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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by sangresan(m): 7:26am On Mar 29, 2019
Masturbation is demonic blah blah blah....

The problem with Nigerians is that we judge everything with religion lens...Now read this from an authoritative medical publication....
We have refused to embrace life and rather choose to deny the reality of our existence.


Does Masturbation Ever Cause ED?
You might have heard this, but it’s a myth. Masturbation is normal and won't cause problems when you have sex with a partner.
Can masturbation help treat ED? Or prevent it? There’s not much evidence that any sexual activity can keep you from getting the condition. But masturbation can play a role in helping with ED that’s caused by stress ,
anxiety, or another psychological issue. If you’re able to perform sexually, even with masturbation, you may feel more confident that you can get and keep an erection during sex with a partner.
Masturbation With ED Treatment
If you try counseling or sex therapy to treat your ED, your therapist may suggest that you try masturbation or other forms of touching at home on your own or with a partner. Therapy can also teach you other ways to take the stress out of sex, communicate with partners, and find more sexual stimulation.
Other ED treatments, including medications, vacuum erection devices, and penile implants, can help you get a healthy erection for sex with a partner or for masturbation.
ED isn’t easy for many men to talk about. But sex, whether through masturbation or with a partner, is a part of a healthy life.


@OP, you need a girl...Stop visiting brothels.

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Nanatrendy(f): 7:28am On Mar 29, 2019
buhariski:
bro Ibadan is a very large city and the area I'm staying is made of 90 per cent Muslim so majority of the girls there are Muslim and hard core Yorubas so they have nothing to do with strangers dat how they are brought up with.someone told me they flow with their own and not strangers,and the only way you can get them somehow is when u can speak the language fluently. I'm DAT kind of introverted guy from home to work.I don't really have DAT time to go far to meet and mingle with people.but now I'm try to go to places like mall, bar and doing some clubbing.
add church to that list, will help a great deal to fellowship that's if you are a Christian.
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by RatedStar: 7:30am On Mar 29, 2019
Had such good laffs on this thread

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Divay22(f): 7:32am On Mar 29, 2019
buhariski:
Salutes bro u dey game too. I don't have any favorite porn star but I luv crystal clear from d bbw world I don't know if she has retired now.I know Cherokee d ass,and messaratti. I luv home made ebony videos it real to me and fat ass bbw videos. don't forget black creamy pu**y get f **ked. mehn just watching those videos can make me cum six times a day.
See pesin undecided
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Sonnobax15(m): 7:39am On Mar 29, 2019
buhariski:
currently I live in Ibadan from Delta state.
omo delta??..where in delta do u hail from bro??

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by lionesskadosh(f): 7:39am On Mar 29, 2019
God will deliver you completely.
Work on your mindset it helps alot
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by topas100(m): 7:42am On Mar 29, 2019
RatedStar:
Had such good laffs on this thread
same here...

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Nobody: 7:44am On Mar 29, 2019
buhariski:
I'm a chronic masturbator I don't know how i get myself into dis shit. This year has been a worst year in my life and I can't control d way I mastubate. I don't know if it is due to depression and loneliness.

This year I made a promise not to visit the brothel though I have kept to the promise. My problem now I have done everything possible to make sure I stop masturbation but I can't just stop it. The highest I can go is a week then return to normal.

It's affecting me especially in my work place. cos during the working days the time I will get to rest I will used it to browse the net (night browsing you understand) using it watch porn movies online without getting a sleep and a enough wanking. This has made me less productive in my work. I wil look so weak and tired and I will b having some dizziness at worked. My co workers have took note of it and my boss too. Though he has not really take action or give me quarries maybe be cos I'm d hard working type and I expect that soonest.

The bigger problem now my dick is always embarrassing me publicly I can't just control it. any time I 'm with the opposite sex I always having a strong Boner. There is a day i was at home washing my clothes I was all alone in the compound cos everyone left for their various places, suddenly a small girl walked into the compound she should be 14 to 15 years old but she has a very matured physique. She was selling pap (akamu). She walked to me asking of someone living in the compound and as I was answering and I was not having any bad thought in my head oo but found out my dick got erected when I was talking to her. I didn't know oo cos I put on a lit boxer I saw her looking below, for my mind why dis girl dey look ground and I just checked myself I found out my penis was fully erect. Mehn I couldn't stand the shame and embarrassment I gave to myself that day.

