MJBOLT:

So Cooking and cleaning is what makes you useful to man?WTF,i never said men should not make money stop twisting my words,a woman should not depend on a man financially.if as a woman you are not disabled and you depend on a man financially,your education is a waste

Saffi:
If you’re not providing for me what is your use? Do you want to be cooking in the kitchen and cleaning the house since you don’t want to make money? The physique men have was created for you to work and lead in the household. Yet most of you want to switch the roles and behave like incompetent fools. Yet you demand respect and authority in the house, when you want to live a contradicting lifestyle. Most of you are normal in the head.

faithfull18:
Hmmn, it is common place in most Nigerian families too but on Nairaland the men are always providing, while the women are leeches when we all know in reality, reverse is the case.

MJBOLT:

where was it written that the job of a man is to take care of a woman financially,what is stopping the woman from having financial independence?

lilmax:


so what is wrong with this now?

he acknowledge the role of house husband na


and this right here guys it's the best to have money for yourself and family

women cannot stand a house husband

get the money and be in control of your family instead of being humiliated

lilbest4:
most housewives also have maids, does that also make it them useless?

dominique:
She didn't have to bring it to social media though

faithfull18:
Hmmn, it is common place in most Nigerian families too but on Nairaland the men are always providing, while the women are leeches when we all know in reality, reverse is the case.

ddjay:

Thats the modern marriage that women want na, it's called equality

Saffi:
Look this is the dream life for most of these silly boys of this generation. They are looking for a woman who can take care of them financially. A woman who can baby them, they want to be women by force.

pocohantas:
I don't have a problem with a househusband.

My problem with men like that is they are completely useless. A housewife will at least cook, wash and clean. A househusband will most times not do this. He will wait for the working wife to come back and start doing house-chores. What then is his usefulness apart from prick?

Her father isn't a lazy man, the threat of killing himself gave him away. He is mentally unstable.

faithfull18:

You can carry out a survey as regards this. Most women are the financiers in their families in this present times, it just may not degenerate into them having to pay salaries to their husbands as in this case.

CHoccolaTE:


If you men don't want to provide for women anymore then you might as well cook your own food after marriage and clean up after yourself, your wife is also under no obligation to clean up the house or wash your clothes or even bear your name since you have absolved yourself of all responsibility involving providing for her.

Ugosample:


where is it written that a woman MUST bear her husband's surname?

Clemzyluvlyson:
see dis one, statements without facts r useless. naija women get married primarily for financial freedom.

Ugosample:


that's not true


A good number of women TODAY are the principal breadwinners in NIGERIA

but to say it's the majority na big lie


The same NIGERIA that I know or another one?

At best, it's 40%

Nwodosis:
Has your mother told you the other part of the story that may be in your father's favour, like how they began? Don't be surprised, your mother may be responsible for his being financial incapacitated to control him possibly through diabolical means that she can no longer reverse!

Nwodosis:
Has your mother told you the other part of the story that may be in your father's favour, like how they began? Don't be surprised, your mother may be responsible for his being financial incapacitated to control him possibly through diabolical means that she can no longer reverse!

faithfull18:
Hmmn, it is common place in most Nigerian families too but on Nairaland the men are always providing, while the women are leeches when we all know in reality, reverse is the case.

Valerie47:
No matter what, you shouldn't disrespect your father like this.

CHoccolaTE:


If you men don't want to provide for women anymore then you might as well cook your own food after marriage and clean up after yourself, your wife is also under no obligation to clean up the house or wash your clothes or even bear your name since you have absolved yourself of all responsibility involving providing for her.

funmisticqueen:
she should also close shop and get her room they are now roomates. Infact she should take the head of the household positiion

gloria34:
Maybe u Dont know or u are just pretending but it is very common in Nigeria, example, ozoro in Delta state where women do jobs such as carrying of cement in construction sites while their husbands sits at home and expect food, Even most part of Warri. I find it Funny when guys act like they have never seen such

Saffi:
If you’re not providing for me what is your use? Do you want to be cooking in the kitchen and cleaning the house since you don’t want to make money? The physique men have was created for you to work and lead in the household. Yet most of you want to switch the roles and behave like incompetent fools. Yet you demand respect and authority in the house, when you want to live a contradicting lifestyle. Most of you are normal in the head.

MJBOLT:

the same nairaland where ladies date the likes of dangote,E money,davido etc but will log out to beg for #100 airtime from the boys they call broke n*ggas