Am a kind of confused right now, I love this lady so much and am planning to settle down with her... Recently I heard her telling a friend on phone that she hates my church denomination and she's being hiding it from me.. I confronted her about it and she did not deny the fact that she hates my denomination ( mentioning stuffs like earrings, dressing n she even mentioned the doctrines to be obsolete and said their wedding is too boring ). She is a social type and to her the doctrines of the church are not for her kind-of person.. calling it a boring life.. I attend D. L, I was born and brought up as a D. L member.
My People, your advice will be highly appreciated... Thanks..

BRO, did your bible not say CAN TWO WALK TOGETHER EXCEPT THEY AGREE? Amos 3:3

which one is now your confusion.

YOU ARE ABOUT TO MARRY A LADY WHO DOES NOT UPHOLD CHRISTIAN DOCTRINES AND CHARACTER.... that makes me question yours o.

you may ATTEND deeper life simply because you were raised there and you whole psychology accepts what they teach and do fully BUT that does not mean you are living the life that they teach.

I was in deeper life, and I know that REAL STRONG deeper life brethren will not settle for anything less than a sister who is also DEEPER LIFE like.

So how you got mixed up with this lady is questionable.... IF SHE WAS FROM ANOTHER CHURCH AND STRONGLY FOLLOWS THE CHURCH'S DOCTRINES... then that is good. BUT she is a SEMI-COMMITTED CHRISTIAN and you want to marry her.

HOT + COLD= WARM

HOT + WARM = HOT

WARM + WARM = LUKEWARM


Your combination with her will make you have a LUKEWARM Home... you won't be able to uphold strong biblical doctrines in the family that will shape your children's lives.

Even now it is clear you are not HOT, because if you were, she would have converted and looked up to you and gained more interest in spiritual things as she learns from you.

So consider this and help her grow else you may not find it funny when u marry.
She is a good lady but not heading the same direction in life like u.

If you are ready to change church then MARRY HER FAST.
If you will never be a leader in D.L then marry her fast.

other wise... CONSIDER her spiritual state and help her... before marrying her.

raphretle:
Am a kind of confused right now, I love this lady so much and am planning to settle down with her... Recently I heard her telling a friend on phone that she hates my church denomination and she's being hiding it from me.. I confronted her about it and she did not deny the fact that she hates my denomination ( mentioning stuffs like earrings, dressing n she even mentioned the doctrines to be obsolete and said their wedding is too boring ). She is a social type and to her the doctrines of the church are not for her kind-of person.. calling it a boring life.. I attend D. L, I was born and brought up as a D. L member.
My People, your advice will be highly appreciated... Thanks..

You have a lot of role to play in making her think otherwise. Our attitude says a lot about our organization, church inclusive. As a DL member, u can as well spice up the relationship with morally upright but yet interesting events and before u know it, that idea will become a thing of d past in her mind.
All d best

greatnaija01:
BRO, did your bible not say CAN TWO WALK TOGETHER EXCEPT THEY AGREE? Amos 3:3

which one is now your confusion.

YOU ARE ABOUT TO MARRY A LADY WHO DOES NOT UPHOLD CHRISTIAN DOCTRINES AND CHARACTER.... that makes me question yours o.

you may ATTEND deeper life simply because you were raised there and you whole psychology accepts what they teach and do fully BUT that does not mean you are living the life that they teach.

I was in deeper life, and I know that REAL STRONG deeper life brethren will not settle for anything less than a sister who is also DEEPER LIFE like.

So how you got mixed up with this lady is questionable.... IF SHE WAS FROM ANOTHER CHURCH AND STRONGLY FOLLOWS THE CHURCH'S DOCTRINES... then that is good. BUT she is a SEMI-COMMITTED CHRISTIAN and you want to marry her.

HOT + COLD= WARM

HOT + WARM = HOT

WARM + WARM = LUKEWARM


Your combination with her will make you have a LUKEWARM Home... you won't be able to uphold strong biblical doctrines in the family that will shape your children's lives.

Even now it is clear you are not HOT, because if you were, she would have converted and looked up to you and gained more interest in spiritual things as she learns from you.

So consider this and help her grow else you may not find it funny when u marry.
She is a good lady but not heading the same direction in life like u.

If you are ready to change church then MARRY HER FAST.
If you will never be a leader in D.L then marry her fast.

other wise... CONSIDER her spiritual state and help her... before marrying her.

Thanks.. To be candid I know am not a conc. D. L member.. But one is not supposed to look down on anyone's denomination

It is obvious that both of you aren't compatible and you don't share basic belief.

My advice to you is that you call off the proposed wedding except you are willing to bend towards her by changing the Church you attend- This will be counterproductive in future BTW.

