Katier00:
this is Nairaland my dear. They will come for my head o. On a serious note, no. Went to a single sex school but that stuff never crossed my mind

Amakavula:
Who will , hardly any of them will meet you in real life, and it nice to share all your struggles to find solidarity. It helps

michaelandre:
yea I have been approached many times. by guys and they are very friendly and helpful. assuming I was gay I would have fallen bcus of how they compliment me and other things. the closest one that ever happened to me was a friend of mine (so I took him)was stylishly asking me out since 2015 but I didn't feel and he knew sometimes in public he touches me always want his body to be close to mine and I still didn't feel because I didn't know shit about them or how they behave. he always comes to my house from then we will go to their house. so a day came he came to my house and we later went to his house. he brought food he pulled his clothes and came with only boxers and that's the day I knew he was gay he started touching me sexually and I told him to stop and that's when he was telling me coldedly that he is gay and he isn't sexually attracted to girls, that he likes the way I behave that am cool

Katier00:
this is Nairaland my dear. They will come for my head o. On a serious note, no. Went to a single sex school but that stuff never crossed my mind

Buffalowings3:
If a gay ever ask me out,that would be the best complement I've ever gotten in my life..
Even though I'm not gay..

Abeg not these local gay boys o

Amakavula:
Enjoy the attention, the is the last ever reply you would get from me. From this time forth oboy81 you are dead to me.

Amakavula:
It's a little stressful and would hurt to tell them the truth because they might have been grooming you for long. Best tell them " No " in a public space.



Mine happen that one time I had Pharm-Lab orals in the University, quite early in the morning so invited my study partner to my place overnight ( had a room off campus )

Some how we got bored around 2/3am so she suggested we chatted instead of sleep. Hence, we started talking about TV shows, then romance, love, then sex and it got steamy too quickly ( I guess that was her intention )

She walks off suddenly to the bathroom, spends a few minutes and returned half nude with only a blue short ; her Bra was gone, with her breast fully aroused. She explians it because of the heat, asks for a shirt but before I could get up to get one, she pushes me back on my bed, laughs hard and starts to kiss and fundle my breasts ( had only a cropped top because of the heat )



Thoughts run through my mind. I was too shocked to react , and a little embarrassed given she was this nerdy, shy and quite religious lady, hardly parties and was quite helpful through CLi course works ( one of the best in the class, outside nobody would believe me ) I was getting raped by a girl.

Even worse was I never gave her such a vibe before, and it was akward when I stopped her with " leave me now or I will scream " You should see her face. But Reading that morning was weird, I didn't sleep again out of the fear she might complete her planned rape of me.

Weeks later, after avoiding her for long, she asked to see me at night in my place. After begging for touching me uninvited, she proposed her undying love for me and told me all she had done to get close to me. It was so bizarre. She asked us to be just Bleep buddies, and keep it down low, and she will love me more than any man would.

I couldn't even laugh. I was sad because I liked her but not that way. Told my then Boyfriend ( Stupid Ex) about it, he only laughed, stupid thing mtwwweeee.

But finally took her out to a Cafe under the pretense of editing my electives ( was afraid what happened could happen again ) to break the "Sorry Chiamaka , I can't do this, I don't like women, and I have a boyfriend, I don't want it please "

O dear She was livid, never seen her that angry before , given she had helped me alot up to that night incident. Broke off our friendship . Surprisingly saw her recently she is married with twin Lolx . I am still single see this life !

ElsonMorali:


Good. Lesbianism is so common in all girls' school. I guess you got lucky or something

Katier00:
you are right but no shame, I respect the choice of those that indulge in that

ElsonMorali:


I wish I was as liberal as you, but I'm old school.

Katier00:
live, let's live. The spirit of tolerance

Amakavula:
It's a little stressful and would hurt to tell them the truth because they might have been grooming you for long. Best tell them " No " in a public space.



