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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by WebSurfer(m): 10:43am On Mar 30, 2019
AlphaMajestic:


Pple like u has done more masturbation than the op...ur a born liar...shame on u and do something about ur spellings ode
quite unfortunate you think you know anything
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by WebSurfer(m): 10:45am On Mar 30, 2019
Dudeweedlmao:


For you to be this defensive, you must have wanked before.

Unfortunately you are wrong
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Nobody: 11:30am On Mar 30, 2019
WebSurfer:


Unfortunately you are wrong
lol
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by AlphaMajestic: 11:16pm On Mar 30, 2019
WebSurfer:

quite unfortunate you think you know anything

U must be an imbecil3.
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by AlphaMajestic: 11:24pm On Mar 30, 2019
nonny1212:
just to be sure, does masturbation make one loose weight im kinda curious about that.

Chronic master masturb....so uv even lost weight..i bet ur story will more miserable dan d op's story..
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by AlphaMajestic: 11:26pm On Mar 30, 2019
toyosiabayomi96:
please I want ask a question because I'm not sure "does masturbation cause hair loss (bald head)?
thanks


Haahaahaa......i don die

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by WebSurfer(m): 1:52am On Mar 31, 2019
AlphaMajestic:


U must be an imbecil3.
You mean your unfortunate self
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by AlphaMajestic: 11:29am On Mar 31, 2019
WebSurfer:

You mean your unfortunate self

People like u av very bad personal hygiene....
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by internationalman(m): 12:05pm On Mar 31, 2019
annford:


can we chat privately? are you on WhatsApp?
Let's chat privately too... Please add me on WhatsApp

07053038683

Please I'm waiting in anticipation for your response
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by toyosiabayomi96: 2:56pm On Mar 31, 2019
M A S T U R B A T I O N AND ITS EFFECT

Masturbation is a private and personal act of manipulating one's body for sexual pleasure (aka touching yourself).
It is forbidden for every genuine child of God, because our body is the temple of God and we cannot manipulate it.
Some Christians get confuse if what they do privately sometimes is actually masturbation, to clarify that;
Anything you do personally and privately to your body to derive sexual pleasure is masturbation.
It may be pressing one's private parts, using tools, toys or watching nude picture, sexual movies or reading romantic novel that ignites Sexual passion in you until one experiences orgasm. It is done with the image of someone in mind. It can be a lover, an EX, a celebrity, a married person, a crush, someone you like but incapable of having. You imagine having sex with them while masturbating. That is MENTAL FORNICATION
All of these are activities of masturbation.
Either before marriage or after marriage, the sin of masturbation remains the same.

HOW DO YOU KNOW GUYS THAT MASTURBATE?

1. Check his phone, laptop or ipad! If you see any porn video or picture, then he masturbates! Check hidden folders because Guys are sharp! Lol.

2. Check his movie collections at home! Check hidden CDs under his rug or carpet! Any porn video? He masturbates!

3. Check the amount of time he spends alone in the bathroom or toilet! A normal bath for Guys lasts within 5-7 minutes. Any guy spending 10 minutes and above in the bathroom is a suspect!

4. Observe his relationships with Girls. Most Guys who masturbate are Sex addicts! They see women as intimacy gadgets! If he is only interested in Sex, then he is a suspect!

DANGERS OF MASTURBATION

1. For ladies, while inserting all manner of objects, you may mistakenly dis-virgin/destroy your clitoris or hymen and also introduce infection into your genitals and womb. It will be very difficult to convince your future partner that you never had sex with man except objects during your solo sex.

2. You kill your ability to enjoy sex in future. Millions of women don't enjoy sex in marriage which leads to sexual frustration, adultery, lesbianism and feminism. If you are used to getting orgasm by yourself, you won't be able to get it from your husband. If you are used to objects in your private part, you won't have feelings for your husband's penis. You will always think of something harder, bigger, longer, larger and completely unrealistic! Women who complain their husbands' penis are too small didn't marry as virgins. They must have been promiscuous as singles.

3. You will not have a good sex life as a man. You will experience per-mature ejaculation and your wife won't enjoy you leading to acute sexual frustration in marriage. You need self control to fully enjoy sex and give your wife maximum sexual pleasure. A woman enjoys sex when the man can go on for at least 7 minutes before ejaculating. Because you are used to instant release from masturbation, you may not be able to go more than a minute before exploding leaving your wife completely unsatisfied and frustrated. She may close up, become frigid and stop having sex altogether which may lead to you having an affair, she having an affair or both of you having an affair. Self control before marriage helps you enjoy sex to the maximum. You are able to delay ejaculation, go on for a long time and have excellent orgasm while giving your wife pleasure too. That is why total virginity pays!