Guy, the decision is yours

I would have done the same if I was in her shoes.

I don't ever see myself marrying someone from DL... imagine my wife not wearing G-strings, cooking my meal half-nakèd, while I'm grabbing her azz with my left hand and helping her out with one hand. I can't imagine a wife who will not talk dirty inza Oza room...
Man I need a crazily sexy woman who doesn't take life too serious, a wife who can wake me up with BJs every morning.

Don't tell me I'll go to hell for screwing my wife and she screwing me.

God please don't give me a sadist as a wife, you didn't create us to be sadist.

Dear future wife please know that I will screw you, I swear It. kitchen, bathroom, toilet, pool, garage, roof, ceiling, car, car trunk, ATM booth, beach, in the woods, transformer...


Op the poor lady is afraid cuz you know once gets married to you your church automatically becomes hers.
Get yourself a DL sister as a wife, precisely I never knew DL can marry outside DL.

greatnaija01:
BRO, did your bible not say CAN TWO WALK TOGETHER EXCEPT THEY AGREE? Amos 3:3

which one is now your confusion.

YOU ARE ABOUT TO MARRY A LADY WHO DOES NOT UPHOLD CHRISTIAN DOCTRINES AND CHARACTER.... that makes me question yours o.

you may ATTEND deeper life simply because you were raised there and you whole psychology accepts what they teach and do fully BUT that does not mean you are living the life that they teach.

I was in deeper life, and I know that REAL STRONG deeper life brethren will not settle for anything less than a sister who is also DEEPER LIFE like.

So how you got mixed up with this lady is questionable.... IF SHE WAS FROM ANOTHER CHURCH AND STRONGLY FOLLOWS THE CHURCH'S DOCTRINES... then that is good. BUT she is a SEMI-COMMITTED CHRISTIAN and you want to marry her.

HOT + COLD= WARM

HOT + WARM = HOT

WARM + WARM = LUKEWARM


Your combination with her will make you have a LUKEWARM Home... you won't be able to uphold strong biblical doctrines in the family that will shape your children's lives.

Even now it is clear you are not HOT, because if you were, she would have converted and looked up to you and gained more interest in spiritual things as she learns from you.

So consider this and help her grow else you may not find it funny when u marry.
She is a good lady but not heading the same direction in life like u.

If you are ready to change church then MARRY HER FAST.
If you will never be a leader in D.L then marry her fast.

other wise... CONSIDER her spiritual state and help her... before marrying her.

Point of correction, religiosity is different from spirituality.

The no earrings and stuff of Deeper Life are religious doctrines by the church to make members appear "modest" but they aren't spiritual ordination.

Let's be guided!

guide yourself first.... MEET ANY DEEPER LIFE MEMBER... they take it as spirituality,

your level of TRUTH must also not be BLIND to the facts if you are going to be of PRACTICAL HELP to this OP guy.

you are one of the FEW who know that RELIGIOUSITY is not SPIRITUALITY... but go to these churches... THE MEMBERS SEE BOTH AS ONE.

now this is a member crying out for help...

USE your TRUTH to save him

TonyeBarcanista:

Point of correction, religiosity is different from spirituality.

The no earrings and stuff of Deeper Life are religious doctrines by the church to make members appear "modest" but they aren't spiritual ordination.

Let's be guided!

she is NOT looking down.... denominations have differences in DISCIPLINES AND DOCTRINES.... she just cant cope with yours sir.

raphretle:

Thanks.. To be candid I know am not a conc. D. L member.. But one is not supposed to look down on anyone's denomination

You are what??


Deeper life?

greatnaija01:
guide yourself first.... MEET ANY DEEPER LIFE MEMBER... they take it as spirituality,

your level of TRUTH must also not be BLIND to the facts if you are going to be of PRACTICAL HELP to this OP guy.

you are one of the FEW who know that RELIGIOUSITY is not SPIRITUALITY... but go to these churches... THE MEMBERS SEE BOTH AS ONE.

now this is a member crying out for help...

USE your TRUTH to save him

Your blood de hot!

You are right. Most Church goers don't even know what spirituality is, and they even elevate doctrines and dogmas of the church over that of the scripture.

As for OP, the best advice is for him to date and marry someone that shares same religious ideology or change entirely to suit the babe.

The last time a lady told me she doesn't like catholics, I just stopped communicating with her. I dont like unexposed people especially those who judge others based on religion differences

dingbang:
The last time a lady told me she doesn't like catholics, I just stopped communicating with her. I dont like unexposed people especially those who judge others based on religion differences

It's not a matter of being unexposed. Did she actually say she DOESN'T LIKE Catholics?

greatnaija01:
BRO, did your bible not say CAN TWO WALK TOGETHER EXCEPT THEY AGREE? Amos 3:3

which one is now your confusion.

