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Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by Nobody: 6:55pm On Feb 08
Olamsoh:
your birth month is what makes you feel better when sad

January – Series
February – Alcohol
March – Money
April – Jogging
May – Food
June – Movies
July – Weed
August – Shopping
September – Cooking
October – Sex
November – Swimming
December – Good Company
This sh1t is f**king real for me!! grin
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by Ugosample(m): 6:59pm On Feb 08
ToyinDipo:

I did, and everyone agrees that Nigeria will be a better place with men like him
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Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by DanDeeBoss(m): 7:01pm On Feb 08
Olamsoh:
your birth month is what makes you feel better when sad

January – Series
February – Alcohol
March – Money
April – Jogging
May – Food
June – Movies
July – Weed
August – Shopping
September – Cooking
October – Sex
November – Swimming
December – Good Company
February.... But Alcohol is a no no for me....

Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by Ugosample(m): 7:03pm On Feb 08
Clvot:
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They better be warned
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by Audacious19: 7:48pm On Feb 08
chiefqueen:

But, why are you angry?
You made sense but your write up is kind of out of context.
We know mental development is more important than financial development ,but that's not even the question or topic of discussion. Which one is " no wonder many of them end up prayer warriors"?.
actually after finishing my write up i started seeing more write up backing the wrong reasons not really a thing of anger
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by dingbang(m): 7:54pm On Feb 08
cool
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by MatthAnn(f): 7:58pm On Feb 08
Its really important to be financially independent
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by Ifeconwaba(m): 8:06pm On Feb 08
ibkayee:
Can’t emphasise the importance of a woman having her own money enough, even if your husband is ok with fully taking care of you, still have something you can fall back on.

It’s empowering, self fufilling, it brings independence, multiple streams of income won’t hurt the household, you’re less of a liability, if your guy falls on bad times you can step in and help, being entirely reliant on your guy can open doors for misbehaviour (cheating, abuse, etc)

There was a recent story of one peanut head Nigerian man who destroyed a business he helped his wife build because he felt she was becoming ‘too proud’. When you have your own, if things go wrong you will have more options

So many reasons
beauty with brain

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Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 8:15pm On Feb 08
CAPSLOCKED:


WHAT?? grin
Caps were you born in February? lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by CAPSLOCKED: 8:26pm On Feb 08
Ladyhippolyta88:
Caps were you... lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
YEZZZ grin
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by UrbanExotica(f): 8:28pm On Feb 08
I'm too young to marry although i'm rich
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 8:29pm On Feb 08
CAPSLOCKED:


YEZZZ grin
wow smiley
What date? cheesy shocked shocked
We share the same month cool
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by Helibeke(f): 8:54pm On Feb 08
[quote author=dwisedgreat post=75540157]The lady needs to be financially independent so as not to be a liability and also assist her husband financially too in her own little way .... [/quote

Yet the husband won't agree to assist with house chores
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by feelgoodstuffs(m): 9:14pm On Feb 08
HerCuteness:
March born

Let's gather here. "We are Money Makers"
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by jakandeola(m): 9:22pm On Feb 08
"e author=Saffi post=75540767]I believe that you’re stupid. [/quote]" u lack sence why insult him
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by CAPSLOCKED: 9:25pm On Feb 08

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Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 9:36pm On Feb 08
CAPSLOCKED:


ELEVENTH smiley

woww cheesy
Now I see the reason why you are such an intelligent young/old man (judging from your post) grin grin
Mine is sixteenth
Happy birthday dear.
please manage this bottle of tequila grin cheesy my birthday gift to you tongue tongue.All the best kiss kiss kiss

Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by djon78: 9:42pm On Feb 08
EVILFOREST:

For MARRIAGE:
BETTER go for a LADY that is financially stable, yet not too beautiful than a PRETTY SERPENT that has nothing to offer beyond sit at home and SEXX.

HUNGER looms
Avoid problems, don’t expect GOD to rush to your aid when the chips are down. No be only you GOD carry for mind.
When you end up with a MISS WORLD that is redundant and lazy, few weeks after marriage, you will never see that beauty again.
She will mean nothing to you.
In fact she will be the one begging you to come and phuck.
My BROTHER, a hungry man can never satisfy a lady even if he takes a carton of viagra

Before I got married I had more than 23 LADIES around me. They surrounded me because I have always engaged myself meaningfully.
If I were stupid or LAZY, you will never find them around me.
LADIES do not invest in bad markets especially when ready for marriage.
I ended up with the wealthiest in cash, savings and reasoning with so much love to shower me, yet not as beautiful as most of them..

