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|Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by eventsmallchops: 11:34am On Mar 24, 2019|
Thanks, I rather reserve his offer as a opportunity to start something after solving the accommodation issue , a very good gesture, I will use internet to check that location to know about it just incase, but I think that is a luxury considering the situation on ground, I should start small by squatting first, Thank You
|Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by eventsmallchops: 11:49am On Mar 24, 2019|
depend on what you want Ma, if you have any event, I will come and deliver , I only have a pastry pan and a gas cylinder .
PRICE LIST/ MENU
Bbq chicken ,spring roll, samosa, puff and most= 400 per plate.
Bbq chicken pepper gizzard,spring roll, samosa, ,puff and most =500 per plate.
Bbq chicken , peppered gizzard ,crypsy battered saucage ,spring roll, samosa, puff and most =600 per plate.
Bbq chicken , peppered gizzard , crispy battered saucage, snail in sweet chilly sauce ,spring roll, samosa, puff and most =800 per plate.
Bbq chicken , peppered gizzard , crispy battered saucage, snail in sweet chilly sauce, battered or fountain prawn ,spring roll, samosa, puff and most = 1100 per plate.
Bbq chicken , peppered gizzard , crispy battered saucage, snail in sweet chilly sauce, battered or fountain prawn , money bag,spring roll, samosa, puff and most = 1250 per plate. Etc
Bbq chicken , peppered gizzard , crispy battered saucage, snail in sweet chilly sauce, battered or fountain prawn , money bag,yam/potatoe ball ,spring roll, samosa, puff and most = 1400 per plate. Etc
( note that your chicken could be : bbq , battered , skewered etc)
Eventsmallchops Nig Ltd
price may change if location is far and the order is small
I can handle a very big order effectively , I have boys that we have worked together before now, I will only get some girls as ushers for event and pay them on daily basis ,
there are so many snacks I can bake at their very best at top level standard like meat pie, scotch egg , burger , sursage roll , Taco , dough nut, best of fried rice, oven baked chicken.. these I have done on daily basis from 6Am to 4pm daily for 7 years in PH , I was focused on that career before parent pulled me out and insisted I must go to uni .
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|Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by Uglyaddy: 1:00pm On Mar 24, 2019|
You have a skill and hopefully you are good on it.
It will be very rare for someone online who does not know you accommodate you in his house,even you yourself wont want to do that.
You need to crack your brain and think outside the box for way forward.
Where is your wife residing presently?
Dont you have families that can accommodate you temporary in the cities you feel it will be ok to start your business?
Dont just focus on getting a job,one or more people could raise money for you to start up a small business of your own.
I am still trying to rap up my head to know if you are genuine or not(No offense please).
Can you just come out clean.I still feel their are somethings you are not telling us.
|Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by Graxie(f): 1:04pm On Mar 24, 2019|
Where in northeast are you? State
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|Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by pheonixdld2(m): 2:30pm On Mar 24, 2019|
When i 1st sawthis thread i was thinking for away to help, but from your actions and reply i would say you are not wise at all. You are the person that needs help , but you have used frivolities and uncontrollable bitterness to derail your thread yourself. I am now here considering if you wont give my friend problem in his office, if i Put in a word for you.
|Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by eventsmallchops: 2:42pm On Mar 24, 2019|
I dont even want people to raise money for me on a serious note, there are Managers who can give job on Nairaland, accommodation in Abuja or Lagos will be fine also, Job ..Job ..Job! my sure bet , I can deliver, I always do.
I wont like to give out much details because of the people that knows me, but if you want to know if I'm genuine or not, just get me or my wife a job, it doesn't matter who get the job first, I trust her because she has proved it beyond reasonable doubt .
even if its a laborer job you have for me, just let it be steady with accommodation on site , I will do it for some times and if its office job, I will go and get my tie.
as for family, 13months ago a family member was calling me to come that he was going to get me a job, the moment I got there, I started teaching in his school, paid me 7,000 after 6 weeks after spending 100 naira on transport daily trekking half way to cut cost, I had to quit , not a wise job to do but he tried at least he helped me to send 3k to my wife last week when I begged him. I just want a job, if you have plenty of job at hand and in need of extra hand, call me , I will be glad and whatever you are offering me for working with you will be appreciated , I'm a legitimate man Sir.
|Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by eventsmallchops: 2:46pm On Mar 24, 2019|
I was just frustrated because he said he wanted to give me money to buy rope to commit suicide, I'm not that kind of person please, I'm very cool headed please. forgive me
|Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by ifyalways(f): 2:53pm On Mar 24, 2019|
But where exactly are you?