YOU ARE ABOUT TO MARRY A LADY WHO DOES NOT UPHOLD CHRISTIAN DOCTRINES AND CHARACTER.... that makes me question yours o.

you may ATTEND deeper life simply because you were raised there and you whole psychology accepts what they teach and do fully BUT that does not mean you are living the life that they teach.

I was in deeper life, and I know that REAL STRONG deeper life brethren will not settle for anything less than a sister who is also DEEPER LIFE like.

So how you got mixed up with this lady is questionable.... IF SHE WAS FROM ANOTHER CHURCH AND STRONGLY FOLLOWS THE CHURCH'S DOCTRINES... then that is good. BUT she is a SEMI-COMMITTED CHRISTIAN and you want to marry her.

HOT + COLD= WARM

HOT + WARM = HOT

WARM + WARM = LUKEWARM


Your combination with her will make you have a LUKEWARM Home... you won't be able to uphold strong biblical doctrines in the family that will shape your children's lives.

Even now it is clear you are not HOT, because if you were, she would have converted and looked up to you and gained more interest in spiritual things as she learns from you.

So consider this and help her grow else you may not find it funny when u marry.
She is a good lady but not heading the same direction in life like u.

If you are ready to change church then MARRY HER FAST.
If you will never be a leader in D.L then marry her fast.

other wise... CONSIDER her spiritual state and help her... before marrying her.

Wow, you actually judged her based on not being a DL member So not conforming to their ways, appearance and doctrines means she is not spiritually sound I use to be DL member but this type of your thinking and mindset is what makes people see DL as a place filled with extremists who condemn other churches which is actually not true, never judge a book by its cover.

Even me a man, I find it difficult to attend DL, ...... not beating drum and good songs on any service including Sunday,.... I find it boring, also 50% of ur members behaviors, how difficult they are makes it worrisome to attend the church, just like cult. Also issue of segregation among body of Christ.

Op what church does she attend. Must she go to deeper life when she married you. It seems you have a good woman but you want to let her go because of some daddy GO, whose son's wife slayed on her wedding. She has every right not to like your church as a person with free will. You have two choices. Marry her and attend your individual churches( yes it is possible cos i am a product of such marriage and our family still prays together, we just have a few rules concerning prayer style and each of the children chose their own church entirely different from their parents.

Both of you starting church hunting for a new denomination that is more middle ground.
Spiritually is a personal journey, dont hamper someone's christian journey because you married someone cos heaven will not recognise husband and wife. OYO will be your case
Therefore shall a man leave his father and mother and CLEAVE to his wife, not the other way round, so it isnt a must she goes to his church..


By the way, do you know some churches have a higher number of mentally ill patients( mad pple) than others,
which we think is due to doctrine, research is currently being done. There are four major ones, who wants to guess? Airforce1 will give the first correct three 1k recharge card each. Op's church is one of them.

They complaining Muslims can't marry Christians when Christians can't even marry from other denomination

raphretle:
Am a kind of confused right now, I love this lady so much and am planning to settle down with her... Recently I heard her telling a friend on phone that she hates my church denomination and she's being hiding it from me.. I confronted her about it and she did not deny the fact that she hates my denomination ( mentioning stuffs like earrings, dressing n she even mentioned the doctrines to be obsolete and said their wedding is too boring ). She is a social type and to her the doctrines of the church are not for her kind-of person.. calling it a boring life.. I attend D. L, I was born and brought up as a D. L member.
My People, your advice will be highly appreciated... Thanks..

Don't start what you can't finish, sit her down, wedding is for a day but marriage is forever. Think deeply, use your brain

Offpoint:
I would have done the same if I was in her shoes.

I don't ever see myself marrying someone from DL... imagine my wife not wearing G-strings, cooking my meal half-nakèd, while I'm grabbing her azz with my left hand and helping her out with one hand. I can't imagine a wife who will not talk dirty inza Oza room...
Man I need a crazily sexy woman who doesn't take life too serious, a wife who can wake me up with BJs every morning.

Don't tell me I'll go to hell for screwing my wife and she screwing me.

God please don't give me a sadist as a wife, you didn't create us to be sadist.

Dear future wife please know that I will screw you, I swear It. kitchen, bathroom, toilet, pool, garage, roof, ceiling, car, car trunk, ATM booth, beach, in the woods, transformer...


Op the poor lady is afraid cuz you know once gets married to you your church automatically becomes hers.
Get yourself a DL sister as a wife, precisely I never knew DL can marry outside DL.

Ashawo okunrin(male)

deewhydoski:

Ashawo okunrin(male)

lol, you don't know me naw. never slept with any woman, I'm saving my energy for my future wife... I want to screw her badly and madly.

