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Travel / Re: I'm Taking A Road Trip Across Europe - Germany, Switzerland And Italy by 4teelaw(f): 9:24am On Jul 07, 2016 |
Lalasticlala, Mynd44! You will not come and see Europe in coloured picture. Be knocking una black and white television there. 4 Likes |
Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 2 by 4teelaw(f): 4:45pm On May 31, 2015 |
dakotchic: And CSECTION? That's the one I am concerned about o! |
Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 2 by 4teelaw(f): 4:08pm On May 31, 2015 |
ejisky: His practice includes... which was going to be my argument FOR him, incase he had ob/gyns working with or for him but this doesn't answer if he a licensed ob/gyn himself. Also I hope you got a refund for 'hosp' fees since you had your baby at home. No issues dear, I'm with you on this but we just want to know we are in safe hands. Life no get duplicate. 1 Like |
Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 2 by 4teelaw(f): 3:59pm On May 31, 2015 |
ejisky: Did you go through Modath's links? What's the argument? Please give us links to prove he is a licensed ob/gyn, for knowledge sake. |
Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 2 by 4teelaw(f): 3:56pm On May 31, 2015 |
ejisky: My dear, I googled him, maybe you should, he is not an ob/gyn. He is a family doctor, thus not licensed to carry out childbirth and surgeries related to childbirth. You took a risk, if it got out of hand... hummnn! 1 Like |
Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 2 by 4teelaw(f): 10:11am On May 31, 2015 |
Sorry oo, @ejisky Did he deliver your baby in the house himself? This is serious. I was going to help you defend the Doc's performing deliveries and CSection as an Family doctor, thinking he had a faculty of Ob/gyns who does the deliveries under his practice. Now you said he delivered your baby himself. But is he licensed to carry out such procedures, especially CSections? I just remembered that church member had a fibroid removed in St. Francis Hosp in Chicago, she nearly bled to death. I hope it wasn't this same doc o! |
Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 2 by 4teelaw(f): 9:57am On May 31, 2015 |
ejisky: I smell a marketer. What is admin charges? 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by 4teelaw(f): 3:05pm On May 29, 2015 |
1stCitizen: I mean one after oga dug the tunnel himself. But there's no meter, as you find it unbelievable, so will many others, so what's the use? It's either you are a virgin or not. Numbers can be conjured. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by 4teelaw(f): 3:02pm On May 29, 2015 |
ApexTitan: What of the one that says 'I'm a virgin, let's wait until marriage..." Marriage night, you find out its a deep abyss. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by 4teelaw(f): 2:55pm On May 29, 2015 |
Timbuktou: Oh yes I do, beautiful twin boys who are so well mannered and make people marvel at their politeness. |
Family / Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by 4teelaw(f): 2:53pm On May 29, 2015 |
Timbuktou: Bros, grow up. There r so many speed bumps you will come across in life, you have to pause and navigate the turn. You may end up finding a virgin with a bad character that may totally ruin the marriage and make you regret. Or a secondary virgin who has learnt a lot from life and extols virtue in all ramification. Personally, I met my oga early, he was my 1st BF, we parted ways, we moved on even though we were still friends, I got engaged to be married to someone else for 2yrs, it didn't work out cos the guy was an unrepentant serial cheat. Imagine girls calling you to tell you to leave dia fiance alone. Biko, how many of us were fiancee? With ring again? When I eventually decided to walk out, it was back to my 1st who also has had series of bad experiences, he doesn't even talk about till today. The only one I even know about is how he went out with friends, met this guy got chatting. Ran out of battery, borrowed the guys phone to call his girlfriend that he will be running late and her number is stored as baby. When she picked she was all "hey baby" and he's like how do you know it's me?. And she goes "ah ah, mentions the owner of the phones name, what kind of question is this" All comfortable and familiar. Isn't that enough to break someone's spirit? In that vein I also shared my miserable experience with that serial philanderer and mentioned the abortion in a fit of rage, without knowing one day I will walk down the aisle with that man. If he had judged me and labelled me a slut for being engaged to a bastard, and continued searching for the virgin of his dreams, perhaps he would have passed on and lost what became the marriage we are so proud of and hold in high esteem today. I don't know his body count, I am not interested. He has never asked of my body count, even though i'm assuming he knows it's just one. And even if it's 20 and I'm lying it's just one, how does one verify that? There are more important issues in life and marriage. Like how to raise the kids, provide the best for them, own your home, plan vacations, retirement and just being in love with each other. The past is ancient history. Don't let it jeopardise what should be a great future. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by 4teelaw(f): 2:24pm On May 29, 2015 |
Emaprince: I'm glad you understand my point. Please explain to that ill trained gutter boy so that he doesn't walk into a web he set up by himself. If you find a virgin, and you can prove it, what other honor does a man deserve? Also make sure she has other virtuous qualities of a wife and a mother, it's not all about sex. Sex is just 20% of marriage, a lot more matters. It's in pregnancy you will find out you are going months without sex cos madam is not in the mood. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by 4teelaw(f): 2:17pm On May 29, 2015 |
