PhenomenalMorgan:

Most times it's not a matter of urge, it's a matter of level of control and resistance built by a person against sexual urge!!
The fact that we were created sexual beings doesn't stop us from building self control, the problem I have with Many guys is that they don't see a life of control over sexual urge possible or even important. Lowly submit to ever manner of urge that comes their way. A person whose hardly is hardly moved by sexual urge is not Abnormal, even as powerful sex is, God still makes it possible for the human will to trump it!! and the more a person does so the more difficult urges control that person.
I say this from personal experience.

Thank you bro

masterchi:
3 things
1) It's 'feel' and not 'fill'
2) I have never considered myself better than anyone under any circumstance. I'm a product of grace so always grateful to God
3) Finally, I saw Jesus written somewhere on your profile so I assume you are born again. Maybe you should learn to use kind words instead of 'fool' and others. You could have really made your point in a better way. I pray for you today that God will help you! Have a lovely time. Good night

Hahahahahahaha... Sometimes I just wonder.. hmm

A Good number of people claim to be holy but their keypad/keyboard exposes their double livestyles. 95% of Nigerians claim to know God and they are overtly religious;this is in a country where crime rate is 98% and criminality is subtly celebrated.
A person who has discovered his weakness and never try to submerge it in a shallow water has more power to control it in his self capacity building and development than a self professed holier than thou person.
The word 'fool' i used up there is like an arrow aimed at the guilty ones. The arrow definitely pierced your heart.. Are you guilty? The Bible used the word 'fool' multiple times to describe some sets of people, are you saying that the Authors of the Bible didn't pass their message properly?

The grace you refer to up there are for people who are weak and who admits their weaknesses. The grace pushes them beyond their limits.

Finally, you must be suffering from grammatical pedantry syndrome. Since you are a product of grace, use that grace to treat this mental disease for a better you. Thanks and God bless

PhenomenalMorgan:

Most times it's not a matter of urge, it's a matter of level of control and resistance built by a person against sexual urge!!
The fact that we were created sexual beings doesn't stop us from building self control, the problem I have with Many guys is that they don't see a life of control over sexual urge possible or even important. Lowly submit to ever manner of urge that comes their way. A person whose hardly is hardly moved by sexual urge is not Abnormal, even as powerful sex is, God still makes it possible for the human will to trump it!! and the more a person does so the more difficult urges control that person.
I say this from personal experience.

Let me first appreciate your effort. I must admit, you made some solid points up there. In as much as I agree with you, we must also realize that the human knowledge is not just enough..

Because of our limits in knowledge and the application of it, the concept of God is used to cover up for our limits.

Humans respond to stimulus in different ways. The way I respond to sexual urge must not be same as yours and that is why we have a working system in sexual penal codes as a means to regulate our reactions to sexual urges in order not to hurt/harm others.


That been said, the differences in reaction can never still be the same. There are people who have passed through experiences that has forced them to either take a libido boosting drug or a libido lowering drug.

All this are efforts to regulate and fit into the environment they find themselves. So, let's don't generalize. Different strokes for different folks

If a person with high libido has not harmed or hurt anyone before or if he has not had any bad experience before, how can that person understand the message of self control over sexual urge? You think it is everybody that has passed through what you passed through?

Sparro:


Hahahahahahaha... Sometimes I just wonder.. hmm

A Good number of people claim to be holy but their keypad/keyboard exposes their double livestyles. 95% of Nigerians claim to know God and they are overtly religious;this is in a country where crime rate is 98% and criminality is subtly celebrated.
A person who has discovered his weakness and never try to submerge it in a shallow water has more power to control it in his self capacity building and development than a self professed holier than thou person.
The word 'fool' i used up there is like an arrow aimed at the guilty ones. The arrow definitely pierced your heart.. Are you guilty? The Bible used the word 'fool' multiple times to describe some sets of people, are you saying that the Authors of the Bible didn't pass their message properly?

The grace you refer to up there are for people who are weak and who admits their weaknesses. The grace pushes them beyond their limits.

Finally, you must be suffering from grammatical pedantry syndrome. Since you are a product of grace, use that grace to treat this mental disease for a better you. Thanks and God bless

lol, You obviously have a lot going on in your life. God help you!

masterchi:
lol, You obviously have a lot going on in your life. God help you!

Product of grace that commits no sin and that is syntactically flawless, did you see that one coming? I guess not

meobizy:
I believe men and women can stay friends without any... wait, this is not the friends with benefits thread?

kind of comment i see on reddit

Lightangel65:
Don't think all men are like yourself, the fact that you are a sex manaic doesn't mean everyone is like you.
David, Samson in the Bible were men but not all men.

Get some sense.
I have never had sex and I will never because I am not ever getting married.

What's in sex anyway, I have never felt any attraction towards women.
I am better alone.

I really don't want to quote you, but I can't just turn blind eyes to your nativity.


Sex is life, what op wrote up there is just the bitter Truth, you not wanting to have sex is optional and you can't force every body to be celibate like you.

Everybody likes sex but the way people prioritize it like their life depends on it baffles me. Some even go to the extent of raping girls all because they feel they can't control the sex urge. For me I think having a high libido is a mental disorder men with high libido are rapist argue with your keyboard

Sparro:


You were not created for just sex meaning sex is part of the reason why you were created

If you can do without sex, although depends on how long.. I mean, if your abstinence is beyond normal and in between the abstinence, you don't fill sexual urge, it means you are either sick, or abnormal.