Offpoint:

lol, you don't know me naw. never slept with any woman, I'm saving my energy for my future wife... I want to screw her badly and madly.

Something that u will screw that u will be tired of it... I just give u 5yrs in marriage, her private part will tire u

deewhydoski:

Something that u will screw that u will be tired of it... I just give u 5yrs in marriage, her private part will tire u

Nah, you only get tired of it if you don't the spices and ingredients to add. just imagine it on tree branches, imagine it on open field in the night with beautiful night sky, imagine driving and doing it. life's full of varieties brother.

Offpoint:

Nah, you only get tired of it if you don't the spices and ingredients to add. just imagine it on tree branches, imagine it on open field in the night with beautiful night sky, imagine driving and doing it. life's full of varieties brother.

Lol.. Ok o
Bad guy

funmisticqueen:
Op what church does she attend. Must she go to deeper life when she married you. It seems you have a good woman but you want to let her go because of some daddy GO, whose son's wife slayed on her wedding. She has every right not to like your church as a person with free will. You have two choices. Marry her and attend your individual churches( yes it is possible cos i am a product of such marriage and our family still prays together, we just have a few rules concerning prayer style and each of the children chose their own church entirely different from their parents.

Both of you starting church hunting for a new denomination that is more middle ground.
Spiritually is a personal journey, dont hamper someone's christian journey because you married someone cos heaven will not recognise husband and wife. OYO will be your case
Therefore shall a man leave his father and mother and CLEAVE to his wife, not the other way round, so it isnt a must she goes to his church..


By the way, do you know some churches have a higher number of mentally ill patients( mad pple) than others,
which we think is due to doctrine, research is currently being done. There are four major ones, who wants to guess? Airforce1 will give the first correct three 1k recharge card each. Op's church is one of them.

She is an A. G member..

spirituality not religiousity

uploading wahala ....20%
My broda Amos 3:3 two cant walk except they are. Yes they cant walk but they can craw.
Do you want a crawling marriage ?

ojuu4u:
Even me a man, I find it difficult to attend DL, ...... not beating drum and good songs on any service including Sunday,.... I find it boring, also 50% of ur members behaviors, how difficult they are makes it worrisome to attend the church, just like cult. Also issue of segregation among body of Christ.

Yeah mentioned dis music stuff too....

Offpoint:
I would have done the same if I was in her shoes.

I don't ever see myself marrying someone from DL... imagine my wife not wearing G-strings, cooking my meal half-nakèd, while I'm grabbing her azz with my left hand and helping her out with one hand. I can't imagine a wife who will not talk dirty inza Oza room...
Man I need a crazily sexy woman who doesn't take life too serious, a wife who can wake me up with BJs every morning.

Don't tell me I'll go to hell for screwing my wife and she screwing me.

God please don't give me a sadist as a wife, you didn't create us to be sadist.

Dear future wife please know that I will screw you, I swear It. kitchen, bathroom, toilet, pool, garage, roof, ceiling, car, car trunk, ATM booth, beach, in the woods, transformer...


Op the poor lady is afraid cuz you know once gets married to you your church automatically becomes hers.
Get yourself a DL sister as a wife, precisely I never knew DL can marry outside DL.

Wow so all these are your plans for your future wife

people that need stress in their lives


now you see you guys aren't compatible, but no, you can't use your sense until you're taught a big lesson

no wonder divorce is flying around these days

funmisticqueen:
Op what church does she attend. Must she go to deeper life when she married you. It seems you have a good woman but you want to let her go because of some daddy GO, whose son's wife slayed on her wedding. She has every right not to like your church as a person with free will. You have two choices. Marry her and attend your individual churches( yes it is possible cos i am a product of such marriage and our family still prays together, we just have a few rules concerning prayer style and each of the children chose their own church entirely different from their parents.

Both of you starting church hunting for a new denomination that is more middle ground.
Spiritually is a personal journey, dont hamper someone's christian journey because you married someone cos heaven will not recognise husband and wife. OYO will be your case
Therefore shall a man leave his father and mother and CLEAVE to his wife, not the other way round, so it isnt a must she goes to his church..


By the way, do you know some churches have a higher number of mentally ill patients( mad pple) than others,
which we think is due to doctrine, research is currently being done. There are four major ones, who wants to guess? Airforce1 will give the first correct three 1k recharge card each. Op's church is one of them.

Dis one will be admiring me secretly

My name always in her mouth like toothpaste, everyday she got something new .

Why not create a thread and toast me publicly or send me PM and I will reply

stop suffering in silence .

raphretle:
Wow so all these are your plans for your future wife

What else if not these?