Mine happen that one time I had Pharm-Lab orals in the University, quite early in the morning so invited my study partner to my place overnight ( had a room off campus )

Some how we got bored around 2/3am so she suggested we chatted instead of sleep. Hence, we started talking about TV shows, then romance, love, then sex and it got steamy too quickly ( I guess that was her intention )

She walks off suddenly to the bathroom, spends a few minutes and returned half nude with only a blue short ; her Bra was gone, with her breast fully aroused. She explians it because of the heat, asks for a shirt but before I could get up to get one, she pushes me back on my bed, laughs hard and starts to kiss and fundle my breasts ( had only a cropped top because of the heat )



Thoughts run through my mind. I was too shocked to react , and a little embarrassed given she was this nerdy, shy and quite religious lady, hardly parties and was quite helpful through CLi course works ( one of the best in the class, outside nobody would believe me ) I was getting raped by a girl.

Even worse was I never gave her such a vibe before, and it was akward when I stopped her with " leave me now or I will scream " You should see her face. But Reading that morning was weird, I didn't sleep again out of the fear she might complete her planned rape of me.

Weeks later, after avoiding her for long, she asked to see me at night in my place. After begging for touching me uninvited, she proposed her undying love for me and told me all she had done to get close to me. It was so bizarre. She asked us to be just Bleep buddies, and keep it down low, and she will love me more than any man would.

I couldn't even laugh. I was sad because I liked her but not that way. Told my then Boyfriend ( Stupid Ex) about it, he only laughed, stupid thing mtwwweeee.

But finally took her out to a Cafe under the pretense of editing my electives ( was afraid what happened could happen again ) to break the "Sorry Chiamaka , I can't do this, I don't like women, and I have a boyfriend, I don't want it please "

O dear She was livid, never seen her that angry before , given she had helped me alot up to that night incident. Broke off our friendship . Surprisingly saw her recently she is married with twin Lolx . I am still single see this life !

cigaricon:
Yea. Dude even took me out one night. Told me he wanted me to accompany him to a friend's birthday party. Before I knew it, we landed in a strip club . It was quite fun oh as he spent a lot that night on Drinks. Still don't know why he did this, maybe he wanted to impress me or something. It was when I saw his male friends caressing and rocking each other that it came to me that he might be gay. One our way home he opened up to me that he likes me and he would like us to date. I told him that I wasn't gay and that I'll never be one even in my next life. he said even he himself wasn't used to be gay until he was converted that it is when I start that I will know how pleasurable it is and realise what I'm missing. Chineke!!! He kept persuading and I kept declining calmly cos I didn't want to hurt his feelings sha (he was quite a nice fellow). Then he finally gave up and since then whenever he sees me, he acts like he don't know me, lookes at me with one kyn shady look like that. He even goes about telling his fellow peeps and friends that he has slept with me and that it was so easy for him to do it, that I was cheap (I heared from people) I could understand - HE WAS HURT.I felt bad sha but Las Las people that knew me and mattered to me as I mattered to them know that I'm noy GAY

nwanneni:
shey i offered to fly in from ph to abj and you dey form?
Amaka you really is
You no want make i give you LOGO BENZ abi

Bifrost:
So, of all the experiences so far, none of you wants to own up being gay or lesbian?

Hmm, okay.

Bifrost:
So, of all the experiences so far, none of you wants to own up being gay or lesbian?

Hmm, okay.

Amakavula:
Woooh! you look at me finish and the only thing you can think of is to use my destiny for a useless car, not how I could be a blessing to you or a great help or a wife or a Friend... you even Igbo. You are dead to me nwanneni ! I will never reply you again.

ElsonMorali:


Maybe, but wrong is always wrong and cannot be right. But I respect your view to tolerate gays, I just don't share it.

jeloser:
chai you sound weak, sure he drilled you. Stop lying

CDTSGT:
Thread of closeted gays

CDTSGT:
Thread of closeted gays