how can i choose between three girls,
they are all beautiful and nice.
plzzzzzzzzzzz help

1: she been dey cock food for me 4 skool and respect my friends
2: she like me and give me advise but she is alway busy.
3: she like me and i like her but deferent faith and she give me her time when i am around but
she hardly call me on phone i always do the calling.

no information, how you want make we help you?

i guess this could help, all the beauty wey you dey see go fade,

hope it helps you choose.

My dear, the english man will call it "a list of priority"

Make one,

Who do you really love most out of the three, you cannot love two people the same you know?
what is it you need/want most in a girl, which of them bears those quality(ies)
which of the girl do you see standing out the length of time?
Which of them do you see making a better wife?

Dearie, take your time and think things through. Maybe take some space from them so your judgement don't get clouded, then spend some time with all three equally to see who has that "little extra" you want in a woman Cos they all sound like three different people.

Do not let someone else make the decision for you Cos your priority and likes might not be somone else's and you'll rather live regretting and building up your own mistakes and choices than someone else's.

You should take your decision in good time, and gently let the rest two go so they don't get their hopes high and be rejected in a bad time , When you've taken your decisions, live and stand by it. Nothing and nobody is perfect, and you couldn't have married all three or . . ?

And maybe, just maybe you're yet to come across your soulmate , one step at a time hun!!

Why are you sounding as if you're a kid?

You are the one who's dating them, so you should know which one of them loves you the most.
it isn't something you should worry yourself over.

you are the one playing the games, so i'd say, finish what you've started

you make up your own mind my guy, you are the man in the relationship, Just pray ot God to show you which want be your wife abeg. Na praya o

anifel20:

you make up your own mind my guy, you are the man in the relationship, Just pray ot God to show you which want be your wife abeg. Na praya o

men i been they pray but yet as if there lone is incresing equally.
dont know what to do

Its not strange but such things happen. I had a dilemma like this once, 2 guys in love with me very nice etc and guess what? i ended up with none of them.They were both wrong for me. These three women may all be wrong for you depending on your priorities. What is it you really want in a relationship? is it food, then stick with the cook, good adviser, etc. Give it time its not a biggy, time would tell at least thats what worked for me. In due time they would show themselves. But pls, dont have any intimate relationship with any of them o!!! it will complicate things. Someone will be hurt at the end of the day. Just be straight so you can reason with your head and not your BALLS even if you have slept with any of them before, stop now its not too late.

bebe2007:

But please, don't have any intimate relationship with any of them o!!! it will complicate things.  

it allraedy intimate

i guess u r a lucky guy

Its already intimate!! my goodness you are one randy guy. How can you be sleeping with three people at the same time. Thats really DIRTY. You need HELP!!! my advice is completely irrelevant now cuz i dont know what to tell you. You are hurting those girls if you do not know, know it now. You guys always think sleeping with a girl is just a physical thing. Honey, its not so for us. Its 100% emotional. We only pretend that we do not care or send, we are having fun as the guys are. The truth is, it hurts like mad. Put your selfish self in their shoes and see how it fits. REPENT MY BROTHER REPENT!!!!

@bebe2007

darling u deserve a hug for this ur post
Excellent.

hahaha, @nurexg, god don butter ur bread finish, u sound like a kid in a candy shop.

ol' boy, there is defintely one of them that u 'enjoy' more than the others. or one u feel most comfortable with. So take some time away from all 3, and do some soul-searching, u'll find ur answer has been there all along, and u've just been complicating it, maybe because the one u prefer is least pretty?

which one is soooooooooo badddddddd behind closed down?

then ama decide

@BEBE2007
IT DOES NOT MEANS THAT I AM SLEEPING WIT THEM OKAY,

HOPE YOU GET MY DEAR.

MY DEAR IS JUST THAT I GAVE EACH OF THEM MY TIME. I CARE 4 THEM.

OR IS IT A CRIME TO CARE FOR SOME ONE. THING ABOUT IT BABY.

