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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by Nobody: 5:46pm On Mar 26, 2019
pheonixdld2:
When i 1st sawthis thread i was thinking for away to help, but from your actions and reply i would say you are not wise at all. You are the person that needs help , but you have used frivolities and uncontrollable bitterness to derail your thread yourself. I am now here considering if you wont give my friend problem in his office, if i Put in a word for you.

Exactly my thought
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by eventsmallchops: 6:14pm On Mar 26, 2019
MumD:


Exactly my thought

Please, I've apologized to him , and we were able to reconcile , it was a mistake

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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by eventsmallchops: 7:40pm On Mar 26, 2019
here I come again ...I will not keep quiet and watch the clock ticks away because If I shut my mouth, acting like everything is okay, pretending to be one gentle as a dove, I will remain like this fore ever , I need something doing Please; I don't want to sit down in my comfort zone languishing in poverty and joblessness despite having a skill and education because nobody would bring success to one doorstep if i don't hunt for it, this is why I must not relent , I must find it; I must speak out . A CLOSED MOUTH IS A CLOSED DESTINY , even God said a man that can not provide for his family is worse than a infidel .. this is not good for me.

I dressed up walking around looking for opportunity today again with no positive outcome , I'm not a lazy person but I can not keep wandering around here without result, Please, if you are in position and you are reading this , kindly engage me with a job or something please, help me up the ladder. a job will help me save for my business and provide for my family.

Yes I know this is annoying but my soul will not rest until I get someone to engage me, I will
not have peace watching my daughter and wife suffering exept I get someone to engage me positively.
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by eventsmallchops: 9:45pm On Mar 27, 2019
tabithababy:
Op what exactly do you want

Do you want office job and accommodation?? OR

Capital to start your catering small and accommodation


any of the two madam, please
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by eventsmallchops: 9:48pm On Mar 27, 2019
Uglyaddy:


You are yet to tell us your qualification.
Is more easier getting a job,but more challenging getting a job and accommodation together at sametime.

Like Mancala said,dont let it be about job alone,what if a reasonable amount is raise to start up your catering biz?

Also,think about how you can live together with your family,even if it will just be a room

Still keeping my fingers cross as things get more unfold.

I have a Degree in Social Work , My Wife also have a Degree in Vocational Education and Counseling, both from Federal Universities , thanks for your concern Ma.

Madam please do you have any offer for any of us ? please.
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by Mancala: 4:32pm On Mar 28, 2019
@Eventsmallchops - I have been tied up on a work related trip this week and had no time to go through your write up. I will get to it this weekend and respond.

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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by Mancala: 5:43pm On Mar 31, 2019
Op, there's a lot going on that will need to be resolved. I am not convinced that you are quite ready to run a business on the scale your write up suggests. Starting small and growing the enterprise will be the way to go. I think you need to prove to yourself that you can be successful before you can even attract others to invest in your enterprise. Having said that, I am still willing to put up an amount up to 50k to help you in whatever way you choose to utilize it, be it getting an accomodation or whatever. I initially intended to engage even further and invest time in helping you think this through and come up with a plan, but demands on my time have become unbearable. I have been pulled into a project at work that involves lots of travel and negotiations that demand I bring my A game. I will not have much time to spare going forward for the next few months. But before I send you anything, there is the small matter of validating that you are genuine. I know nobody personally on Nairaland but going from antics and reputations on here, I am willing to move on the recommendation of any of the following monikers: Ifyalways, TEHN, Ishilove, Justwise......I do not know them personally nor have I ever communicated with any of them, but their reputations go before them. If you can convince any of them to say GO, it shall be done. And my apologies to these personalities for throwing them under the bus cheesy

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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by ifyalways(f): 9:13am On Apr 01, 2019
Mancala:
Op, there's a lot going on that will need to be resolved. I am not convinced that you are quite ready to run a business on the scale your write up suggests. Starting small and growing the enterprise will be the way to go. I think you need to prove to yourself that you can be successful before you can even attract others to invest in your enterprise. Having said that, I am still willing to put up an amount up to 50k to help you in whatever way you choose to utilize it, be it getting an accomodation or whatever. I initially intended to engage even further and invest time in helping you think this through and come up with a plan, but demands on my time have become unbearable. I have been pulled into a project at work that involves lots of travel and negotiations that demand I bring my A game. I will not have much time to spare going forward for the next few months. But before I send you anything, there is the small matter of validating that you are genuine. I know nobody personally on Nairaland but going from antics and reputations on here, I am willing to move on the recommendation of any of the following monikers: Ifyalways, TEHN, Ishilove, Justwise......I do not know them personally nor have I ever communicated with any of them, but their reputations go before them. If you can convince any of them to say GO, it shall be done. And my apologies to these personalities for throwing them under the bus cheesy





I frankly dont understand the OP. I was initially going to invest in his business by giving him a job(and capital in form of part payment) to make small chops and send as a donation to an IDP camp but after reading his reply to me, i decided its waste of time and funds for me.

