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My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Last Long In Bed... / Help, My Boyfriend Doesn't Last Long In Bed / Men Only: SEX, Approaching, Chatting, Keeping a Conversation, Last Long in Bed. (2) (3) (4)
|Re: Pls How Can I Last Long by luizpippo(m): 10:40am On Apr 12|
|Re: Pls How Can I Last Long by luizpippo(m): 10:46am On Apr 12|
agarawu23:Jack off you say?
I tried jacking off one time in preparation for the babe's arrival and almost cut off the cap of my preeq.
The thing was hanging by a thread and I was administering GV (getian violetan) on it for weeks,
Had to raise it up and belt it around my waist if I must go out.
There is no way I am jacking ever again or I ain't even allow bae to stroke it for long.
|Re: Pls How Can I Last Long by Goldenboy333(m): 10:49am On Apr 12|
Eat bitter kola or banana or carrot you'll tank me later
|Re: Pls How Can I Last Long by JasonScoolari: 10:59am On Apr 12|
Efewestern:So far, So good, I am dating a faithful girl and I feel blessed to have her.
E nor easy to see her type here.
|Re: Pls How Can I Last Long by FootballAnalyst(m): 11:03am On Apr 12|
My brother, I laughed so hard reading your post. Not because I am laughing at your predicament, but because I can relate. I understand you in totality.
Do not listen to those men that tells you that they have intercourse (not love making generally) for hours. Believe me, they are all liars. Once you stop believing their lies, that is the first step to remedy.
Secondly, stay away from porn. At least for now until you master the art of mind control.
At this point you might wonder - "What is the correlation between my quick ejaculation, listening to the lies of men about their sexual prowess, and watching porn.?"
It's simple: "Power of your subconscious mind"
Porn makes you think that you should have sex like the men you watch. That you should last long like they do. It alters your brain and increases your expectation. This way, you place a lot of pressure on your self. And each time you want to get down with it, you remember the memories of porn and how long those men last. Then you get scared you might not be able to last that long. You become nervous.
Immediately your brain receives this signal and after just 10 thrusts, you begin to feel like it's coming. Lol.
This also happens when you believe that your friends last for hours non stop. It all puts you under intense pressure to perform. And when you are under such pressure, you cannot help but cum in a few.
Relief yourself of the pressure and understand that humans aren't meant to spend the whole day having sex. It should be over in minutes, not hours.
Again, always remember, whatever you feed your mind, is what your mind feeds you. It's garbage in, garbage out.
Exercise a lot. Eat lots of fruits, especially banana, water melon, and cucumber. Very importantly, always start slow. Do not make the mistake of immediately fixing your mamber into her kpekus after some minutes of pre-intimacy with your first boner. Allow your mamber to rise and fall severally, this way, you reduce the tension and pull back the already close sperm.
Start by taking shallow thrusts, slowly, and gently. I know she might want you to go harder, but don't fall for it. Tell her you want to be in control. After 30 thrusts, change position (very important as it helps you cool off for a while), then you can increase your pace a little. And so on. Before you know it, you would have lasted 10 minutes without drugs or alcohol.
Finally like I said earlier, master the art of mind control. That's the ultimate.
Don't worry, it's just for a while. It happened to every man at one point in their life. So don't fret. It's not just you, 60% of men are suffering the same, but they don't have the balls to come out for solution like you just did.
PS: You can download this wonderful piece by Joseph Murphy: The Power of Your Subconscious Mind.
It will help you in so many areas of your life, not just sex.
Good Luck bruv.
|Re: Pls How Can I Last Long by JasonScoolari: 11:04am On Apr 12|
Guymant:Let her also play a part in the process. Nor be only you dey furck. Tell her to suck your nippples immediately you cum... That way, it will send enough message to the dick that it has to resume work immediately.
|Re: Pls How Can I Last Long by Guymant: 11:58am On Apr 12|
FootballAnalyst:Thanks brother I appreciate you alot
|Re: Pls How Can I Last Long by knockturnal(m): 12:32pm On Apr 12|
Brother, a lot of guys have made good suggestions but let me add small.
Firstly you have to learn how to enjoy sex Without enjoying sex. Mind control! Science have shown that a man can go from point zero to erection to ejaculation in just 7 seconds. If you start thinking about sex the second your girl calls that she is coming over, and your brain is wrapped around how u ll be thrusting into her the moment she walks through the door then u have a problem. Even during the act, you should try to take your mind off all the estatic signals your nerves endings are firing at your brain. As a trick, focus on your girl, study her reactions to your moves, make pleasing her your priority, pause(with style) if you are gonna blow your load early and before you know it you ll not be an idomie man any longer.