Omo, d way u dey yarn sef e come be like playboy, kai, im almost inclined to not feel for u ohh, see as u don dey call BEBE, baby, and b4 u say it, i know her name means 'baby' but d way u 'smooth talk am' again, hmmmm

@luxoire
is it a crime to call some one that want to help u baby?

well it depend on how u view it.

well is nothing my dear. just view it as normal word okay

@luxoire,

U are one funny sista!

@poster,
when i said intimate i meant sex. Sorry i misunderstood yours ok. So you are just giving them time and affection!!! omo u are enjoying the whole attention. Please do yourself a favour, decide soonest so that you do not get to have SEX with the three of them ok.

@nurex
hmmm only 'smooth talkers' dey call babes BABY so freely ohh!, because their are used to it now, wen dem go dey toss 3 girls at once, no de want mistake dia names, na so dem go dey call all of them and everyone else 'baby'

sha, maybe me and u view it differently, but remember im a babe, ur a guy, im at d recieving end, so i know d kind of ppl that usually call me baby, when they dont even know ME, sha maybe ur an exception ([size=8pt]yeah right! )

@bebe
im only saying it as i see it, abi u no feel me?

@bebe2007
the problem is how can i decide
plz dear any clue.

@luxoire

yeah i guess u view it from different angle dear, so when ever i call u baby plz dont be offended. okay

its true its ur call but going by the list of qualities you gave of ur girls i think you shd choose No 1.

INFACT @NUREX i shall be far from offended

@Gemini II

bros you no go understand,
if you just think of the good time you with one of them, men you will always feel like being with her 4eva. but guy i dont want to hurt any one of them.

how i wish i can split my self into three, that will be perfect. don't u thing.

@luxoire

you know i like the way u respond to it, well tnx

but i must say you sound like one of them easy to understand i mean you understand things easily well tnx 4 that. plz i am not a playa okay. just citing an example so that u can feel how i really fell rite now.

@nurex, trhnk u, eyahh sorry oh, no worry sha, me when open forum here, say i need una help/opinion, nobody no offer me help, hahaha, i just laugh say i go full through somehow, u'll be alright hun, just go with what ur heart decides and if ur heart aint deciding nothin' then stay away from all of them (cos u aint a playa), otherwise if they find out,, they might feel played and hurt -even though that was not ur intention

@luxoire
thanks dear

@nurexg and @luxoire,

How are you guys? sorry i left just like that yesterday. Na work cuz am.  Have you picked someone now?


@ Nurexg, u said one cooks, the other gives advise, the third i wouldnt consider if i were you cuz of the difference in religion or how you check am?

As for the cook, it depends o! if na food go bring happiness to you then go ahead but i prefer the one that gives advise find out why she is very busy, is it work or anorther guy? if its work then its no problem. She is hard working she wouldnt be a liability on you. Besides you too will be busy working so that would be a perfect match. It seems she is the sensible one amongst them i guess. Na so i c am o!

@bebe2007
hello dear how are hope you are ok?
well tanks for the suggestion, i like your comment but you know love knows no boundary, you can fall in love with HINDU, MUSLIM, CHRISTIAN etc. i can just 4get her like that u know.
but i no it plays a very important role in marriage. well 4 the one u suggest, i will thing about it and pray 4 it okay. but as i said is not easy. to me they are equal though i know there is no how they can be equal? when you are with one you feel like being with her forever? woo

atimes i said why me? when i am along.

i must confess that i have been carried away by there beauty and kindness.

!

ur welcome, @nurex

@luxoire
i guess u most be a nice person, plz could you give me ur ID?

@ne4real, thank u hun. next time ur online, holla, i go giff u. BTW it takes a nice person to recognise another one

@BEBE, i 4give for running off yesterday like dat, lol, sha hope ur well though, no mind me

@Nurex, actually, when u do make ur decision, plz let me know which one u choose, NUMBER 1/2/3?? just interested.