babyosisi:This takes me back to "only a man with zero self esteem will be fishing around with hook and line for a virgin to marry, setting himself up for a marriage based on deception", then come back here and brandish women 'hoes' and all sorts of names just because he found out the woman lied, just to please him. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by 4teelaw(f): 2:13pm On May 29, 2015 |
Timbuktou: Set off my temper? You are the one ranting and too blinded to read my posts. What's d fun in sleeping around before marriage?Please quote where I advised sleeping around. And how does not being a virgin make you a slut? A woman dated a man that died b4 they got married, does that make her a slut? A woman dated a guy who cheated and she walked away, does that make her a slut? Isn't it guys like you that deceive girls, get them into bed and dump them, does that make her a slut? You don't know me, you jst write rubbish about promiscuity, I chose to ignore you, the fact that I didn't marry as a virgin doesnt mean I didn't marry who I gave it to. Did you read my post where I mentioned av been with this same man for 10years this year? Does that make me slut? Maybe I am a slut for the 'mumu'. We are two peas in a pod! 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by 4teelaw(f): 1:55pm On May 29, 2015 |
Emaprince: Deriding ke? If it's possible to find a virgin, by all means keep her! Bt going out of your way searching for a virgin in this age is setting yourself up for disappointment. You want a virgin, she may lie that she's a virgin, decieve you till wedding night and you find yourself inside konga! From that moment, the marriage is headed for disaster. How do you remedy that. You find a true virgin, it's a bonus. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by 4teelaw(f): 1:51pm On May 29, 2015 |
kilode100: Why are you responding to kids in diapers? Real men would be at work right now, bringing in the cheddar. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by 4teelaw(f): 1:50pm On May 29, 2015 |
Timbuktou: Keep searching oooo! But you are definitely not marriage material with a mouth like yours. You are gutter material. Wise men have self confidence, self control and know a good woman when they see one. Body count or no body count. The 'mumu' man has kept a family intact for 10 solid years, fed, clothed, financed, sheltered a family. If that makes him a mumu, bring it on! We are doing the mumu together! 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by 4teelaw(f): 1:43pm On May 29, 2015 |
Timbuktou: Kids everywhere sha. You can't be married. Marriage is not for babies. If a small issue like marrying a virgin or not is making you sound like a baby who's lost his rattle, then taking care of a woman and kids will set you off a cliff. You even need reading lessons, or is it comprehension? Who says a babe should sleep around? I'm saying you shouldn't set your mind on such issues. I didn't marry as a virgin, doesn't mean I didn't marry who I gave it to. I have an old friend who married as a virgin, and she's out on the streets right now? You know why? She had attitude problems, was totally irresponsible and a bad cook. Her hubby stylishly moved out and left her. Did her being a virgin make her a better wife? There's more to marriage than body counts. What's in her past is in her past. If the future is bright, she completes you, makes you a better person, is full of love and compassion, by all means, carry on! 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by 4teelaw(f): 1:20pm On May 29, 2015 |
babyosisi: Simple oooo! |
Family / Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by 4teelaw(f): 1:19pm On May 29, 2015 |
Timbuktou: Read my earlier posts on this thread, then borrow yourself brain. Keep looking for a virgin, child. When kids your age these days have thrown caution to the wind and sleep with any man that shows the money, you would most probably be a very old bachelor. FYI, Some of us have been married for half your age, and even if we weren't virgins, have kept our marriages and the marriage bed intact over the years. If you need schooling, as politely. Okay? 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by 4teelaw(f): 1:12pm On May 29, 2015 |
ApexTitan: Does that place have a meter that measures Body count! If a woman doesn't tell you, you will never know. So why set yourself up for a big surprise? Some things are not necessary. It's the 'I must marry virgin or low body count' school of thought that makes women lie about these things, and |
Family / Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by 4teelaw(f): 11:00am On May 29, 2015 |
Timbuktou: Actually a man with no self esteem will be looking for a virgin to marry. Happy searching. My advise, look for a mom to betrothe her newborn to you, so that you can marry her at 15, okay? 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by 4teelaw(f): 9:44am On May 29, 2015 |
Ngokafor: Thank you ooo! It seems women, who can handle sensitive information are actually more in sync with "reveal less" Meanwhile men who will run at the slightest instance will get be here forming macho man, like they can handle anything. Being a minor is not by age, it's by your content. I have a barracks of brothers, and no sisters. I get the opportunity to sit with them and their friends and share experiences. Some dude once told me he had a party, two guys and a girl. I even asked him how he found the experience. He said he was disgusted eventually, and made sure thee other guy was 5 feet away from him. Will he tell his wife this story... he paused...No he wouldn't. She may not be able to handle it (even if I think it's not such a big of a deal for a woman not to handle). What if his wife was in such a party? He flared up, no o! I cannot marry such a woman, and if he does, he should better never know about it. If he marries her before he finds out? He paused again... ehhh, sebi it's in her past sha, but I really don't need to know! Who remembers this old american flick about a couple who came clean? The guy talked about his deepest darkest past (I can't remember the details) They laugh about it. The woman came clean, her's was that she gave her dog a Mouth Action, and had to kill the dog eventually. Dude couldn't handle it, and he dumped her at the end of the movie. Someone please help me with the name... 1 Like |
