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Re: Should I Save My Marriage Or Let Go? by Oyindidi(f): 4:02pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
Oga, step up in the bedroom game and stop complaining. Didn't you know she was a divorcee before marrying her? 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Save My Marriage Or Let Go? by ibkayee(f): 4:03pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
Oyindidi:Tell him sis 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Save My Marriage Or Let Go? by Oyindidi(f): 4:05pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
ibkayee:They are now the weaker vessels 6 Likes |
Re: Should I Save My Marriage Or Let Go? by Oyindidi(f): 4:07pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
donstan18:You go don date them tire. Speaking from experience I guess 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Save My Marriage Or Let Go? by ImaIma1(f): 4:50pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
donstan18: So the under 30 girl are saints? 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Save My Marriage Or Let Go? by Greatzeus(m): 4:53pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
donstan18:You might be right about a few of them,or some or even most,but you are wrong for generalizing. If you have a daughter who is a single mother or above 30,will you tell her not to find love again and remain single till death? Be careful,this life is very funny,you might find yourself with a divorce daughter and a single mother daughter and a 30+ unmarried daughter one day,so that you will eat your words in regret. I don't wish that for you,just saying life has a way of been ironic 22 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Save My Marriage Or Let Go? by ibkayee(f): 4:53pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
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Re: Should I Save My Marriage Or Let Go? by Contumely: 7:33pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
keepingmum: Oga, the wife is a divorcee. Was it sex issues that bought first divorce? The wife is from a dysfunctional home. She will never last in marriage. She had a chequered upbringing. He psyche is damaged. As for the op, he has serious esteem issues. Sounds like he has no option hence the woman kept using him. In short, op is an iddiot. Ubunja Franchasng Acidosis 25 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Save My Marriage Or Let Go? by piippa(m): 7:51pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
Never Marry a divorcee. History always find a way of repeating it's self. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Save My Marriage Or Let Go? by prizequest: 9:14pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
Contumely: you're correct. the 3 stallions she met before me why could'nt she save the marriage/relationships? i think my financial regression made me develop low esteem. i'll end the marriage. 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Save My Marriage Or Let Go? by IDERAWOLE(m): 9:22pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
prizequest: I've read through most of the advices given to your enquiries here, some awesome, others, you need to be careful. Until you find yourself in a similar situation, it's easier said than done. Talk can be cheap you know! All I can say is that you need to calm down now that you're thinking of making a decision, though separated for 4months already. You'll need to find a place to talk with her without any interruption. If you watch her body language very well, you may be able to pick her heart, whether she want the relationship back, though this requires some skill, but you'll need to try. I can feel your heart in this situation, but it shall go well if you trust God in all of these! What's your relationship with God like? It doesn't matter even if there's none for now, just put your confidence in Him. I'll leave you with two materials to read an excerpts from, if these sound good enough, you may want to purchase them. In the alternative, you may want to speak with me, I'm a marriage counsellor as well. My contact- 08063423482 The links: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1E7nXs8juhwFpnOOJCnYQeoYrWm2DEBrXQRTknS0_8PU/edit?usp=drivesdk&ouid=105033553278331508882 https://docs.google.com/document/d/1Nv23_98PdzAvZCll-RDploLHoM3iUPdXIDQ4nxn_7Ic/edit?usp=drivesdk&ouid=105033553278331508882 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Save My Marriage Or Let Go? by obowunmi(m): 12:38pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
Just lay there and let her knack you |
Re: Should I Save My Marriage Or Let Go? by madone: 12:39pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
prizequest:see wahala |
Re: Should I Save My Marriage Or Let Go? by SarkinYarki: 12:40pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
Why you go carry divorcee as wife na |
Re: Should I Save My Marriage Or Let Go? by madone: 12:40pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
ImaIma1:yes |
Re: Should I Save My Marriage Or Let Go? by Meliaen(f): 12:44pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
prizequest: I can bet my head you're from the east. What is wrong with you people? Well... Her ex dodged a bullet. You should too. Thank your God child never enter am. That's a very toxic, materialistic family. Run for your life 8 Likes |
Re: Should I Save My Marriage Or Let Go? by Ishilove: 12:46pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
ImaIma1:I wonder why anyone pays attention to him. He is obviously an attention seeking kid who has too much free time on his hands. 5 Likes |
Re: Should I Save My Marriage Or Let Go? by AngelicBeing: 12:47pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
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Re: Should I Save My Marriage Or Let Go? by robosky02(m): 12:49pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
Let me call my friend Ishilove I mean the teechnical adviser on reltionship she knows the answer |
Re: Should I Save My Marriage Or Let Go? by Nobody: 12:50pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
It is pity you didn't know your wife. That she is a divorcee is a red flag you should have investigated. Perhaps her hubby caught her with another man. I won't tell you what I think. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Save My Marriage Or Let Go? by BarrElChapo(m): 12:50pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
Must you go tribal Haba Meliaen: 6 Likes |
Re: Should I Save My Marriage Or Let Go? by Daeylar(f): 12:50pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
divorce and move on. Marriage is under a year and no kids But this your "marriage" though, 3 months to your anniversary and you've only spent 5 months actually married, and only because you both weren't in the same state. 5 months married, 4 months separated 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Save My Marriage Or Let Go? by prizequest: 12:50pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
Ishilove: read my predicament well you'd see reason i brought in the age. sorry if it agitate your mind. |
Re: Should I Save My Marriage Or Let Go? by shakespere: 12:51pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
Having a baby now will complicate your matter, might even be all the family wanted from you. Call everyone together, your parents, hers n decide way forward. Let's them know your stand |
Re: Should I Save My Marriage Or Let Go? by Lexusgs430: 12:51pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
prizequest: What is an anniversary, without an active marriage? You don marry one chance........ Did you guys not have sex during courtship?..... If you don't want to open another thread, on how she is cheating on you....... You know what to do...... 1 Like |
Re: Should I Save My Marriage Or Let Go? by Meliaen(f): 12:51pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
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Re: Should I Save My Marriage Or Let Go? by RTSC: 12:52pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
So a marriage has ended on nairaland. Women, pray that your husband does not bring your case here Though this marriage deserves to end. She is too sharp and experienced for you. Look for a young, not too sexually experienced, lady to start all over with. 8 Likes |
Re: Should I Save My Marriage Or Let Go? by PeachtreeReside(f): 12:53pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
There are certain talks I feel is not necessary with your bf or husband . Sex with others. The ego of men cannot and will not stomach such comparisons . It will always remain a sore point if they don't compare favourably well. If asked, say he is the best. Even when he makes you angry, Please don't say otherwise. Words are like eggs . 13 Likes |
Re: Should I Save My Marriage Or Let Go? by fergieboy: 12:53pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
Re: Should I Save My Marriage Or Let Go? by Nobody: 12:54pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
mankettle:I tire. The guy deserves better than this. Life is too short to grief over someone who wont spare you a glance except they have something to gain. She wants a baby right? Dont be surprise if she divorce him after having a baby. See dispensible husband 3 Likes |
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