joyousever:
Hello...But trying to buy his business which you feel a lot of ppl might be interested in shouldn't be used as an avenue for exploitation by him. You're actually the one doing him a favour by parting with your money to buy off his business,therefore, it has no connection to why he should take advantage. Allowing him to bring in women to defile your home which is contrary to what you do as a personal policy,is very bad. It could attract bad spirits cos no one can tell what's following him & those free women. So,you need to man up & politely tell him that you're expecting some family members for a family function &theyll be staying over for some days with effect from today's evening. I believe with this excuse,he wouldn't need a seer to tell him that he's no longer welcome.

Why you wan force Bros to lie nah? Let him tell the mofo to get da hell outa his house.

I remember games of thrones, I remember the good guys died too soon...

Rubbiish:
Instead of joining him for a threes0me, u are writing long note?

On a serious note, u should be bold enough to tell him your mind, u sound too fearful for man. Or are u a lady?

no i am heshe lol u be bad person

asuustrike1:

You must be a Delta or Edo guy

Spot on...lok

kense88:
All these useless friends people keep self. Throw his ass out of ur house immediately.

I think it is the guy code.
Homies over hoes kinda thing

I don't deal with people like you.... You too mumu habaaaaa!!! You be man at all? Its from the gate you would have turn him back and you came online to start ranting.... Abegiiiii

@op, are u buying his business at a give a way price? you are putting your life, reputation etc at risk because of your greediness. You at risk of exposing to hepatitis B. please decontaminate your room and bathroom with jik. check everywhere if there is no incriminating evidences like guns, cocaine in your room. pray that one of them is not died during sex. pray that one of them is not cultist.
you are an adult and you must know how to say no. buying business is not a priority now.

It's is a better option/suggestion. if he can't say it as it is to him straight up.

deltateam:



Why you wan force Bros to lie nah? Let him tell the mofo to get da hell outa his house.

You are depressed because you are a fool and idiot.

middlebelter:
So many things you can do. Invite two of your brothers home and tell him you are expecting visitors and that the house won't be able to take accommodate him from tomorrow. Tell him it is important he hi because you did not plan to have him beyond one day and now you have very important matters to discuss with the family. Encourage him to take along him belongings as the visitors may not be returning back to base soon.

Or tell him straight away that you are completely against his attitude and it can cause serious spiritual issues for you because from what experience, God will always punish you whenever you encourage such acts directly or indirectly.
Or just tell him to take his load and get out of your house with the girl that night.

he doesnt need all these excuses....nigga get the Bleep out of my house! The joy you will feel from saying this powerful words will make you regain weight

let us chat on whatsapp 07039476669,so thst i will tell you what to do

candlewax:


Everywhere is quiet now, but I can't imagine the condition of my bed spread

you are really a jew man o! That wasnt meant to be a question, he was simply being sacarstic by asking you

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candlewax ,it's better you talk to your friend and tell him to leave that your neighbours are complaining.Your friend claims to be the owner of your house and you're like his houseboy...It's from people's jokes we know the content of their heart.

What tha faack.. In your own house again? Niiga u is a pussvy.

Its like everything in life was given to you on a platter...out here we take things BYFORCE but we still not violent. Learn a new code of conduct bro. Yours is for the sheep.

Capensis:


You lose much and it erodes the incremental gains and the cycle continues because you are not ready to learn the code and move on to the next challenge. You are not on the planet to be a good guy, you are here for more serious stuff and parasites will derail you.

Do not seek for advise if you are not ready to take it. Be a man, and deal with issues with decisiveness and stop pretending to be good, when you are actually weak.

When someone is good but he or she is weak, it constitutes to foolishness.
That guy is a Jew man in the highest order

daddytime:


Give the guy a bit of your heart and Bleep his friendship. You alone can be your best friend. Start befriending you bro..

God bless you bruh,... you alone can be your best friend... if people know the in depth of this... there won't be any disappointment

lincsnuel:


Na true sha.

Ok, I have a lasting solution to this menace...

If you live around Enugu then call me make I help you arrange boys wey go beat am for you... I think that is what he deserves at this point. Enough is enough. PM me.

my chest ohhh

Sack him period, he doesn't want to sell any business to you....Its a ponzi scheme...he is liar
Invite your family members, your mum and your dad are coming to discuss some important family issues, get rid of him and avoid him like a plaque. Trust me he is a bad social influence, remember how people will view you in their own spectacle after all the friend of a dog is a dog.

ststyreal:
I don't deal with people like you.... You too mumu habaaaaa!!! You be man at all? Its from the gate you would have turn him back and you came online to start ranting.... Abegiiiii

Abeg sharap!
Are you not d same like the slay queen wey the eediot bring come another person house come dey maul.
Destiny-destroyer ladies, they even plenty for nairaland pass.

Thank God I'm a misorganist.

justbusy:
Make an arrangement with a girl, take her home: tell him she's pregnant for you and she'll be living with you henceforth. Politely tell him there's no room for him. That's all. Hmmmmmm, a friend too has been pestering me that he has accommodation problem: I should assist him! Do you know what? You can NEVER know the true character of a man in need!

