I am currently dating a lady and we have been together for more than three years and we love each other very much. The problem I have with her is that she doesn't want the use of condom before sex, although we are both negative of any sexual diseases.I let her know that unwanted pregnancy will persist with the use of condom but refuses.She told me that she is ready to be my wife of which I accept. I even try denying her of sex but get angry with me or begs me mor what else to do make her change her mind.

If u are not ready to get married or to be a father, U should only have unprotected sex with a lady u know she is negative of any sexual diseases as u say and most especially with a lady who herself is not ready to have kids - very important.
Ask her to get to know if she is likely wanting to settle down with children now to know she mind, becos some lady go crazy in love trying to get u or hold u down by getting pregnant-lol i just met one anyway but thank God she is not ready to be a "mom" like myself not ready to be call "dad"

Hope this helps, though i don't know all
Dom

Both of you have to come into agreement before such actions are taken. Don't let few moments of pleasure ruin your future. A word is enough for the wise.

Spyker:

Both of you have to come into agreement

yeah agreement, thats the point, girl no pregnancy o.

Go back and talk with her. Let her know you fears.

Thank you very much @domwas2

Thank you guys.I really appreciate your replies.

This is a though one,she is matured to take care of herself so dont be scared of her getting pregnant,is she a calabar girl,most of them dont like condoms

@iice. Thanks alot for your suggestion.I'll let her know about this and if there are no side effects then I'm sure she will be glad.

lure her into signing an undertaking that if u score a goal, na she only go rejoice~ u just need a pen and a paper.

Well no problem as long as she alone bear d consequences.

iice have spoken,best to follow her advice