truthsayer009:


I am not a typical African man, so no. Submission doesn't come by who has the most amount of money. If you love me enough , you will naturally respect me.

It means if i lose my job or become less richer than you in the future, you would still be submissive because money wasnt what made you submissive in the first place.

Good point, typical African man will never ask cos of self respect and ego, hence my previous comment.

pansophist:


You're equating that men who need independent woman are leeches, which is wrong. Women also want independent men, do you apply the same judgement to them also? Her premise is a double standard.

Hoe are women and men ever biologically and socially equipped to be the same?

OgbanjeProphet:
Shut up madam!

E be like say too much anal sex don dey affect your reasoning.

Don't you date independent men? Don't you eat their food, bath with their water and even suck their cassava for free?

Don't mind the _bitch.

Na sense of entitlement dey worry all of them.

These _bitches think they are entitled to everything a man's got but no man should be entitled to anything they have.

What type of bad logic is that actually?

Ikillfools:
Hoe are women and men ever biologically and socially equipped to be the same?

I never said they were.

Biglittlelois:


Good point, typical African man will never ask cos of self respect and ego, hence my previous comment.

Yeah maybe sha. I have come to notice that Men who ask do better than those who don't

pansophist:


I never said they were.

Good, so why would a man go out of his way to see out an independent woman for relationship? Isn't that a form of mental laziness and opportunism?

Nairalanders pls I am in need of urgent help my landlord is about chasing me out of house because of none payment of house rent of 80k l need an urgent help now.,...0016352447 access bank

Brainless made up monkey

Ikillfools:


She's right!

If you're a man and crave independent women, you aren't only a shameless, low-level thief, you're also genetically malformed and a sorry , pathetic excuse for a man.

No matter how time flies, men are biologically equipped to hustle better than women.

Don't be a victim of contemporary culture.

Your views. Not mine.

Brock1:


How did she acquire Her wealth? Via men in one way or d other?!

Thank you!! I was going to make that point but didn't want to write an epistle.

I challenge these selfish arrogant feminists to show me one single independent woman that made it without the help of a man.

Ikillfools:


Good, so why would a man go out of his way to see out an independent woman for relationship? Isn't that a form of mental laziness and opportunism?

Again, you're making the same error over and over. Seeking an independent woman is not laziness or opportunism, or whatever. It is only when he financially depends on her, it becomes such. It's not a black and white thing, you're interpreting it restrictively. As an example, all the women I've dated are independent, in the sense that they have their own source of income, are not financially dependent on me, and our relationships are built, maintained and sustained in outside finances.

Doesn't seem uncomplicated to me.

GraGra247:
Fool!! Billons of women have been depending on independent men since creation and men hardly complain. Fast forward to the 21st century and for the first time few women have a chance to be independent and now a lot of noise from women on this matter.

Bunch of selfish ungrateful idiots.

Bro men complain a lot.
Where did Gold Digger come from?

GraGra247:


Your views. Not mine.

does your comment make any sense at all? You weren't quoted.

No one even ascribed the assertion to you.

Yet you reacted with "your views. Not mine."

What kind of lousy spotlight craving is this?

Hintona:
She's right

I know this insultive lady will support her.
Should I now be dating NFA ladies...

You ladies wan to date independent guy and you expect guy to date a dependent lady. That is a fraud.

People marry according to their level

pansophist:


Again, you're making the same error over and over. Seeking an independent woman is not laziness or opportunism, or whatever. It is only when he financially depends on her, it becomes such. It's not a black and white thing, you're interpreting it restrictively. As an example, all the women I've dated are independent, in the sense that they have their own source of income, are not financially dependent on me, and our relationships are built, maintained and sustained in outside finances.

Doesn't seem uncomplicated to me.

Omo men who seek out independent woman are lazy skanks.

Weather you depend on her income or not. Deeply underneath, you all are seeking out a woman where you won't need to be the man financially, where all you have to contribute is your dick.

Your type are rare In this modern days ..straight jacket talk

LordKO:


Look for your small-minded ilk elsewhere. A woman's ability to personally cater for her financial needs doesn't automatically make her an independent woman. She's simply a financially emancipated woman. Once more, there's nothing independent about an impressionable and venal woman or man.

Why are you getting worked up because your baseless ideas are being challenged?
You should take time to reflect before posting next time because not all
readers would tolerate bullshit.

Of course, your likes may fool you into believing the merit of your post
but that isn't really a feat when most of your audience is adolescent and young men.

Again, you can't change a word's meaning to pass a point, you will only fool the dumb.

Gforce2019:


I know this insultive lady will support her.
Should I now be dating NFA ladies...

You ladies wan to date independent guy and you expect guy to date a dependent lady. That is a fraud.

People marry according to their level

Hold it
Am not the reason for your frustration this evening
Besides what's NFA?

MissRaine69:
The type of warped feminism I abhor. This is what crazy looks like ....what have “independent” men been doing all these years?
I bet her “independence” happened because of a man, cause women who do graft are independently independent and don’t try to justify anything.

Always showing your misogynistic side at every opportunity.

She sounds like an illiterate. What’s wrong with dating an independent woman?

This empty-head is not an independent woman so I see no reason for her rant.

Ikillfools:


She's right!

If you're a man and crave independent women, you aren't only a shameless, low-level thief, you're also genetically malformed and a sorry , pathetic excuse for a man.

No matter how time flies, men are biologically equipped to hustle better than women.

Don't be a victim of contemporary culture.

I'm sorry but I'll have to call you a fool for making this stupid, baseless claim.

jaxxy:
She sounds like an illiterate. What’s wrong with dating an independent woman?

She is not independent.
She probably got played by a "lover".

Vipdike:
Nairalanders pls I am in need of urgent help my landlord is about chasing me out of house because of none payment of house rent of 80k l need an urgent help now.,...0016352447 access bank

I smelled lies. ...

Orunmila, hear your child..is he talking true?

highcollide:
I'm sorry but I'll have to call you a fool for making this stupid, baseless claim.

you're inherently disadvantaged to argue logically and there's no remedy for you


You're what we call " Victim of the times".

Hintona:

Hold it
Am not the reason for your frustration this evening
Besides what's NFA?

You are too abusive. I pity you husband

Ikillfools:
you're inherently disadvantaged to argue logically and there's no remedy for you


You're wnah we call " Victim of the times".

No, you're the illogical one here. Making a claim with no backing. Tell me, do you have The blueprint for the human body? Where you present during the creation of Man to know that man was wired to hustle more than women?


You're daft Mr man.

SugarMuffin:
So what do we call a woman that claims to love an independent guy? She's just a woman, right? And she needs to be treated right?
Some people will open their phone and come online to type rubbish without thinking at all why can't a lady be independent? What's wrong in working her ass off to pay her bills instead of waiting for one man to settle them for her? And at the end of everything now, it is only sex people like her can offer their man, nothing than opening their legs like a dog to please the man, the way some women reason these days pisses me off, why can't a man love an independent lady? And if such guy dump them because they were too materialistic, they will start forming one foolish feminist that men are scum. I'm sure some people are seeing this one as their mentor and role model oo

While her idea is wrong, she has a right to air them.
Women in relationship offer more than sex even if she is worth zero Naira.

The idea of seeing people's worth through the lens of money is damaging to societal peace and cohesion.

Nobody has to offer any particular thing in a relationship, if their partner thinks otherwise, they should break
up and look elsewhere instead of being judgmental brats with big flaws of their own.