In as much, there are different level of sexual urge which is applicable to different folks. You are a fool to think better of yourself because your sexual urge is lower than the other person's

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Sex isn't really our problem, our problem is our mentality. My days outside the country, in d club, on d Streets, a girl sees you and likes you, she approaches even before you make a move. A girl gets Hot and desires you, she tells you outrightly, rather than over analysing

One of the few good enlightened threads u can across in a blue moon.

Am sure enjoying this

You can’t do without sex, but the power of men falls in the ability to control your urge. Do you know how much power you could attain by controlling your sexual desires? That’s why women continue to use sex as a manipulative tool to get what they want from you, and once you come back to your senses, you claim women only offer you sex. When in reality, that’s all you value and desire. Master the ability to suppress your sexual urge, and watch how the world will fall at your feet. It is not normal to allow women/sex to be your downfall.

jieta:
I really don't want to quote you, but I can't just turn blind eyes to your nativity.


Sex is life, what op wrote up there is just the bitter Truth, you not wanting to have sex is optional and you can't force every body to be celibate like you.

If more men were like me, the world would have been a better place.
You guys should stop being slaves to women.
I don't really understand why men stoop so low.

If gay guys didn't sleep with men, they would have been better than you guys.
I am not supporting gays, they will burn in hell it's just an illustration

Funny enough the ladies who it's meant for avoided the thread!

Lightangel65:


If more men were like me, the world would have been a better place.
You guys should stop being slaves to women.
I don't really understand why men stoop so low.

If gay guys didn't sleep with men, they would have been better than you guys.
I am not supporting gays, they will burn in hell it's just an illustration

If all men were like you the world would have been a boring place to be. women brings beauty to this world, there are exceptional, in fact there are the fabric of this world.


No body is been a slave here, A man is not complete without a woman. If your parents had not have intercourse you won't be here making this comment

I don't really like making comments about gays, but bear in mind that if you are not having sex with a girl surely you are getting or receiving it from a guy.

saasala:
Men and sex!!..

Women find it hard to understand wassup with men and sex.
They want to help you,they want sex.
They say they love you,they want sex..
You mistakenly sleep over,they want sex..
They want to borrow you money.. They want sex.
They want to give you a job.. They want sex..
They want to pass you .. They want sex...

First of all.
You need to understand the system of men..
We didn't ask for this... We didn't create ourselves..
Do you know that 95% of healthy men wake up with an Erection??.. A mother fucking boner!!...
Did we bargain for it??.. No !!..
Do you know that the penis has a mind of his own?.. You can be reading your bible and your penis will stand..
A man can be sleeping,once you start rubbing the penis,it stands even when the man is asleep!!.

Have you asked yourself why men are never on any periods?,cramps or bad moods.. That's how God created us..
A man is naturally always ready for sex!!....Rub a man on his head,he already thinks you want sex,wink at him,he's already seeing you naked.. .
wave at a man walking with his wife,he will lose focus
Its not by in Jesus name or holyGhost fire!!..
That's why churches don't allow ladies with short dresses to sit in front because they will confuse pastor!!... Its not by anointing or Sheri ma ma ma ooo.

We didn't manufacture the high libido by ourselves...
We are all created in God's image...
The only man that over came sex according to the good books was jesus Christ himself and Joseph,Joseph own is that he didn't just run away,he fled!!!.. Him for stay na�. ,jesus was God and on top that,he was very careful not to include a woman in his disciple train�..
So many great men have fallen because of sex.. Do you think they wanted to??...
Soldiers in front of war still develop urge for sex!!.. To show you how bad it is...so many soldiers were killed during biafran war because a woman lured them Inside bush�..

David in the bible sent a woman's husband to the war front for him to die so he can have sex with the wife..
do i need to tell you about Samson,?. Solomon and other bible characters..
It can only take the grace of God,and some level of maturity to curtail this... To curtail oo�..

The way our body react to this is not the same you people's (women's) body react to it...
How many great women have you heard messed up because of dick??... None or even few !!..

So next time a man 'misbehaves' because of sex, don't see it as he's a beast or an animal.
We are just responding to nature....
Don't be like "i have lost the respect i have for you" "i thought you are responsible" "so this is what you wanted"... Yen Yen Yen��...
Easy baby even that your father, a 17 year old girl can make him lose focus and collect the money meant for your school fees �..

I pray you read this post with realistic understanding.

Op the reason isn't far fetched...!!! The same reasin why women can't do without money

jieta:
If all men were like you the world would have been a boring place to be. women brings beauty to this world, there are exceptional, in fact there are the fabric of this world.


No body is been a slave here, A man is not complete without a woman. If your parents had not have intercourse you won't be here making this comment

I don't really like making comments about gays, but bear in mind that if you are not having sex with a girl surely you are getting or receiving it from a guy.

I dislike both gays and girls.
Why would I receive sex from a guy. I hate sex both ways.
It's because you are enslaved by sex you can't seem to believe someone can do without it. So you think if it's not a girl it's with a guy.
Yet you say you are not a slave. You are one you just don't know it. Try to live like me, your life would change.
Sex is negligible, it's unimportant. Stop being shortsighted

Lightangel65:


I dislike both gays and girls.
Why would I receive sex from a guy. I hate sex both ways.
It's because you are enslaved by sex you can't seem to believe someone can do without it. So you think if it's not a girl it's with a guy.
Yet you say you are not a slave. You are one you just don't know it. Try to live like me, your life would change.
Sex is negligible, it's unimportant. Stop being shortsighted

If you hate gays and girls then what are you, are you sure you're even normal at all, without been ash I'll take all what you wrote here as your opinion about sex, that been said I can't be you neither can you be me . please can you tell me how old you are, I'm just astonish by your mentality.