very true, I am a living witness, my mum is an example.

Unik3030:
feminists who don't have shishi in their account will never agree with this

broke idiots who don’t have kobo would love this too !

All this stupid alake oloko women have come again with their nonsense advice !

Onyekachi419:
Once there is money there will be respect and love. Easy to say ma.

So your own respect is tied with availability of Money? Kontinue

But feminists who teach in primary school think otherwise

Onyekachi419:
Once there is money there will be respect and love. Easy to say ma.

Disrespectful feminist spotted! Following that ageless biblical injunction of respecting and submitting to ones husband will elicit love! Work on you damaged psych will do you good in life

Yeah very true indeed, I just liked that her statement that 'he who pays the piper dictates the sound'

Onyekachi419:
Once there is money there will be respect and love. Easy to say ma.

and when there’s no money?..

Alpha males would love this

cc pocohantas

I appreciate her views. I learnt something.

Pataricatering:
All this stupid alake oloko women have come again with their nonsense advice !

she is the cbn governor,yet you call her stupid.

Goes to show you see things on reverse.

CruellaDeVil:
Alpha males would love this

cc pocohantas

They should at least take their time to read through before shouting "yes yes", but they won't. E dey them for body

Onyekachi419:
Once there is money there will be respect and love. Easy to say ma.

What makes you think there was money when they started?
37yrs before attaining this height.
My dear the best marriages are those that the couple build their wealth together.
Don't wait for Mr Rich, go with Mr Right!

odehaj:
and when there’s no money?..

They go manage each other

ssogundele:

Disrespectful feminist spotted! Following that ageless biblical injunction of respecting and submitting to ones husband will elicit love! Work on you damaged psych will do you good in life

am so sorry to hurt you ur guess was wrong. My opinion you can share yours

I concur.Respect your husband,give him peace,speak to him with humility,and if you are lucky he is honourable,he will support anything you so desire.He will be your cheerleader.People will claim you used juju on him but it's just simply logic you applied.

magicminister:
I didn’t read the whole article but I feel like a woman in public office should not speak like this. It reeks of shallow mindedness because a woman that is unmarried or widowed can also go far without any man behind her and women can succeed in whatever they set their mind to!!

Who told you widows and unmarried women have no man behind them?

Is it because some of them chose to have secret affairs and make people believe no one is knacking them?

Don't be naive

magicminister:
I didn’t read the whole article but I feel like a woman in public office should not speak like this. It reeks of shallow mindedness because a woman that is unmarried or widowed can also go far without any man behind her and women can succeed in whatever they set their mind to!!

Una don start, abi?
She was talking SPECIFICALLY about MARRIED WOMEN.
She said "a married woman" should respect her husband, if she wants to go far!
She DID NOT SAY "unmarried or widowed women" WOULD NOT go far!

Controversy and incomprehension are like 5 & 6.

etrange:


Please, read her full speech. The title just singled out the part that massages the masculine ego.

She made a lot of sense. In fact, she presented the act of respect as a means of managing the man's inferiority complex.

lol inferiority complex yet you're the one protesting morning afternoon evening crying about how weak and inferior the whole world consider you to be

Emaprince:
Who told you widows and unmarried women have no man behind them?

Is it because some of them chose to have secret affairs and make people believe no one is knacking them?

Don't be naive

And how does a man knacking a widow translate to having a man behind her, thus attaining this kinda height...

Abi do men now ejaculate dollars or success?

If he has inferiority complex, he should deal with his issues and a woman always kneeling for her husband, just to feed his useless ego, isn’t cure for it, nonsense!

yvelchstores:
I appreciate her views. I learnt something.

What did you learn?

@crackhaus

Remember my thread earlier this year?

unclexofficial:
Tope Omage, the first female Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN) Director of Finance, has stated that any woman who wants to go far should respect her husband. In an interview with Punch, the first female Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN) Director of Finance who recounted her experience working  for 37 years in the banking and financial sector, stated that women always have lots of challenges when their husband doesn't agree with them.

Tope Omage who further disclosed that any woman who wants to go far should learn to respect her husband, added that her husband helped her a lot at the height of her career. Here are excerpts from the interview below;

How were you able to balance your busy schedule and your family life so that none suffered?

They say behind every successful man, there is a woman. Behind every successful married woman, there is an understanding man. I am lucky to have a man who is my cheerleader, who encourages me and is not threatened by my success. And that is what a lot of corporate women, who are at the top of their careers, would tell you. If your husband does not agree with what you do, there will be lots of challenges.At the same time, any woman who wants to go far should learn to respect her husband. My husband helped me a lot. He understood a lot and I tried to use every resource available to me. When my mum was around, I used her. When I had to get home helps, I did. I also used gadgets such as deep freezers and microwave ovens.

When some women rise to the top of their careers, they start to disrespect their husbands. How were you able to avoid that trap?

It is a two-way thing. The Bible says, ‘Husbands, love your wives. Wives, submit to your husbands’. If you know somebody loves you, it is easier to submit because you know that whatever he tells you would not be detrimental to your well-being.A lot of men are threatened by their wives’ success. Every woman must know her husband. If you know your husband has inferiority complex, you wouldn’t lose anything by kneeling down for him as many times as possible if you want to keep your marriage.I am an executive committee member of the Women in Management, Business and Public Service. In WIMBIZ, most of our women are high corporate flyers and they still have their husbands because they understand what it means to respect one’s husband. If you must go high, you must be humble.A lot of men are looking for successful women to marry, but I would ask them, ‘Can you handle it?’ because he who pays the piper dictates the tune. She’s earning so much and you want to command her anyhow you like. So, when we are judging a case, we look at both sides.


https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/any-woman-who-wants-to-go-far-should-respect-her-husband-tope-omage/amp/

Interesting and honest interview.

The role of the husband in a successful wife can't be undermined.

pocohantas:


And how does a man knacking a widow translate to having a man behind her, thus attaining this kinda height...

Abi do men now ejaculate dollars or success?

dey there na...

You need the nutrition that comes only from sperm for proper brain function.

Afamed:

So your own respect is tied with availability of Money? Kontinue

Lol. Didn't you see her name?

maxtop:
True talk but women of nowadays will claim "feminism ". People like Aunty Toke Makinwa who are not submissive and always trying to blame men for there ordeals.

Well I made front page for the 2nd time today, NL pls I need 100 likes for this

mtcheww

bukatyne:


What did you learn?

it is none of your business.

Let me modify cos I just perceived you are against "submission".
Anyways, I learnt that some women have to be more submissive than the others, it all boils down to the situation you find yourself in and if you are willing to put in the effort

yvelchstores:
it is non of your business.

You are right.

I wonder why you are touchy though.

bukatyne:


You are right.

I wonder why you are touchy though.

my apology. I already modified the other reply before seeing yours

yvelchstores:
it is none of your business.

Let me modify cos I just perceived you are against "submission".
Anyways, I learnt that some women have to be more submissive than the others, it all boils down to the situation you find yourself in and if you are willing to put in the effort

How do you perceive someone against submission?

I am just against bullshit from either party while most women are willing to accommodate men's excesses.

Very true @ your lesson. And I particularly liked how she said she asks men who claim to want successful wives if they are up to the task.

Like a friend said, some successful wives have learnt to pay their husbands for their support via enormous gifts and cash.

Last last, every wife needs to know the kind of man she has and manage him.

yvelchstores:
my apology. I already modified the other reply before seeing yours

Apologies accepted .