Im trying so hard to understand you and your needs
|Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by ifyalways(f): 2:56pm On Mar 24, 2019|
eventsmallchops:Where are you?
Where is your wife?
Where do you want to relocate to?
What exactly do you want ie job, accomodation, cash money, start up capital ?
For someone with dire needs though your internet usage/presence is pretty good.
|Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by eventsmallchops: 3:03pm On Mar 24, 2019|
I'm in Jalingo, Taraba State, North Eastern State , not that developed
|Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by eventsmallchops: 3:12pm On Mar 24, 2019|
I'm in Jalingo , Taraba State, North Eastern State
they are in Plateau State
I want to move to Abuja or Anywhere I get a job,
I want a job and accommodation JOB ,JOB ,JOB NOT MONEY , JOB means Money for me.
yes, internet is the cheapest means I have to reach out to the unknown CEOs , HRs and Manager from here, I'm educated and not just opportune , that proved I can work as administrative staff, its important I stay in touch at this moment so I prepared for it, I did subscription of N500 for 500 MB + 250MB Bonus yesterday afternoon at it will last me for a week, like I said, JOB JOB JOB!
Please, I hope you will recommend me to someone after answering all your questions.
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JOB JOB JOB!
MANAGERS , CEOs please help! a critical problem deserve a desperate solution before I'm kicked out of this free accommodation here Please.
I dont want to end up on the street like a mad man
|Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by pheonixdld2(m): 4:10pm On Mar 24, 2019|
Be calm sir.....you will get the help you need. I think you should private chat Macala and if its possible get help(50k) he wanted to help you with. Since you are confident of your ability/skill relocate to Abuja. You are a man...so sorting accomodation or where to sleep wont be a serious challenge. With the little funds with you you can check the hotels in Abuja as you earlier mentioned. I am positive you will get something within 2 weeks.
Believe or not most of us here have been in this kind of situations that seemed hopeless. Just be positive and never give UP.
I will still put in a word to my friend, was discussing
with him and he mentioned he needed a PA, although he & his start up firm are in Enugu.
|Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by eventsmallchops: 4:26pm On Mar 24, 2019|
Thank you, just tell him I will do well, Thank you I wonder how people are surviving in this country, I'm just useless here, highly depressed , this kind of depression that comes with headache, I cant just wait to get busy, I usually get angry whenever my friend is complaining that they want him to come to work on Saturdays, I wish I even have such job.
|Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by Mancala: 4:27pm On Mar 24, 2019|
I read through all that has transpired since last night where I left off. First, let me commend you for being honest about your current situation and immediate needs and providing more details about your business plans. Second, you mentioned that you were doing this business in Portharcort for 7 years before going to the university, apparently living with your parents. Why don't you go back there where you should already have a ready base of customers?
My advice to you is to reunite your family in one place (portharcourt?) and you and your wife run this business. You can have two outlets for your products. A roadside stall and booked events.
I put the first outlet in bold because you have been remarkably consistent in one respect and I think it would help you grow as a person. You seem to be risk averse, you are not a risk taker! You want someone else to provide you a job, in other words take the risk on your behalf and provide you a guaranteed outcome. Even in your business plan, you only want to cater events where someone will provide you with a job and you deliver with a guaranteed outcome for renumeration. This is not an ideal mindset for a businessman, especially in a place like Nigeria. You need to make your own way. Ever think about the possibility of being the job provider rather than the employee?
Knowing what we all know now , let's try this again. If you are interested in being reunited with your wife and child in one location and pursuing your business, articulate for me a plan to do this in the near term. Where would you go? What would it cost to setup your family in this new location.... accommodation for a year etc. What do you need to get the business up and running?
Would you consider going back to the teaching job if you could get a place closer to the location and run your business in tandem?
