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Bossjakande:
am on ban dear one animal make dem ban me cos I attack her in politics rooms

You're very funny. Why will you attack her too? How've you been?

I support every of her new behaviour....

You lied wen u said u didn't let her know abt d invite of d lady to ur house cuz sh would not like it....u had another intent...

You lied een u said " out of my playful sef" I made myself available....on instagram....liar!....

You are to marry her right!
#do me I do back kind of life isn't good especially when married.

You are looking at her achievement right
Happiness in life is way better.
Be up & doing yourself. Make much money.


She can't condole a man like u. Your excesses annoys her. #careerwomenindeed.

Quite.

UyaiIncomparabl:
You're very funny. Why will you attack her too? How've you been?

am fine baby girl.miss u a lot

stupidity:
stop ranting bros.


She’s gone sour already. Nothing you can do about it. Either you act like she’s co habiting with you for the mean time and careless about her excess’s. Or kindly ask her to leave to have your sanity back.

This is why I smoke weed, act funny to me, I roll one, before I drag 4 puff I’m already with about 10 strippers in my head.

Edited: stop being too nice to ladies. When you too nice to them, believe me they take it for granted.

This Guy Na REA Jigga

Dipsie:
Hello Guys,
I had to create a new account to discuss this topic with you.
I have a lady I have dated for 3years now.

The past few months especially has been challenging.
She got a job sometime in August last year and had to move in to my apartment here in Lagos, she had just finished her master’s degree then at University of Ibadan. She stayed at my place from August until December when she quit the job.

For almost the whole of January she was at her family house at ibadan, during that period a female colleague came visiting at my place just after work that evening. I initially didn’t inform my girlfriend about it because I knew she didn’t always feel comfortable with that Lady. While the lady was around, my girlfriend called and later got to know that she came to visit that evening. I have never cheated on my girlfriend since we started dating, she was angry and all that and promised to pay me back or so because of my colleagues visit.

As fate would have it, my girlfriend got another job in Lagos again so automatically she moved in again, I apologized profusely about the other incident of my female colleague coming over and not informing her prior to the visit.
Something else happened few weeks later again, I was on Instagram one evening when I saw an old time friends comment on Bellanaija about getting a best friend to love etc. My playful self, I dropped a sarcastic message on her comment that I was available. My girlfriend was able to see my message because she one way also saw the Bellanaija post on her Instagram. Heaven almost fell, I apologized for about 6 days before she finally pretended the situation was over.
The following week she got back from work and confessed that she had an impromptu date with one of her old time toasters. I was initially pissed off then later calmed down.
But the whole game changer was this last week, while going to work she met a guy who gave her a lift to her office area. Since then they’ve been chatting late nights and he also calls her early in the morning so they arrange where to meet.
Due to my suspicions, I one way gained access to her phone while she slept and actually realized this guy has been picking her up every morning to work at our bus stop and to the extent she’s even been sending him her pictures at work. She actually lied to me she hasn’t followed the guy since the very first day he gave her a ride. She’s been lying a lot to me since this guy came into the picture.
I Challenged her last night and she couldn’t defend herself neither could she give a reason why she lied to me, she only made reference to me breaching the trust she had in me by that Instagram message and then​ my colleagues visit.
Out of anger I spoke already and told her I wasn’t interested in the relationship anymore if this was how it was going to continue. The guy already called her this morning again and she has joined him at the bus stop to go to work again.

P.S.
I have never cheated on this lady for the past 3 years we’ve dated.
I virtually gave her the key to my happiness.
She’s also been in contact with her ex which she broke up with before we started dating for the past 3 years.
Even when we used to have issues in the past, she hardly apologizes genuinely or deeply as I do.
What do you advise?
Sorry for the epistle, thanks for your advise

Mumu, who gives his key to happiness to a woman... Only a fool n that what u r... She only sees u as a fool n not a potential fiancee plus u guys won't last... She will end up bleeping dis new car owner as u no even get bicycle....
Stand ur ground n tell her to leave ur house go stay with Mr car owner...
Believe me u.... U will be free...
No worry u won't die...
Leaving her is key to ur happiness except u want to die like d guy I saw a fb post bout... Killing himself cos his gf left her