Yesterday something similar happened but wit my neighbour daughter DAT she is in SS1. I was in kitchen cooking oo so she came in to fetch WATER, as she bowed down to get the water her bra got exposed I saw her breast cos she got big breast I couldn't resist myself, I had a strong boner again but this time she didn't notice anything but I had rushed to my room to cool down myself while my food is on fire burning. I just weak and getting a girlfriend has been very difficult for me. The rejections I have had from girls would make someone to commit suicide.
Bros, at this level of sexual perversion you are now, you need deliverance. Accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Saviour, and all will vanish.
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Eyoh01(m): 7:49am On Mar 29, 2019
buhariski you're the problem of me millions of people in this country why should we be bothered by your problems.

anyway because I'm nice today I'll suggest you focus on religious studies study the koran extensively if you're a Moslim but if you're a Christian study, meditate, fast and pray daily you can contact me I'll recommend we some Bible study plans that may help 08134788737

Also you may also have urges to masturbate or blue balls masturbate if you'll have to BUT DON'T WATCH PORN including confused near humans that roam the earth almost naked overlook them there are live porn

Respect women a see be close to them without wanting sex with them, see ladies as God's wonderful creation not sex object
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Sgtkoselupa: 7:50am On Mar 29, 2019
Please take it to God in prayer. Firstly, read Proverbs 28:13, repent and give your life to Christ. Do you know Mountain of Fire & Miracles Ministry? Walk into any closest to you and request to see any of the ministers or pastors. Go for deliverance at Prayer City.
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by PotatoSalad(m): 7:50am On Mar 29, 2019
Omudia11:
So you've completely stopped it now or you do it once in a while?
Clean as a whistle

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by PotatoSalad(m): 7:51am On Mar 29, 2019
dancok:
pls do you have idea of the price(ps4)
80 to 135k depending on the standard or pro versions

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by chronique(m): 7:55am On Mar 29, 2019
Lol. Problem dey this life o.
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by sharpwriter(m): 7:55am On Mar 29, 2019
RiyadhGoddess:






Op so sorry for what you are passing through. Where are you located? Please send me a DM. If indeed you are tired of your present situation, I can be of help if you don't mind...

Are you Christian or Muslim.... Seems na Dubai you dey and I don see ya pics before.
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by jife(m): 7:56am On Mar 29, 2019
Give out your phone, browse with laptop only in public places. masturbation will affect your relationship with females because you will want sex not relationship. Never have sexual relationship with females below 18, its a curse.
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by omega2128(m): 7:59am On Mar 29, 2019
if you are a chronic masturbator. you'll not have boner anyhow. this is a fabricated story.
Op may say he jerk off with right hand now. lol
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Awaja(m): 8:02am On Mar 29, 2019
Konji na bastard !
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by dheilaw1(m): 8:09am On Mar 29, 2019
buhariski:
currently I live in Ibadan from Delta state.
hook my up in ibadan make I run babe for you
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by dheilaw1(m): 8:10am On Mar 29, 2019
omega2128:
if you are a chronic masturbator. you'll not have boner anyhow. this is a fabricated story.
Op may say he jerk off with right hand now. lol
you are very wrong on this. Chronic masturbators has erection on everything little thing that looks like a hole

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by d4james: 8:12am On Mar 29, 2019
chenzen:
sell ur android phone and buy Nokia torch. u ll be fine


continue using the torchlight phone until u marry.
YES YOU ARE THE ONE THAT CAN SAVE YOURSELF, AND MOST ESPECIALLY HANDOVER YOUR LIFE TO JESUS PLEASE BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE.
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Goddyj(m): 8:12am On Mar 29, 2019
Without sounding as a religious fanatic. I want you to put it in prayer