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|Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by eventsmallchops: 4:33pm On Mar 24, 2019|
Thank you Sir,
CC : Sir Mancala
Still typing...... a little delay in my finding , I will mention you when I'm done .
Do have a wonderful evening Sir.
|Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by ifyalways(f): 5:38pm On Mar 24, 2019|
eventsmallchops:I thought you wanted to kick start your small chops business, my bad.
I usually look at the Jobs/Vacancies section for qualified candidates whenever i come across an opening.
I hope you'd get someone to employ you soon.
|Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by tabithababy(f): 6:17pm On Mar 24, 2019|
Op what exactly do you want
Do you want office job and accommodation?? OR
Capital to start your catering small and accommodation
|Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by Uglyaddy: 6:18pm On Mar 24, 2019|
You are yet to tell us your qualification.
Is more easier getting a job,but more challenging getting a job and accommodation together at sametime.
Like Mancala said,dont let it be about job alone,what if a reasonable amount is raise to start up your catering biz?
Also,think about how you can live together with your family,even if it will just be a room
Still keeping my fingers cross as things get more unfold.
|Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by pheonixdld2(m): 7:30pm On Mar 24, 2019|
Before you reply @Mancala please think deeply and let your reply be articulate & precise, this is a second chance....not many people will give this kind of 2nd chance. You were asking for an Angel? See this as your prayer answered.
Please sir make good use of it.
Thank you Mr Macala
|Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by Ishilove: 11:34pm On Mar 24, 2019|
It seems to be taking the OP forever to come up with a robust reply
|Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by sapoyoro(m): 12:25am On Mar 25, 2019|
Ishilove:he is not just articulate...
|Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by CanadianNaija: 5:44am On Mar 25, 2019|
What a disgusting attitude for someone that needs help, it’s the OP’s type that will beat up their employer.
This one is not even serious.
|Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by eventsmallchops: 6:15am On Mar 25, 2019|
Thank You for your concerns
|Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by eventsmallchops: 6:31am On Mar 25, 2019|
I have a Degree in Social Work , My Wife also have a Degree in Vocational Education and Counseling, both from Federal Universities , thanks for your concern Ma.
|Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by eventsmallchops: 8:04am On Mar 25, 2019|
Not my parent, I was with my Uncle in PH then, but has since returned to our hometown after his retirement, and also many things has changed after I left for Uni, it was like losing a key staff, the secret of our good products lies in the series of training I was given by various chefs within and outside over the years, we do product researchs a lot to improve quality, my parent were angry that he didnt put me in school as promised after 7 years of no pay and pulled me out, actually no way I could be going to Uniport at Choba road from Trans Amadi after baking from 6 AM to 4PM , Balancing account and monitoring kitchen staffs , ensuring all the freezers are working, switching power supplies, watching staffs change shifts, I was there present 24/7 a week, not even chance to go to church on Sunday because it was a busy place, I was practically the engine room, I left and the products changed because the person I trained didnt stay, they always recieve training and run.
Sir, the more I try to answer, the easier someone will be able to identify me. it was a popular Delicatessen in the heart of Trans Amadi industial layout serving oil workers, we also ran companies canteens, now foldup, there is a lot to do in Abuja, please permit me to cut to the chase
so , I contacted some people last night trying to find out the cost of a single room but not please with their response, had a slight headache but now refresh ,still trying to reach a young civil servant who is also managing, he will be in the best position to find a manageable room for us and tell me the cost, I will also accept other cheap considerable offers and ideas from people who have knowledge about Abuja , should be something i will be able to renew without trouble; for presentation as i provide answers to other questions Sir . I remain hopeful
Still putting the list together, verifying things
|Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by MummyIMadeIt: 9:22am On Mar 25, 2019|
With due respect to the Op, I kindly seek permission to the aforementioned job position available.
Please @ pheonixdld2 is the position still open, am currently based in Imo State but can relocate to Enugu. Thanks.
|Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by eventsmallchops: 9:40am On Mar 25, 2019|
|Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by eventsmallchops: 9:48am On Mar 25, 2019|
I got these two items which I didn't not include on the list in December , Thanks for your kindness.
all these things shall pass and I will return here someday to give back to humanity.
|Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by eventsmallchops: 9:49am On Mar 25, 2019|
Good evening everyone, seem attention is now shifted away from this thread , I would have done this earlier but I went out today to confirm present price of things , thinking of ideas and also waiting for the person I sent out to do finding on space and accommodation for me, had to be patience with him, he hasn't come up with anything on space and a room yet, I pray I still have your supports.
