, smooching or doing different styles of fu. Cking the type u have not done bf sef. 4 Likes |
Re: My Relationship Is At The Vege Of Collaps. I Need Your Advice by megareal: 6:14pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
Your game backfired. She's probably tired of your repeat childish performance whenever you two quarrel and wants to give you a wide berth until you grow up. Go to her parents if possible, find her, settle your matter and then grow up. Leave stupid childish anger alone. Discuss, forgive and forget immediately there is a problem. If you can't win her back, learn from you mistake and be a better person in your next relationship. |
Re: My Relationship Is At The Vege Of Collaps. I Need Your Advice by DMerciful(m): 6:50pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
So we all the stress in Nigeria na this your yeye story you wan take disturb us? Abeg park well |
Re: My Relationship Is At The Vege Of Collaps. I Need Your Advice by Biglittlelois(f): 9:16pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
You both had a misunderstanding, you always delete her number and not talk to her for weeks, what will you do when you're married and you have a misunderstanding with your wife you'll leave the house for weeks or probably never come back I guess, you need to develop yourself, you're not matured emotionally. 1 Like |
Re: My Relationship Is At The Vege Of Collaps. I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 9:20pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
Na so so love stories I just dey read today, when I go find guy wey go love me like mumu ? 2 Likes |
Re: My Relationship Is At The Vege Of Collaps. I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 9:39pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
thanks fellows. i have always counted on you guys |
Re: My Relationship Is At The Vege Of Collaps. I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 9:43pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
madone:thank you sir |
Re: My Relationship Is At The Vege Of Collaps. I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 9:44pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
Valerie47:lemme love you baby |
Re: My Relationship Is At The Vege Of Collaps. I Need Your Advice by bamisepeters(m): 9:44pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
Nacoss25: madone: @OP, Seriously i am also surprised as number shouldn't cause any issue, for 8 months without knowing the number is an unpunishable sin, who does that! I don't think you love her, if you do you will still know the number. The first thing is to try cram the number till you can say it while asleep, then go to her and start reciting her number, she will forgive and forget. But if for 8 months only you guys have had several issues i think both of you still need to work on yourselves, you are still being immature. Work also on tolerance, it will go a long way. Valerie47:Lol, with time everything wil fall in the right place. But use the right word, mumu is completely wrong, don't curse yourself please. 1 Like |
Re: My Relationship Is At The Vege Of Collaps. I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 9:45pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
Zendinho:you get brain bro |
Re: My Relationship Is At The Vege Of Collaps. I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 9:47pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
Iamtosignno:Really, awww *so touching, I almost cried* |
Re: My Relationship Is At The Vege Of Collaps. I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 9:49pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
Olalan:i did that. i had to summon so much courage to do that |
Re: My Relationship Is At The Vege Of Collaps. I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 9:54pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
Valerie47:it would be wonderful so baby don't cry |
Re: My Relationship Is At The Vege Of Collaps. I Need Your Advice by Zendinho(m): 9:55pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
[quote author=Nacoss25 post=74986267] you get brain bro One love brotherly..... |
Re: My Relationship Is At The Vege Of Collaps. I Need Your Advice by luminouz(m): 10:01pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
Nacoss25:What's all these rubbish na Kini gbogbo kantankantan yi naaaa Are u a man at all |
Re: My Relationship Is At The Vege Of Collaps. I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 10:03pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
Iamtosignno:The tears are almost dropping, I'm holding it back.. |
Re: My Relationship Is At The Vege Of Collaps. I Need Your Advice by lilmax(m): 10:10pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
was in the same boat about 17 years ago all I can say is, let nature take its course 2 Likes |
Re: My Relationship Is At The Vege Of Collaps. I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 10:10pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
Valerie47:are you beautiful? do you have a fat ass and big breast? can you speak latina, french, and German? |
Re: My Relationship Is At The Vege Of Collaps. I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 10:11pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
BornagainThief:Let's talk allowances, how much will I be getting every month?... |
Re: My Relationship Is At The Vege Of Collaps. I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 10:13pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
Valerie47:common,I thought love don't cost a thing. |
Re: My Relationship Is At The Vege Of Collaps. I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 10:14pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
BornagainThief:I thought you are supposed to love me for who I am and not what I carry or languages I speak? |
Re: My Relationship Is At The Vege Of Collaps. I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 10:25pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
Valerie47:True. but sometimes these things are necessary ooo especially the breast and ass part |
Re: My Relationship Is At The Vege Of Collaps. I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 10:26pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
BornagainThief:Money is also necessary, na love we go chop? |
Re: My Relationship Is At The Vege Of Collaps. I Need Your Advice by Webcamseller(f): 10:27pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
go and hug transformer BS! |
Re: My Relationship Is At The Vege Of Collaps. I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 10:30pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
Valerie47:loz of course it is, , good Night dear. |
Re: My Relationship Is At The Vege Of Collaps. I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 10:33pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
Work on your anger issues before working on your relationship. I had a relationship that ended exactly the same way yours is headed now. She had a habit of deleting my number at any slightest misunderstanding and I kept on warning her that a day would come when she would wait to get it back but she never listened and the last time she did, I never called back and that was it. She sent some emails asking for the number later on but it was too late, I had a lot going on to accommodate such stress at that moment. 1 Like |
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