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Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by egojeny1(f): 5:21pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
Obainoneandonly:Nawa o. U still went to the extent of conniving to collect her phone @ knife point? U get heart o. U wld've left the phone for her na since she had already been sacked from the job. |
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by egojeny1(f): 5:23pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
dollytino4real:Gbam! U nailed it. |
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 6:17pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
LordKO: Very much agree with you. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by Obainoneandonly(m): 6:40pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
egojeny1:I needed d phone to b able to withdraw the money from her account..... I had to do it discreetly |
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by tabithababy(f): 7:05pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
Obainoneandonly:. Haaaasaaa aye o |
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by LordKO(m): 7:47pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
bukatyne: It's obvious you're a strong-minded - not a headstrong - woman. Kudos. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by needful: 8:04pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
For me, in a country like Nigeria where women are treated anyhow by men.....a woman need to be financially buoyant before and after marriage so as to be able to withstand some men's Ego. 98% of men in Nigeria are always happy to see a woman suffer in the name of submission and that is why they get afraid of marrying the independent rich ladies. Most men doesnt want to see 1 naira in their womens hands, they just want u to be helpless so that they can bring their girl friends even on that ur matrimonial bed. Men hate to see a woman flourish if eventually there was a divorce situation. So because of all this, I prepared very wel financially before I got married and my man eventually is not that type of men who sees women as nothing but object of sexual satisfaction. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by ODUNEWUWURA(f): 9:06pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
The same reasons why man needs to be financially independent. Ladies you are not created for man. Get a life for your self. At the age of 5-10 I want to become this or that. At the age of 10-18 you go to school to become responsible person and to build you self,you have a lot of dreams and ambition you want to achieve. By the time you grow up and you started thinking about marriage.you forget all your childhood dreams and ambitions.your new ambition is now to marry a man that Will take up your financial needs.what happened to your old ambitions Ladies get a life and stop relying on man. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by ireneidiva(f): 5:07am On Feb 10, 2019 |
Obainoneandonly:You are evil and you should be arrested. You should have just ended the relationship and moved on. You are petty. You are also a thief. Is it your money? It is probably this your attitude that made her change. God forbid a 'human being' like you. How you sleep at night is beyond me. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by aanuoluwami14(f): 10:16am On Feb 10, 2019 |
it helps the woman to be independent, also makes it easier for the man too. |
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by Obainoneandonly(m): 11:44am On Feb 10, 2019 |
ireneidiva:I went through alot securing that job for her(financially/physically) only for her to be telling rubbish in my face...you dont bite the hands that feeds you........ FYI, she don't even know that I was d one behind it all(her been sacked /her money vanishing) because it was done clandestinely beyond imagination.... now she's loyal like a dog to its owner.........I sleep pretty well at night with sweet dreams |
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by ireneidiva(f): 3:17pm On Feb 10, 2019 |
Obainoneandonly:Whatever she did wrong to you, you should have addressed it by talking to her or just breaking up with her. This is so wrong and petty. She can still do something similar in future to you. You should have just left. God forbid. |
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by Obainoneandonly(m): 4:07pm On Feb 10, 2019 |
ireneidiva:she can't do such again, I have all my contingencies plans on lock down.... I tried talking ,just like mature folks do,but she ain't having none of it... .... the money got into her head that she forgot who got the job for her.....then she started cheating........ I did what I had to do to savour d situation |
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by TV01(m): 8:59pm On Feb 15, 2019 |
Elder0001: It's TV01 Hope your spouse comes soon. And that your eyes clear first. Or at least the practicalities of your ideology hold true And no, it's absolutely irrelevant if a woman is financially independent prior to marriage. Indeed, not many men are and, often, it's the combination of income and labour from both parties that make marriage a viable proposition and going concern. One's financial status will not necessarily speak to their commitment, maturity or vision. All decidedly more important than financial capability, which does have it's place admittedly, but is not in and of itself determinant. Marriage is not about independence, it's about inter-dependence. Once you get that and are mature and committed this poser eases to exist as a real consideration. Indeed, this thinking is better termed "financial independence after marriage", as that is what it is mostly about isn't it? For those of you who are true of heart and desirous of marriage, be wise. Don't be caught up in fallacies, erroneous notions or ill-founded and distracting considerations. Beware the interjections of the ignorant and/or bitter. Singing "money ain't a thang " Best TV |
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by ArcToyin(m): 11:24am On Aug 19, 2019 |
Olamsoh:Inasmuch as these seems to help against boredom and worrisome, it also will help to destroy. Replace alcohol, weed and sex is other exciting activities. |
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by Nobody: 9:20am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Because a woman is a helper not a liability so bring something to the table if you can. It’s good to have some money no matter how small. |
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