What's your take?

Shut up. But if I find out gehhgehhgehh. No be everything one must know. Unless her telling me is to leave me sure she can tell me and leave. Helps making sure the door to her return is sealed permanently

I prefer she confesses so I can take her back to her parents,or else my ancestors will not take it lightly on me and the kids.Feminists will not like this,most especially sweetbuns(my crouch) and poco-ant-ass

I'll prefer her to confess so that I'll send her packing on time to avoid diseases.

I will rather not marry her from the onset...she confessed or not i will never trust her with anything ever again.

Jcole1985:
I prefer she confesses so I can take her back to her parents,or else my ancestors will not take it lightly on me and the kids.Feminists will not like this,most especially sweetbuns(my crouch) and poco-ant-ass

Preciousgirl:
What's your take?

Have her confess with her bags already packed.

lol... op don play away match.. now conscience is killing her

Larryfest:
I will rather not marry her from the onset...she confessed or not i will never trust her with anything ever again.

Your statement is contradictory

What is adultery?

I'll rather she tells me so i can divorce her cheating ass and marry my side-chick.

Whether she confess or shut, once I found out which eventually I will, she is surely going back to her father’s house never to come back again.

Whether she says it or not she's still a cheater. Keeping it from me makes her a lying cheater.

Somethings are better left unsaid, cos' no matter how you look at it, its a lose-lose for you and your partner.

Preciousgirl:
What's your take?

We don't care. Females are cheaters. Gay men are loyal. Preach

Preciousgirl:
What's your take?

you've bleeped your boss again right... You have no conscience!

Confession is not the issue.

She should shut up and stop!!!

See them all. But you guys can cheat with reckless abandon and expect the woman to put up a clean and smiling face even when she knows and still act like a virtuous woman? Most guys have a victim mentality. Emancipate yourselves already. Do not give what you'll not take.

I'd rather not spill and have it not repeated than tell. Whoever tries to act otherwise will get burnt badly. Let the confession be between you and The Lord. God's love is unconditional but man's love is short-lived. He can decide to love or not love you, therefore, you'll be despised too much. These men won't forgive you. Forget the silly tales you read, they're brutal. They will never forgive you and hate you with utmost passion after your 'innocent' confession. What you don't know won't kill you. Same way he will cheat and hide it behind your back. Most men are worse snitches and cheats. Let's all play the silent treatment game and everyone will be happy. Let's live with the notion that 'To err is human. We all can be forgiven anyway and live happily ever after.

Hmmmmm, thanks all

It's really difficult, but I prefer she tells me and afterwards we can work it out, to see if it can be remedy.

As far as I'm concerned, it's no biggie actually, though that's if Na she confess herself and Not Me finding out on my own... I've bn there b4 TWICE and I know what it feels like to be cheated on and still Forgive, JUST THAT I DON'T THINK I CAN FORGIVE AGAIN Cox from my personal experience, I wouldn't be wrong to say ONCE A CHEAT IS ALWAYS A CHEAT

badadvice:
I'll rather she tells me so i can divorce her cheating ass and marry my side-chick.

See the irony in your statement

badadvice:
I'll rather she tells me so i can divorce her cheating ass and marry my side-chick .

the irony here is legendary

Preciousgirl:
What's your take?

Let her confess and be free of guilt