In our society today, women seem to be the ones seeking for total abstinence in relationship until marriage takes place. They are quick to suggest that their male partners be patient with getting intimate with them before marriage. How do men see this? Are the men also suggesting that their female partners keep intimacy aside until they are married... https://nibernet.com/question/do-men-initiate-no-sex-relationships-until-after-marriage/

Dead on arrival...

Hmmmm...& if there's no sexual compatibility, what should be done?
I don't think it's something I can/could do, personally. Sex is not everything, but intimacy is one of the major cornerstones that keep a relationship together long-term. If the connection is so-so, there's a chance one might search for it elsewhere during the marriage, who wants to go through life unfulfilled?