He initially was all over nld looking for sponsors or investors then suddenly he needs a job and no more interested in business.

I dont know him nor his needs but since you have been led to give him the 50K for whatever he wants to do with it (accomodation, invest in his business or just to better his life), i'd say go ahead.

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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by FatherCHRISTMAS: 10:25am On Apr 01, 2019
ifyalways:

I frankly dont understand the OP. I was initially going to invest in his business by giving him a job(and capital in form of part payment) to make small chops and send as a donation to an IDP camp but after reading his reply to me, i decided its waste of time and funds for me.

He initially was all over nld looking for sponsors or investors then suddenly he needs a job and no more interested in business.

I dont know him nor his needs but since you have been led to give him the 50K for whatever he wants to do with it (accomodation, invest in his business or just to better his life), i'd say go ahead.
hello good morning. Please can you assist me with the job
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by FatherCHRISTMAS: 10:34am On Apr 01, 2019
fatymore:
oh God...


on your last thread... I said and go back and check my moniker on your thread "try and sell Puff, there is no shame in it"


the vacancy I posted is for today, you can try any of them.

Good luck and stop being Bitter, it is rubbing on you...
please i can take the job.
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by fatymore(f): 10:50am On Apr 01, 2019
FatherCHRISTMAS:
please i can take the job.
check SDK blog daily.
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by FatherCHRISTMAS: 10:54am On Apr 01, 2019
fatymore:
check SDK blog daily.
ok thanks
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by Nobody: 10:41pm On Apr 01, 2019
This man is too arrogant and proud upon say he broke like shiiiiit...Fvck off...!!!!

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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by eventsmallchops: 7:13am On Apr 02, 2019
Mancala:
@Eventsmallchops - I have been tied up on a work related trip this week and had no time to go through your write up. I will get to it this weekend and respond.

please sir, I'm sorry for the late reply, this is to ensure I do not abuse your hand of support toward me or dent chances of any genuine person in the future, a good Samaritan has offer to assist me with a good accommodation in one of the best neighbourhood in Lagos and monthly pay to enable me buy the materials I need with time, this is a very good environment where opportunities lies around , the annonymous person who newly registered on here after someone directed him to see my post has sent someone to meet and know my people, at least before offering me a home, we met with my parent, Uncle and Aunty, this is my reason for staying off , i shouldnt engage in multiple negotiation at a time, everyone should just help me pray he shouldn't change his mind, he has being so kind for him to have come this far, the verification process is still ongoing, but I appreciate you also sir because you showed genuine concern for me, and your questions are also eye opener for me , I won't mind further drilling that will further open my sense in business world, i will start small in Lagos and grow .

Thank you Sir , I will let you know as things turn out.

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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by eventsmallchops: 7:33am On Apr 02, 2019
ifyalways:

I frankly dont understand the OP. I was initially going to invest in his business by giving him a job(and capital in form of part payment) to make small chops and send as a donation to an IDP camp but after reading his reply to me, i decided its waste of time and funds for me.

He initially was all over nld looking for sponsors or investors then suddenly he needs a job and no more interested in business.

I dont know him nor his needs but since you have been led to give him the 50K for whatever he wants to do with it (accomodation, invest in his business or just to better his life), i'd say go ahead.

thanks for your concerns Ma, my apology , I humbly apologize if I wronged you, please. kindly put me in your prayer at this point , that will do Ma.
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by ifyalways(f): 12:32pm On Apr 02, 2019
eventsmallchops:


thanks for your concerns Ma, my apology , I humbly apologize if I wronged you, please. kindly put me in your prayer at this point , that will do Ma.
You have not wronged me in any way and have no reason to aplogise.