Secondly experience counts, if you are young and still new to the whole sex thing, you may not be able to control yourself because you have very 'few fights under your belt'. With time and experience, you should get better.
Thirdly, I would like to disagree with the other poster who said watching porn is a bad idea. Since you can't go around fvckng every oloshoo out there, porn is a good way to gain a bit of the experience I talked about earlier.There are some good porn sites when you can get quality films, not the hardcore shut. If you don't abuse it, it's a good way to get a second hand view of how the whole sex act is carried out and enjoyed.
On a side note, I don't need drugs to enable me perform better, but I have found out from personal experience that I last much more longer when I take about 2 bottles of Legend especially or any other stout.If you take alcohol, you can give it a go as a last resort. If you don't then don't try it cos you ll just pass out before you finish unhooking her bra.
I have developed my own 'strategy' for lasting long while satisfying my woman over time and I hope u can get your too cos the success of any relationship is mostly dependent on what goes on in the bedroom. If all else fails, please think about seeking professional help. Avoid all these read side treatments else you John becomes flaccid. Good luck bro.
|Re: Pls How Can I Last Long by luke55720: 12:35pm On Apr 12|
i think the best thing you will do to cure pe permanently is to buy ilegendd book called lasticles
|Re: Pls How Can I Last Long by Johnsonifeoluwa(m): 12:46pm On Apr 12|
Am also intrested please your contact
|Re: Pls How Can I Last Long by Efewestern: 2:21pm On Apr 12|
Lol, Jason tha boss, your woman is lucky to have you, my regards to her.
|Re: Pls How Can I Last Long by JasonScoolari: 2:22pm On Apr 12|
Efewestern:She will see it Oniovò.
|Re: Pls How Can I Last Long by Tallesty1(m): 2:22pm On Apr 12|
Guymant:And you believed them?
|Re: Pls How Can I Last Long by ChatDicted(f): 3:25pm On Apr 12|
Guymant:I'm only going to talk to you once, so listen like your life depends on it.
Question: Do you want a permanent solution or a temporary solution.
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|Re: Pls How Can I Last Long by clive2u(m): 3:30pm On Apr 12|
bro when u cum just sleep, u no owe any lady 2hours of sex
|Re: Pls How Can I Last Long by marvin906(m): 3:43pm On Apr 12|
try controlling your mind during sex..
if that poo doesn't work take two bottles of stuot like 30mins or an hour before sex and fire away you can also try this when you are about to cum withdraw and press your dick cap painful for like 10secs or more count it this one works alot
|Re: Pls How Can I Last Long by Prymexxx: 3:58pm On Apr 12|
Eat enough fresh onions and groundnut. Take blood capsule and do (pelvic) exercise. Take one sachet of action bitter. Wait for some hours, brush your teeth/tongue to avoid irritating smell during kissing. Take cold shower. Don't allow your babe touch your breast/nipples during the action. Get your mind off the sexual act and think of other things during the sex. Always change sex positions and get your dick off the wetted pussy whenever you are about to cum. Wait for few minutes while caressing and kissing your babe before inserting again. Try it and appreciate me later. Good luck!
|Re: Pls How Can I Last Long by ogashman(m): 4:26pm On Apr 12|
I was once like u.back in the day I did go one uncompleted round and could not go any further. Most times I spill in a minute. But all these changed when I discovered that the mind play an important role during sex.
What u imagine during the match could actually make or mar the game.
So what did I do?
I stopped thinking abt sex during sex.often during the game I replay any horror movie I have watched In my head and as such I could go for 40minutes or more unhindered.
So try getting ur mind off sex during the game. U can also try eating bitter cola an hour before the show.it helps.
|Re: Pls How Can I Last Long by osuofia2(m): 4:27pm On Apr 12|
guy dont mind your friends, a lot of guys make boast of their sexual prowess but in the real sense na reverse be the case.
people wey sabi nak no de loud am
|Re: Pls How Can I Last Long by blaze2cool(m): 4:41pm On Apr 12|
OP food way sweet na money kill am
Go and buy yourself VigRX Plus you can check Jumia for price.
Buy and take for 2-3 months your problem is solved.
No side effects it's just like a supplement
Mind you fake ones full everywhere o
If it's not VigRX plus don't buy
|Re: Pls How Can I Last Long by Reprobate: 6:15pm On Apr 12|
|Re: Pls How Can I Last Long by lilmax(m): 7:54pm On Apr 12|
|Re: Pls How Can I Last Long by HendrixxAmadi(m): 9:16pm On Apr 12|
Guymant:use kola kalagbo thank me later
|Re: Pls How Can I Last Long by hunterezi(m): 6:39am On Apr 15|
how effective is this and what's the side effect?
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