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5yrs Old In A Boarding School by Preciouschinwe(f): 4:17pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
Iam so confused right now, my husband wants to send our 5 years old son to a boarding school which I refused, pls has any one here done it before and how was the experience |
Re: 5yrs Old In A Boarding School by SpyAC(m): 4:30pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
Beautiful, it will hlp u tone meaningful to urslf |
Re: 5yrs Old In A Boarding School by Preciouschinwe(f): 4:33pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
SpyAC:. Am scared cos he is just a child 2 Likes |
Re: 5yrs Old In A Boarding School by czarina(f): 4:35pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
Preciouschinwe:What were his reasons? |
Re: 5yrs Old In A Boarding School by Preciouschinwe(f): 4:40pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
czarina:his reason is that the school is the best school around us |
Re: 5yrs Old In A Boarding School by SpyAC(m): 4:41pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
Preciouschinwe:u dnt hv to be, is for good u knw, support him and always chook ur eyes on de boy |
Re: 5yrs Old In A Boarding School by Preciouschinwe(f): 4:43pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
SpyAC:. thanks |
Re: 5yrs Old In A Boarding School by mine85(m): 4:51pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
This is totally wrong. 5 years, unacceptable. Pls, train your child... that same school may have day students... let him go daily.... don't lose your son so early 30 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 5yrs Old In A Boarding School by czarina(f): 4:56pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
Preciouschinwe:That's not a good reason. A five year old can even be homeschooled if you do not trust the standards around. I don't know though, but if I were you, I no go "gree" 13 Likes |
Re: 5yrs Old In A Boarding School by Preciouschinwe(f): 4:59pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
czarina:that is exactly My point thanks so much for your contributions 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 5yrs Old In A Boarding School by Tallesty1(m): 5:03pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
Kids of these days don't enjoy being kids at all. Two years out of the belly and they're already in school and the girls are being dressed like adults 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 5yrs Old In A Boarding School by Nobody: 5:11pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
Preciouschinwe: That might do detrimental damage on your child emotionally. No, 5 is too young. A child under 16 is still developing and should not be independent. You are exposing your son to sexual violence as well. You might as well send the child to prison. I'm really sorry for being so blunt but this triggered my emotions sis. 18 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: 5yrs Old In A Boarding School by Preciouschinwe(f): 5:19pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
Guest007:am so greatful that you are being blunt dear. besides I was only trying to hear people's opinion. before I go come stand my ground gidigbam. |
Re: 5yrs Old In A Boarding School by Preciouschinwe(f): 5:22pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
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Re: 5yrs Old In A Boarding School by Mizwisdom(f): 5:25pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
I had a friend who went to boarding school at six, she liked it a lot |
Re: 5yrs Old In A Boarding School by Nobody: 5:29pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
Preciouschinwe: Madam, I've taught in a school where a 4 years old boy was a boarder. In all honesty, DON'T TRY IT! Raise your child, please. Even if he doesn't get corrupted, there will be no bond or affection between him and you both, his parents. You will hate yourself if that child can live without you at his young age. Leave best school around, even people who went to public school make it in life. That school is not the ultimate. 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 5yrs Old In A Boarding School by Nobody: 5:31pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
Preciouschinwe: Stand firm sweetie, the boy is still in mummy time, you have a lot to teach him until then. At least get him prepared... when he's double digits maybe but single digits need their mummy at night. I've met some successful psychos, functional sociopaths babe, and it's because their mama never hugged them enough *God forbid* 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 5yrs Old In A Boarding School by Nobody: 5:32pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
Mizwisdom: It's a boy... I'm sure the experiences ain't the same... Who cares about lil boys but their mama? |
Re: 5yrs Old In A Boarding School by Pavore9: 5:37pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
It is so wrong, why should your husband feel it is okay to outsource nurturing role that is the responsibility of you both at this stage of his life. 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 5yrs Old In A Boarding School by dirtycoin(m): 6:49pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
Preciouschinwe: Is he really the biological father of the 5 years old boy? It beats my imagination on why a man will even entertain the idea of sending his 5 years old son to a boarding school. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 5yrs Old In A Boarding School by Godmother(f): 8:37pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
Preciouschinwe: This is outrageous! What would a 5-year-old be doing alone in a boarding school all alone? Plus there are too many things happening in boarding schools these days; from homosexuality to witchcraft and all. Please, don't expose your little child to that school. He is too young to know how to guard himself against the vices there. 6 Likes |
Re: 5yrs Old In A Boarding School by SmartMen: 9:12pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
I am sorry to say your husband lacks what it takes to be a good parent. I keep saying it that over 70% of Nigerians have no business birthing children. 5 years old? In boarding? Its seems he wants to do it for bragging right! Pathetic! I no get energy to talk. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 5yrs Old In A Boarding School by comtem2011: 9:27pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
Guest007:You have said it all. The truth is bitter. 2 Likes |
Re: 5yrs Old In A Boarding School by comtem2011: 9:28pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
Preciouschinwe:please, stand your ground. 1 Like |
Re: 5yrs Old In A Boarding School by tenmariner: 10:51pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
5 years old is just too small to enrol into a boarding. Its not as if he is an orphan. Its a capital letter NO for me. 1 Like |
Re: 5yrs Old In A Boarding School by Nobody: 12:42am On Apr 24, 2019 |
He is still young. He needs to understand that between 1-10yrs is when a child character forms..Sending the child to boarding school so early isn't good at all. There is need for bonding, spiritual, etc between you and the child. Going there now means that his character will be influenced by teachers and peers. 2 Likes |
Re: 5yrs Old In A Boarding School by Trickstreat: 3:17am On Apr 24, 2019 |
A 5 year old needs parental love especially from the mom. How will you even cope with the thought of ur baby out there at that age? 1 Like |
Re: 5yrs Old In A Boarding School by Preciouschinwe(f): 12:15pm On Apr 24, 2019 |
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Re: 5yrs Old In A Boarding School by Preciouschinwe(f): 12:21pm On Apr 24, 2019 |
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Re: 5yrs Old In A Boarding School by Preciouschinwe(f): 12:42pm On Apr 24, 2019 |
First of all I want to say a big thank you, to every one here.secondly, My husband love's his kids,he only wants the best for them(only that the boarding school suggestion was a big mistake).And lastly I had a talk with him last night about the issue, which he saw reasons with me and he finally agreed that none of his kids will attend a boarding school.so am saying a big thank you to every one again because : I almost gave up 20 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: 5yrs Old In A Boarding School by comtem2011: 2:43pm On Apr 24, 2019 |
Preciouschinwe:I am happy for you o madam. Congrats |
Re: 5yrs Old In A Boarding School by dedoz: 6:55pm On Apr 24, 2019 |
Its good you stood against sending him to a boarding school at such a tender age and your husband has agreed.It remains the very best decision.Wishing you the best as you raise your kids. 3 Likes |
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