I wish you well in your endeavours. Since you have moved to or planning to move to Lagos, if you do start your small chops thingy, please come back here and advertise so some of us can patronize you. smiley

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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by paul1995: 1:11am On Apr 03, 2019
Op have read your predicament and situations on here trust me you owe this people no explanation they're all hypocrites ..how much are they offering that they're speaking like God who maketh riches this life is bleeped up what you lack others have in abundance and some are even wasting it jeez life can be so unfair .. you have explained yourself enough biko if they want to give let them give or forever hold their peace ,if they want to offer employment let them offer or forever hold their peace .. you weren't rude with your replies na condition make crayfish bend angry pray to God for divine intervention go listen to burna boy dangote i don do yes ma yes sir so many people go tell you NoNO mo need lati lowo odi dan dan .. drop me your number if your future bright i fit gather money for your sake as an investor give me a business idea and don't think low think big dream big not those akara and puff things them they yarn you .. besides relocate to lagos no drag your family with your movement them go dull your inspiration go make it out there and come rescue them from this chain of poverty .. am willing to invest in a business idea that can yield money email me justinedwards042@gmail.com 7 figures for a start bro ...

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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by eventsmallchops: 6:58pm On Apr 03, 2019
not in support of the above comment please. all I need at this point is your prayers.

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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by truthsayer009(m): 7:07pm On Apr 03, 2019
eventsmallchops:
not in support of the above comment please. all I need at this point is your prayers.
Me I'm just happy you've decided to move to Lagos. That your current location won't help you out at all.
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by Ishilove: 4:56am On Apr 04, 2019
eventsmallchops:
not in support of the above comment please.
..

Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by Ishilove: 4:58am On Apr 04, 2019
eventsmallchops:
all I need at this prayers.
Also remember to verify the person verifying you. Find out if the person is a good Samaritan, or a Bar-Jesus.

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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by Tony142: 9:58am On Apr 04, 2019
eventsmallchops:
How will I have two hands, two legs, two eyes, even good look, strong will to work and unable to find opportunity in this country? passing through a lot of struggles, I have seek here and there for a chance, or any kind of opportunity but no way! I have a child to care for, why must I be squatting with friend when I should be able to provide food for my child, can someone just offer me a chance, can someone just engage me in any productive things, I can drive well, I have experience as a professional pastry chef, I know micro soft excel , I can work as admin staff, driver, support staff or anywhere at all but I don't know why no opportunity has come my way ? this is disheartening and making me feel like there is no need for my existence, what is it that I can not do? I can fix in anywhere, why is my case like this?

please can someone just call me for interview or just engage me in anything please?


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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by MummyIMadeIt: 10:01am On Apr 04, 2019
Tony142:



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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by Tony142: 9:04pm On Apr 04, 2019
MummyIMadeIt:


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KK, follow this link to register

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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by devLov(m): 11:08pm On Apr 07, 2019
eventsmallchops:
Model 2

operational Base cost
1. bake from home - Rent XXXXX ______________________________________ NOT Included

Tools
1.Fairly used Oven 60,000
2.Mixing bowl 1,000
3.Pastry Table 3,000
4. Cooler 12,000 __Total_____________________ 76,000


Materials for production


Half bag of floor 5,700
half gallon of Oil 6,600
half Bakery fat 3,200
Sugar 1,000
Baking Powder 400
Mince Meat 1,000_ Total________________ 16,900

Grand Total
_________________________________________________________________________________ 92,900

Total

I will start by baking the jumbo rich meat pie from home , I don't mean the Curry Potatoe Pie most outlets are selling in Abuja with too much thyme , I have my own recipe for filling, you will feel the meat and the dough is soft and tender that it will scatter if you drop it, we always do the test . if you eat one, you must ask for more , if you taste it today, you must find it tomorrow , I will bake , pack dress like a delivery guy with branded T shirt and find my way into an office while it's hot and fresh and dash one person among 6 people , next time give another person and stop, move to another company , if worked for us before , it will work in Abuja, there is money there , just choose the class by given those who can afford it,
if I make just 50 pieces at the rate of just N300 , That's N15,000 ... 50% profit , if they are having a meeting and need quick refreshment in that office, they will call you, be nice to their PRO and introduce other products to them , there are people who sell cooked noodles in traffic at night around busy spots , Gardens and Clubs Parks ...I will later get pretty girls to join me in selling.

and the work continue , I will be able get a small shop somewhere where I can place a show glass , microwave oven and fridge in one of the busy complex ,Garden or Club where you can place order or book for small chops or anything.
@YummyChopsNG



For your consideration Sir
NOTE : I prefer this second model but the accommodation where I will be able to work from home is about 150,000 for a room self contain , for this reason, I wont mind if the arrangement can be made for only oven for that 50,000 you are offering me Sir , you don't have to send me the money, arrangement can be made to make a direct non refundable payment for the oven if you know someone selling, or through a police station, I will go and get it and keep it with what I already have Sir.

or if there is any of the prominent and trusted person known person on this thread who have a strong abandoned oven that is still good and willing to sell to me for that price , he or she can upload the photo and if its okay, arrangement can be made for the payment and have the oven send to me. I have passion for this. I can not ask someone to pay that house rent for me, and I truly do not want to miss your offer Sir, I know it will be a gradual thing, I will get there , it's step by step. Thank you Sir .