4. If you do not suffer premature ejaculation, you may have serious problem with delayed/ retarded ejaculation. A situation where you get erection for several hours without ejaculation or orgasm. What is the benefit of sex without orgasm? Rough masturbation with your hands kills your ability to feel/enjoy sex with your wife. It is hell for a woman to be under a man who thrusts in for hours unable to ejaculate. How will the woman get pregnant? It's the reason some women are seemingly "barren" and can't talk to anybody out of embarrassment. Thrusting hard for so long leaves the woman sore, frustrated and hating sex altogether. You have so much to lose sexually when you masturbate. Abstaining from this degrading act helps you feel relaxed, confident, have normal sexual intercourse. and enjoy the pleasures that comes with sex IN MARRIAGE!

5. You start having sex in the dream with a known or unknown person.
6.
7. You get damaged, hurt and broken.
8. You are at risk of loosing God's friendship and being destroyed.
These and more are the consequences of masturbation.

HOW TO HANDLE CONSTANT HUNGER FOR SEX

1. Avoid all dirty pictures, pornography videos, pictures and hot, romantic movies -they are powerful sexual triggers!
2. Avoid friends who say dirty,lewd and obscene things. Stop all sexy banters with friends and say only things that are pure, holy, needful and helpful.
3. Get busy with your life, education and career, there is more to life than sex.
4.Study the Bible a lot especially Psalm 119. When you are filled with the word, you have no space for the devil and his demons in your heart.
5.Make friends with godly people.
6.Avoid pornography and romantic movies.
7.Get busy in kingdom service. Go out and preach the good news of Gods kingdom.

Masturbation is not merely physical! It is Sexual intercourse with an imaginary being, mostly a DEMON, who is invisible, yet real!

I Pray for God to deliver you from that demonic manipulation in Jesus name!
When you surrender your life to Jesus completely, you must resist and reject the demon of masturbation when he comes back to play with you.

*copied* From
*Ominuta Osas*

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by annford: 5:29pm On Mar 31, 2019
Excel70:
Yes i am on whatsapp

please I'd like for us to chat privately
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Excel70: 6:31pm On May 03, 2019
annford:


can we chat privately? are you on WhatsApp?
I am not the one asking on behalf of a brother
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Zeus1905(m): 3:11pm On Jun 08, 2019
AlphaMajestic:


Haahaahaa......i don die
Laugh wan tear my boxers
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Hardrive(m): 6:14pm On Jun 08, 2019
Nobody has given you a concrete answer. They are giving solutions while ignoring the cause of the problem. If you complain of masturbation(excessive) and uncontrollable erections, then it means your sexual libido is extremely high.

You are not the first person that will have this problem, but the most important thing is for you to have control of yourself while at the same time look for a lady who has all the characteristics of a good wife but with a high libido as you( the truth is that there are far more ladies than men with very high libido if you know the signs to look out for).

The most important sign is the prominent cheek bones on the face of women. This is most trusted sign. Others may include hair on her chin( growing beards like that of a guy). Gap tooth sometimes. Mind if i guess that your cheek bones are prominent. I strongly advise that you dont settle for anything less to avoid frustration in future. I attached two pictures one is a man whose cheekbones are visible, while the other is a lady whose cheekbone is also visible but we cant see it clearly because of make up.

Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by refsilva: 12:40am On Jun 11, 2022
Hardrive:
Nobody has given you a concrete answer. They are giving solutions while ignoring the cause of the problem. If you complain of masturbation(excessive) and uncontrollable erections, then it means your sexual libido is extremely high.

You are not the first person that will have this problem, but the most important thing is for you to have control of yourself while at the same time look for a lady who has all the characteristics of a good wife but with a high libido as you( the truth is that there are far more ladies than men with very high libido if you know the signs to look out for).

The most important sign is the prominent cheek bones on the face of women. This is most trusted sign. Others may include hair on her chin( growing beards like that of a guy). Gap tooth sometimes. Mind if i guess that your cheek bones are prominent. I strongly advise that you dont settle for anything less to avoid frustration in future. I attached two pictures one is a man whose cheekbones are visible, while the other is a lady whose cheekbone is also visible but we cant see it clearly because of make up.



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