Now I want guys to take a decision on this matter cos guys do complain that girls play hard-to-get and at the same time complain when they come easily. What do you guys want these girls to do? So guys, do you want a girl to fall easily in your hands or do you prefer to sweat blood before you get a girl? Tell the girls now let them know which game to play.

you have to be more precise about what you mean.
easy/hard to get in your bed OR easy/hard to get in dating. . . . . . . . . . . . . .  big difference!

when out on the pull or simply looking to have some fun in the sack then they should be fairly easy but not TOO easy. "too easy" are dangerous because you may think they have ulterior motives i.e. trying to offload their killa disease! (cant be too careful, even with condoms).
example of "too" easy:
YOU: hi there
GAL: hi
YOU: lets go and fukc?
GAL: ok

when looking for a GF/future baby mama then the sky is the limit BUT the important point about it all is that: if the gal wants to wait because she is uncertain about the guy's "intentions" then fair enough but just cock-blocking you for NO APPARENT reason, while she goes dreaming about you is wrong. if the gal feels ready then there is no reason to play hard to get in order to look like someone she is not because, if we realize she does, she will lose value in our eyes faster than the naira!

Normally, girls are supposed to play hard to get

^^^Please dont start with that hard to get talk, well all know they cheap, Black women very cheap.

Omolola1:

Normally, girls are supposed to play hard to get

supposed to?!
please, can you tell us exactly why?! or are you doing it for no plausible reason, just because all your friends are doing it?!

Nope! that's how it is generally in Naija. Personally, i dont play hard to get, if i like u, i wuld tell u~

Mrbrownjay I mean the dating aspect.

yeah some of the girls that play hard to get are the ones that are easy to get.Guys at time know most of thier tricks and blend with them.I mean when a guy that have lot of experience get in touch with them.

In my expirience, most girls who are hard to get end up being boring in a relationship.
But the easy girls i have had, are actually a whole package. . . . . . . More like a differential equation with 10 variables. That's the kind of woman i like. . . . . Easy to get, Hard to keep.
It keeps me on my toes n makes me work hard

i dont think so
it depends on how you meet such girl the girls dont want to be hard to get any more
because of shortage of males in supply just use the right approach

I love Yang's post. Totally made sense.

[size=13pt]hard to get?does it mean dat d relationship is gonna be a successful one?so y waste d guy`s time.playing hard to get annoy most guys cos d girls give d guys d impression dat they possess something that the guys have never had in their lives.when they eventually taste the thing and discovers that the `thing ` is not so different from the rest,na fukkk up na.[/size]

yang:

In my expirience, most girls who are hard to get end up being boring in a relationship.
But the easy girls i have had, are actually a whole package. . . . . . . More like a differential equation with 10 variables. That's the kind of woman i like. . . . .[b] Easy to get, Hard to keep.
It keeps me on my toes n makes me work hard[/b]

Just the Phrase i was looking for.

yang:

In my expirience, most girls who are hard to get end up being boring in a relationship.
But the easy girls i have had, are actually a whole package. . . . . . . More like a differential equation with 10 variables. That's the kind of woman i like. . . . . Easy to get, Hard to keep.
It keeps me on my toes n makes me work hard

Take a hand shake.

It all depends on different circumstances, but I like me ladies ' not to easy and @ d same time not to hard' ,

Hard to get? are guys still approaching girls up to 1month without green-light yet these days? thats not my thing at all, besides is it mandatory girls must copy what ur friends nd sisters are doing ni?

I don't approach girls like that twice in my life and anytime i see her again "i go bone like say i neva talk am b4 nd  i no go ever approach am again" at d end u will find out that they're the one trippin 4u so why must u form first?  
Easy ladies are my favorite, with my second approach to girls like these i should be expectin some green-light but some stup1d 9ja guys needs to get their mind right cos when easy girls fall for them they'll take her for granted like she's too cheap nd so on. . . . . I've been doing good with easy girls lately no hard to get in my own life.

Omolola1:

Normally, girls are supposed to play hard to get

GBAM

@op

I like em hard to get but in a reasonable formula. I don't so much appreciate the easy getting ones, Who know how many guys they might have been easy for,

Omolola1:

Normally, girls are supposed to play hard to get

hey lola, its not normal. why running frm someone u'll eventually hop for. Av seen cases of deliberate playing hard to get meanwhile, meant d opposite, its was too late to go back, her story was "MY RUNAWAY BOYFRIEND", His story was " THE WIFE I NEVA MARRIED". They still see each other till date despite both being married!!!!!