CC: Sir Mancala

I will find another means to get the rest of the tools so I wont be constituting nuisance here
I make ovens 07088263953

Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by millyj(f): 2:49pm On Apr 08, 2019
Interested please
Tony142:



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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by Tony142: 4:27pm On Apr 08, 2019
millyj:
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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by nigeriagospel(m): 8:23pm On Apr 08, 2019
fatymore:
you are shouting kids up.and down like a slowpoke, can you give birth to me, or does serving now makes me your junior sister age mate. Mr man calm down, I was only concerned about your situation, else I won't have posted what I did.

you will have given me a dirty slap, dem no born you well million times.
he needs to work on his arrogance and pride
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by orbitalgis: 2:56pm On Apr 09, 2019
Ok
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by Mancala: 10:49pm On Apr 16, 2019
ifyalways:

I frankly dont understand the OP. I was initially going to invest in his business by giving him a job(and capital in form of part payment) to make small chops and send as a donation to an IDP camp but after reading his reply to me, i decided its waste of time and funds for me.

He initially was all over nld looking for sponsors or investors then suddenly he needs a job and no more interested in business.

I dont know him nor his needs but since you have been led to give him the 50K for whatever he wants to do with it (accomodation, invest in his business or just to better his life), i'd say go ahead.

Thanks for responding and I do apologize for my absemce for an extended period of time. I have been away from my home base in a different country, involved in a large aquisition project for the company I work for. Looks like he has found help in terms of a job in Lagos so I wish him the best of luck. I do commend him for his honesty in coming forth with that information and not accepting the money and running off. There is still hope for my motherland Nigeria cheesy

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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by Mancala: 10:52pm On Apr 16, 2019
eventsmallchops:


please sir, I'm sorry for the late reply, this is to ensure I do not abuse your hand of support toward me or dent chances of any genuine person in the future, a good Samaritan has offer to assist me with a good accommodation in one of the best neighbourhood in Lagos and monthly pay to enable me buy the materials I need with time, this is a very good environment where opportunities lies around , the annonymous person who newly registered on here after someone directed him to see my post has sent someone to meet and know my people, at least before offering me a home, we met with my parent, Uncle and Aunty, this is my reason for staying off , i shouldnt engage in multiple negotiation at a time, everyone should just help me pray he shouldn't change his mind, he has being so kind for him to have come this far, the verification process is still ongoing, but I appreciate you also sir because you showed genuine concern for me, and your questions are also eye opener for me , I won't mind further drilling that will further open my sense in business world, i will start small in Lagos and grow .

Thank you Sir , I will let you know as things turn out.

I am happy that you have found accomodation in Lagos and making progress. Please let us know how you are progressing. You should share your good news even more than you have shared your difficult times. Good luck and God Bless

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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by eventsmallchops: 2:43pm On Apr 25, 2019
Mancala:


I am happy that you have found accomodation in Lagos and making progress. Please let us know how you are progressing. You should share your good news even more than you have shared your difficult times. Good luck and God Bless

Thank You for your concern Sir, Yes I will be doing that, I will be stopping by here to give update on my progress , like showcasing my business also and I hope Madam Ifyalways will patronize me and recommend me to others smiley you can contact me for your events small chops , snacks , fried rice, Asun , chicken and chips, already test running my skill , did some job with a caterer last week at Maryland and Lekki Boat club , this is one of the very best hand in Lagos and I will still team up with the caterer on Saturday to enable me study the market before my wife arrive at the end of the month , then I will be more free to move around.
the Irish potatoes season is around the corner and will be getting it delivered to me straight from Jos cheaply for chips , already working on it.

I will say what happened to me is beyond human imagination
It’s just grace, mercy and favor from God, not just accommodation but a superb one in a calm environment in Lagos with opportunities around to tap from, The Angel gave me a well furnished accommodation , a job with pay, it’s like receiving pay for caring for where I live, with freedom to explore and develop my business, couldn’t ask for more, who does that? this is just favor from God, The Angel in human form is real, The Angel gave me the ladder to move up with so much kindness toward me , and everyone here cares about me , this is just God …. unbelievable but real and true. THIS IS JUST GOD! smiley

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