Family / Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by 4teelaw(f): 5:32am On May 29, 2015 |
babyosisi: Many of them aren't married. There's no hard and fast rule, only guidelines from people's experiences. I cannot cheat, but for those that ended up cheating, except you were caught, just let it go. The knowledge won't help your spouse in anyway except you did it to hurt the guy, then you may want to throw it in his face (yer, some women cheat just for payback!). FYI, women hardly ever get caught cheating, many women can hard heartedly take that secret to the grave. And if you ask me, even if you are accused, except there's a video evidence, "It Wasn't You". It's either you don't do it, or cover up your tracks with fresh asphalt. My two cents 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by 4teelaw(f): 5:17am On May 29, 2015 |
Y'all pause! It depends on the parties in the relationship/marriage. I am a chatterbox, and I have spilled every secret in the box, without even knowing. Av been with my man 10yrs now and he doesn't like to talk about his past relationships, cos he believes what is past is past. He also doesn't like to hear about my past relationships, so while blabbing uncontrollably, I may mention some guy I dated, and his countenance changes. He just doesn't wanna know so I don't talk about it. Any day he hears from someone something I did in the past, he would ask me and I will share the circumstances, because whenever I raise such a topic, I realise he is not emotionally balanced enough to receive such news. And he thinks I am also not emotionally balanced for whatever stuff he doesn't wanna talk about, so I leave it that way. When we had fertility challenges, I asked him if he had impregnated a girl b4 and sponsored any abortions, he said maybe, maybe not. Some girls have come with that story, maybe they jst wanted to squeeze money out of him, and he never followed up. I wasn't dazed by that answer, but I was dazed when he told me he knew I had been through an abortion (I am not proud of this one bit). How did he know, I blurted it out one day in useless chatter (as usual) long ago b4 we even courted. Although we never talked about it again, but he never forgot and it's not a big deal we all have our past. It's been 10 rocky but wonderful years. If he had ever cheated, he will never admit it, it's his way of protecting me, I have never caught him so he is innocent until found guilty. I have never cheated, mostly because I'm too devoted to him and if I cheat, will I tell him? I don't think so. I'm with babyosisi on this. I'll browbeat myself into order, repent and never repeat an episode. I know he can't handle it. He won't leave me, but it will kill his ego and emasculate him, thinking he can't satisfy and provide for me. That's what he fears the most. So I won't cheat, because I don't want to emasculate him, it's a chore to make him believe in himself again, I'd rather not tow that line. And it's a bigger chore to stop feeling guilty about being the cause of his pain. It will just hurt two of us... 5 Likes |
Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 2 by 4teelaw(f): 2:52pm On May 27, 2015 |
shagaman: Been seeing this flood on the news... It wasn't expected. Houston mamas, please stay sef! |
Politics / Re: US Prepares For Buruji Kashamu’s Extradition, Discloses Fresh Evidence by 4teelaw(f): 12:07pm On May 26, 2015 |
Beht wait! If na me be Kashamu, I will gladly return to US where ther is light and fuel! Sebi I am innocent? What is there to be afraid of? In US you are innocent until found guilty. Is it not to groove more Chicago Amala and Moet and update bbm status "now chilling in illinois" 1 Like |
Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 2 by 4teelaw(f): 8:56pm On May 22, 2015 |
Nothing productive to add again, silent reader here too. No fresh info, everyone waiting for everyone to recycle doctors and hospitals. Please let's all start researching so that we can contribute meaningfully. I am even suspecting that some people are no longer sharing meaningful information out of fear of misuse and overuse. 1 Like 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Alison-Madueke Denied Conversation With Buhari During Their Trip To London by 4teelaw(f): 8:35pm On May 22, 2015 |
What happened to her private jets kwanu? 1 Like |
Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 2 by 4teelaw(f): 5:42pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
MrMandilas: Hi, I don't know if you will get the response you want right now, but it has been exhausted on the other thread, part one. Or go through Phema's posts for her burden of proof |
Jobs/Vacancies / Job Openings For OND Holders (accounting, Business Admin., Secretarial Studies) by 4teelaw(f): 11:30am On Jul 14, 2014 |
I currently have openings for the OND graduates, as well as IT students (6 months to 1 year) in a Finance Institution. Preferably residing in the Lekki, Ajah Axis. Renumeration is attractive. Please email CV to before Friday 18th July, 2014. Best of luck. |
Investment / Re: Your Financial And Business Advisory Questions Get Answered Here by 4teelaw(f): 1:51pm On Jan 06, 2014 |
shedyman: Good day, my mum just retired from the public service and plans on going into the sale of palm oil as a retirement business. I would rather think this is too petty inview of her gratuity (over 20million naira) but she seems hell bent on going on. Do u consider this line of business viable? If yes, what suggestions can u proffer to aid her? Thanks.How much about palm oil business does she know? I will suggest she invests in a high yielding investment notes for a 1yr period while she develops a solid business plan around her idea. I can help you with a very good business plan writing consultant if you so wish and recommend some good investment options. |
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