Not just financially stable but a woman who has got sense, wisdom on how to manage, build, and invest. A woman that will give you sound counsel and advice that will turn your life around.


Those are the kind of women you see a man marry and they say she brought the man good luck. The Man's finances just grows astronomically. That's the wife the Bible tells us is from the Lord.

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Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by Jman06(m): 10:02pm On Feb 08
Daeylar:
So you can walk away from the man if any bullshit,( i.e abuse of any kind) starts from him (before marriage) or anyone at all e.g in-laws.(after marriage, Allthough this has more to do with you having the mindset to walk away than having cash, because some rich women are abused or mistreated and still stay even though they have the money necessary to walk away.)

Also, Since it is money that controls Nigeria. Having your own money will help take your kids with you when you walk. (In the event that there are kids and you would like to walk away after marriage).

These are the only 2 reasons why it is important to have your own money.
Just imagine the selfishness of some women!!
The above reason is why I would rather marry a poor girl whom I fancy sexually and take care of all her financial needs than marry a rich lady whose money is only meant to be used to fight me in the event of misunderstanding.

Tufiakwa!

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Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by Donrexd: 10:02pm On Feb 08
There was a recent story of one peanut head Nigerian man who destroyed a business he helped his wife build because he felt she was becoming ‘too proud’. When you have your own, if things go wrong you will have more options


I think the man knows what best suits his family and how to handle the situation for perfect result
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by CAPSLOCKED: 10:08pm On Feb 08
Ladyhippolyta88:


Now I see the reason why you are such an intelligent young/old man (judging from your post) grin grin
please manage this bottle of tequila grin cheesy my gift to you tongue

THANK YOU. MAYBE ONE DAY I'LL MEET YOU IN REAL LIFE. smiley

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Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 10:43pm On Feb 08
CAPSLOCKED:


THANK YOU. MAYBE ONE DAY I'LL MEET YOU IN REAL LIFE. smiley
Yeah maybe smiley.
Saw what you have been doing to our comments. wink lol.It seems you love to lay low wink on such details I won't bother you further on such next time.
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by dollytino4real(f): 11:05pm On Feb 08
Divay22:

Hahahahhahah grin grin grin
my sister from warri mavo

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Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by Olafisoyem: 12:46am On Feb 09
Daeylar:
So you can walk away from the man if any bullshit,( i.e abuse of any kind) starts from him (before marriage) or anyone at all e.g in-laws.(after marriage, Allthough this has more to do with you having the mindset to walk away than having cash, because some rich women are abused or mistreated and still stay even though they have the money necessary to walk away.)

Also, Since it is money that controls Nigeria. Having your own money will help take your kids with you when you walk. (In the event that there are kids and you would like to walk away after marriage).

These are the only 2 reasons why it is important to have your own money.

Let me add one more. Buying what you want when you want
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by excell123: 6:27am On Feb 09
'If any will not work, let him not eat'.

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Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by chisco82(m): 6:46am On Feb 09
maestroferdi:
Gross joke for a lady...

Be civil/galant for once...
See woman raper, can’t u mind ur business for a seconds? Please don’t quote me again.
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by pocohantas(f): 8:48am On Feb 09
chisco82:

See woman raper, can’t u mind ur business for a seconds? Please don’t quote me again.

Lol, deactivate your account if you don't want anyone to quote you.
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by chisco82(m): 9:13am On Feb 09
pocohantas:


Lol, deactivate your account if you don't want anyone to quote you.
Sigh...who be this one? tongue
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by hahn(m): 10:59am On Feb 09
Radiant1020:
Forget marriage sef, every adult should be financially independent

Period

Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by ODUNEWUWURA(f): 12:42pm On Feb 09
Where is it written that woman should not get a life for her self.as a responsible lady,you should have something that bring money to you.and be able to be in charge of your life. It is not until you get married that you will get life.
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by ODUNEWUWURA(f): 12:46pm On Feb 09
Woman should add values to their life. Your life did not begin when you get married. Neither will it ends there.

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