You don't need to do all that shit. Just tell him, you can't stay with him period.

candlewax:
I Don bleep up brothers, how do I handle this situation I'm loosing weight very fast, this idiot I call a friend yesterday told me he wants to come to my place, we were very close in place of business but I don't know much about him aside business so I allowed him to visit, he was there in my house and told me he was going to sleep over I told him its OK.

As I was going out that evening, he later called me that a girl was coming to see him, I was stunned but didn't say a word. I just felt he should enjoy himself and that would be the last, to my surprise when I came back yesterday I saw two big plastic bags containing clothes from dry cleaner in my bedroom after, he wasn't around at that moment.

As I was still trying to understand the motive, the guy pressed the door bell, I opened and he went to lay on my bed, i slept on the living room last night, this morning he left before I woke up with the clothes still in my bed room. I told myself I will talk to him this evening but I was still looking for the polite way to talk to him, then my phone rang again this evening that he is coming, I said OK that's fine hoping to talk to him no matter how hard it is (I am a very quiet type) then he did come till few minutes ago.

He was banging on the gate and that is a big taboo in our compound because the key to the pedestrians gate was given to everyone in my compound so you can always lock the gate after you leave but this fool was banging at the gate like its a ghetto area. Everyone at the compound was already peeping at their window to know what's happening when I went to the gate to open it for him, to my greatest shock there was this razz tattooed lady with him, obviously a prostitute coming inside the compound with him. I was dumbfounded as I noticed people looking from their corridors.

I felt the ground should open and swallow me because it was unbearable, I was just recovering from the shock, this idiot got to my door instead of removing his shoes on the corridor he walked into my living room with his shoes on (Jesus) I couldn't bear that I told him remove his shoes because we joked a lot he retorted that I shouldn't talk to my boss in that manner again (thinking I was in for his jokes)

As I am typing this now, I'm laying on the living room and he is inside my bedroom on my bed with a prostitute. (I have only entertained a female visitor once in my house and I have never had sex with anyone on my bed) now this is what I get.

I am just a good guy to a fault (that's what I think) otherwise I couldn't let this guy inside my house, also he has a business that he said he wants to sell because he plans relocating to asaba to his family and I want to buy the business, I don't want him to feel I'm chasing him though that's what he deserves but I need smart ways to bid him farewell..

Towards the end of this I could hear a lady moaning meaning they are having sex and Im about to she'd tears why this guy wanna desecrate my home. Sorry for the long story but please advice my based on the delicate matter because I just battled depression and I will be depressed if this continues tomorrow. Thanks

U sound too timid for a man, u have to have some nerves and be bold.

Just park some things in traveling bag and tell the fool u wanna travel tomorrow and intends locking your house. Once u he leaves u can return to your house this trick always works

Well don't act like your angry or pissed. Just smile with him then when he goes out. Pack all his load. If you have a gateman or a close neighbour drop all his load there and talk to your close friend and go stay there for a week. When he calls direct him to where his load is and explain you had an emergency call that warrants you to travel out of town and you don't know when you will be returning.
Also free him and his business OK.
You even have nothing to worry about since your house gate isn't the type that is opened and unwanted visitors can stroll in. Your the one troubling yourself.
As for your reputation no problem ignore your neighbours you don't owe them nothing. They don't pay your rent. With time you will feel better.
One more thing before he leaves your house tell him its a rule in your house not to knock the gate that when next he is coming home a flash will do.
We both know he isn't coming back to your house because you won't be available and with this info he won't want to knock next time.

If you are too scared to tell him. drop your number so someone will call you and act like your mum or bro and make sure you pick when his around you and the person will say he/she is coming to stay. That will do. guess twill give you guts to tell him

He probably told the girl it's his house and you're the errand boy.. Can you forget about the business and tell him to get himself and his polythene bag out of your house? I'm not sure anything good can come out of this so called friendship.... Talk to him anyhow cos he already knows you're too cool that's why he has such gut to be treating you in such manner in your own house..

This night club night thread long oo

candlewax:


Thanks what you said is partly true, but somehow i survive the wolves. Even though I lose much because I'm a good guy but let's stay on track. I need my apartment back

u need to kick that fool outta ur house. I once lived with such foolish being. He is just taking u for a ride knowing how meek u r.

I can see that u dont want to offend him becos the has a business that he said he wants to sell and u wish to buy, rubbish

This rubbish happened to me one day in the university here. I live outside campus, so my male guys would be bringing ladies to my house that am paying the house rent alone and be banging like an hotel room, the day I was fed-up, I invited all of them over to that my house and told them to come with their respective girlfriends. I entertained them well that day and then started pouring out the passage I have on my mind to them while they were sitting and I was standing doing the talking, all if them were surprised and all looked at me in disarray because they've never seen me so mean like that, since that day, all the nonsense stopped. The respect they all have for me after that day is something else and we're still cool friends.. Bro, what I have to say is Never be afraid to speak your mind, don't live to impress people while you live in bondage, if only you know how fast people forget the dead, then you wouldn't even live your life to please anyone
#BE WISE!!!