I won't even think of the first option, what if the"unknown donor" has some deadly inheritable disease in his family lineage, maybe madness after 40 years or something like that
As per the 2nd option, mba, what if the so called old acquaintance now wake up one morning and begin to claim the child or what if the child now looks like him so much, or are we going to pay him to forget his baby forever?
the third option, I think, I can only do that if it were to be a movie, not in real life, what will I tell the child in future, as a christian, will i lie to my child from the beginning of his life till the end, no way, so i will tell my son that his uncle is his father, while is "FATHER" is just my husband, I have my pride and ego, can't do that
The only option I can actually think of is the 4th one, if we are really financially okay, we can relocate and later after a year, come back to our  base.
Or better still, we can decide not to come back again.

But to be frank, advices are easier given than taken,May God in his infinite mercy lookdown upon the couple and make their joy full, that is my prayer,

@afrobaby, the health records of the donor are usually looked into before donation~

afrobaby:

I won't even think of the first option, what if the"unknown donor" has some deadly inheritable disease in his family lineage, maybe madness after 40 years or something like that
As per the 2nd option, mba, what if the so called old acquaintance now wake up one morning and begin to claim the child or what if the child now looks like him so much, or are we going to pay him to forget his baby forever?
the third option, I think, I can only do that if it were to be a movie, not in real life, what will I tell the child in future, as a christian, will i lie to my child from the beginning of his life till the end, no way, so i will tell my son that his uncle is his father, while is "FATHER" is just my husband, I have my pride and ego, can't do that
The only option I can actually think of is the 4th one, if we are really financially okay, we can relocate and later after a year, come back to our base.
Or better still, we can decide not to come back again.

But to be frank, advices are easier given than taken,May God in his infinite mercy lookdown upon the couple and make their joy full, that is my prayer,

Afrom babe i have always respected your view and intelligence.

No more fights
I am watching youuuuuuuu

jay bee:

No more fights
I am watching youuuuuuuu

you are damn fast
thank gwad i was quick   i just read the insultive bombs by both parties

google dear keep it cool try use the invisible ignore button

jay bee:

No more fights
I am watching youuuuuuuu

jay bee you know we always respect your view and opionion, everything is ok.

@jaybee
why nah?

i was about quoting googles last post,ya know the area where she dropped the atomic bomb

she killed it!!!!

aiit no more insult i think i have read enuff

i was enjoying my sermon. . . . mehn i know how to spread the good news o

Mobo repent before its too late

God loves you My Dear BLACK WOMAN 

y me:

@jaybee
why nah?

i was about quoting googles last post,ya know the area where she dropped the atomic bomb

she killed it!!!!

aiit no more insult i think i have read enuff

Jaybee does like the way i preach the good news

am sorry jaybee

MOBO444:

Look they better find a solution to all this talk, they have to be quick and fast.

That is what made me to post this thread. I already promised them that my FRIENDS will sort this out.

afrobaby:

I won't even think of the first option, what if the"unknown donor" has some deadly inheritable disease in his family lineage, maybe madness after 40 years or something like that
As per the 2nd option, mba, what if the so called old acquaintance now wake up one morning and begin to claim the child or what if the child now looks like him so much, or are we going to pay him to forget his baby forever?
the third option, I think, I can only do that if it were to be a movie, not in real life, what will I tell the child in future, as a christian, will i lie to my child from the beginning of his life till the end, no way, so i will tell my son[b] that his uncle is his father, while is "FATHER" is just my husband[/b], I have my pride and ego, can't do that
The only option I can actually think of is the 4th one, if we are really financially okay, we can relocate and later after a year, come back to our  base.
Or better still, we can decide not to come back again.

But to be frank, advices are easier given than taken,May God in his infinite mercy lookdown upon the couple and make their joy full, that is my prayer,

Thanks for this because you just enlighten some people about the facts of life.

Omolola1:

@afrobaby, the health records of the donor are usually looked into before donation~

How much records do we keep in this part of Africa? And how safe is this option?

MOBO444:

Afrom babe i have always respected your view and intelligence.

Ori mi n wu o, meaning my head dey swell, i dey feel like obama, lolThanks for the comment

What is actually wrong with option 2 & 3?

As far as am concern both are the same to option 1.

the first two are direct transfer of semen to the woman from a known person
the last is still a transfer of semen but from a faceless man who sold his life producing fluid for a peanut.

Is the woman going to announce to the old friend/the hubby brother why she is sleeping with them?

all those talking about option 1& 4 forgot that both cost big money. are we sure the family can afford them.

In a time lie this the best option is none of the above
P R A Y E R seems the only way out.
it may take long but you can be sure they will get thru when God is ready for them.

I'l advise the couple to go for nuber 4 (adopt) while still praying for a child.