1. A Space in Abuja in a busy area Amount - XXXXX
2. Construction of Stand with show glass - 30,000 _____________________ Total = 30,000
1.Outdoor Gas Burner 8,000
2.Thick Locally Made Fry pan ( middleum Size) 8,000
3 Locally made Frying spoon , striner , Basket 1,500
4.Mixing bowl 1,000 _________________________________ Total =19,500
Materials for production
Half bag of floor 5,700
half gallon of Oil 6,600
Yeast (1sachet pack) 700
Baking Powder 400
Flavor 250 ________________________________Total= 14,650
Grand Total _____________________________________________________________ = 64,150 + SPACE COST
this option will require finding space which they are looking for me now
I know it will mean paying task force /FCDA unknown amount, definitely
they will demand something where the stand will be
place for business.
my plan is to get scrap somewhere in the junk yard and get welder to do something close under my super vision , I will be chaining it to ground every night and will required a security arrangement, it mustn't be fine like that, that is just a model sample I found online with the help of google.
* Idea for puff puff, Buns, Doughnut, small chops ( fried Snacks) definitely I wont be able to bake , it will be for something fry able.
Model 2 below
|Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by eventsmallchops: 8:29pm On Mar 25, 2019|
operational Base cost
1. bake from home - Rent XXXXX ______________________________________ NOT Included
1.Fairly used Oven 60,000
2.Mixing bowl 1,000
3.Pastry Table 3,000
4. Cooler 12,000 __Total_____________________ 76,000
Materials for production
Half bag of floor 5,700
half gallon of Oil 6,600
half Bakery fat 3,200
Baking Powder 400
Mince Meat 1,000_ Total________________ 16,900
Grand Total _________________________________________________________________________________ 92,900
I will start by baking the jumbo rich meat pie from home , I don't mean the Curry Potatoe Pie most outlets are selling in Abuja with too much thyme , I have my own recipe for filling, you will feel the meat and the dough is soft and tender that it will scatter if you drop it, we always do the test . if you eat one, you must ask for more , if you taste it today, you must find it tomorrow , I will bake , pack dress like a delivery guy with branded T shirt and find my way into an office while it's hot and fresh and dash one person among 6 people , next time give another person and stop, move to another company , if worked for us before , it will work in Abuja, there is money there , just choose the class by given those who can afford it,
if I make just 50 pieces at the rate of just N300 , That's N15,000 ... 50% profit , if they are having a meeting and need quick refreshment in that office, they will call you, be nice to their PRO and introduce other products to them , there are people who sell cooked noodles in traffic at night around busy spots , Gardens and Clubs Parks ...I will later get pretty girls to join me in selling.
and the work continue , I will be able get a small shop somewhere where I can place a show glass , microwave oven and fridge in one of the busy complex ,Garden or Club where you can place order or book for small chops or anything.
For your consideration Sir
NOTE : I prefer this second model but the accommodation where I will be able to work from home is about 150,000 for a room self contain , for this reason, I wont mind if the arrangement can be made for only oven for that 50,000 you are offering me Sir , you don't have to send me the money, arrangement can be made to make a direct non refundable payment for the oven if you know someone selling, or through a police station, I will go and get it and keep it with what I already have Sir.
or if there is any of the prominent and trusted person known person on this thread who have a strong abandoned oven that is still good and willing to sell to me for that price , he or she can upload the photo and if its okay, arrangement can be made for the payment and have the oven send to me. I have passion for this. I can not ask someone to pay that house rent for me, and I truly do not want to miss your offer Sir, I know it will be a gradual thing, I will get there , it's step by step. Thank you Sir .
CC: Sir Mancala
I will find another means to get the rest of the tools so I wont be constituting nuisance here
|Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by Ishilove: 11:17pm On Mar 25, 2019|
|Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by Ghanaian(m): 3:56pm On Mar 26, 2019|
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