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Dami12345: 8:13am On Mar 29, 2019
lugiano1:
do not mislead the young man bro.. The truth is always bitter and better. What he is passing through is not normal but satanic. Masturbation is bad. It gives ill luck and you won't peace of mind I know what am saying because I was there. If you care to stop it, go for deliverance because it's beyond the natural

Smh.
As your deliverance saved Nigeria? After so many years of prayers?
All the young man needs is sexual satisfaction. A freedom from guilt. Not scammers again.
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by stubbornman(m): 8:15am On Mar 29, 2019
chenzen:
sell ur android phone and buy Nokia torch. u ll be fine


continue using the torchlight phone until u marry.
best advise ever grin grin grin
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Nobody: 8:18am On Mar 29, 2019
Kfed4ril:


Religious dating site? Are you for real?
Yes, there are many...Not dating per se. We can say courtship. They ask u guys many questions at first n if u match, dey will giv u good suggestions on how to court.


The rest will now remain wit u guys, but dey wud av asked questions to b sure if u ar truly religious (They are experts).


They help ppl like dis guy n others dat cant talk to girls n girls that av issues wit marriage.
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Ibroseun01(m): 8:18am On Mar 29, 2019
Masturbation is not what you can stop with your physical effort or ability it is powerful, most times people feel exhausted after committing this act...many are into this act, many say it is healthy but down deep in them they know how destructive it is. how do this thing happen, it is through the mind when the mind is filled with dirts and lustful things of this world.....my brother you need JESUS.. I want you to know God has a purpose for you in life that's why devil is trying thwart everything with SIN because SIN is of the devil.... but the word of God says "come into all ye that labour and are heavy laden I will give into you rest"....come unto Jesus he will help you, he has power over sin.....Call on Jesus today and he will save you

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Hermis: 8:19am On Mar 29, 2019
I had similar issue though not so bad cos I had girlfriends but I started mine in secondary school over a stupid maturity game we played with my friends to show who's finally a man, I couldn't stop even 7 years after marriage and it affected my work like you as well, it drained me of confidence and couldn't toast a girl anymore, till I decided on observations from colleagues just like you, I asked myself is this how I intend to leave for the rest of my life? I now have a lovely daughter, how could I keep this acts, I swore I will never do it again, I read the dangers of masturbation online and it's health repercussions and how it triggers a hormone common in drug addicts,which increases this cravings, I was further strengthened to carry on with my resolution.

My advice to you is simple take it from me,
1. Stay off completely from porn and nude images
2. Try new socially decent activities
3. Join a sports group
4. Keep your self immersed with church activities and pray for God's help
5. Most importantly what's your strongest motivation in life, if the answer is masturbation carry on, otherwise pursue it with all your heart and there will be no space left for petty things.

In my case my daughter was the first motivation and the second was my health which is still stemed in the fact that I love my daughter and wouldn't wanna be careless with my health as no can look after her better than her father so with this kind of love and motivation you can let go even your life...
Try this may God help you like he did me, I am new, looking fresher, wearing a new look and brimming with confidence, in fact am basically running away from women now.... Couldn't resist dropping this off my chest cause I was guilty of this as well

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by RiyadhGoddess(f): 8:25am On Mar 29, 2019
sharpwriter:


Are you Christian or Muslim.... Seems na Dubai you dey and I don see ya pics before.





I am a Christian. Ex Muslim. I'm back to Nigeria...

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Kfed4ril(m): 8:32am On Mar 29, 2019
sherylbakky:
Yes, there are many...Not dating per se. We can say courtship. They ask u guys many questions at first n if u match, dey will giv u good suggestions on how to court.


The rest will now remain wit u guys, but dey wud av asked questions to b sure if u ar truly religious (They are experts).


They help ppl like dis guy n others dat cant talk to girls n girls that av issues wit marriage.


Can you help me with the site?
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by lawrry145: 8:36am On Mar 29, 2019
My grandma dey oo
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by ridwanlawal: 8:42am On Mar 29, 2019
kingemzy5:
Go and work in porn industry it will stop
He needs help if only you can make a difference

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