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Please How Do I Convince My Friend About His Decision!!! by Wizywiz(m): 9:40am On Apr 28, 2019
Goodmorning all...happy sunday to you all..

Pls how do i convince my friend to desist from his intending action.

My friend confided in me not to tell his wife...he wants to donate his kidney for his ex..who will be having kidney transplant in india by second weak of may...the said ex is a divorcee with 2kids...i believe he was still seeing her even while married..although he never told me about it. He said he wil divorce his wife..(both hav issues but still living togeda) that after d surgery if they both make it he will marry her and settle in another state...
Am confused as to why he will take such rash decision..i feel for d wife who has gone through a lot for him...even though d wife hasnt been able to give him a child..after 4yrs of marriage..
For d guys can u take up such risk and sacrifice?.
For the ladies what will u do if u are d wife and happen to find out?
Meanwhile he told me he will be traveling with her to lagos on thursday bfor the take off to india!!!
Re: Please How Do I Convince My Friend About His Decision!!! by acevic: 9:41am On Apr 28, 2019
This is by far one of the most twisted posts I've read on nairaland.

Unfortunately, there is little you can do to convince that man not to embark on such a potentially disastrous journey. He's hellbent on seeing that move through.

However, as a good friend that you are, let him know he's making a betrayal move. Be honest with him that he's not being fair to his wife and himself and might suffer the consequences eventually.

Something tells me he might be the father of the kids by his ex.

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Re: Please How Do I Convince My Friend About His Decision!!! by Nobody: 9:51am On Apr 28, 2019
Wizywiz:
Goodmorning all...happy sunday to you all..

Pls how do i convince my friend to desist from his intending action.

My friend confided in me not to tell his wife...he wants to donate his kidney for his ex..who will be having kidney transplant in india by second weak of may...the said ex is a divorcee with 2kids...i believe he was still seeing her even while married..although he never told me about it. He said he wil divorce his wife..(both hav issues but still living togeda) that after d surgery if they both make it he will marry her and settle in another state...
Am confused as to why he will take such rash decision..i feel for d wife who has gone through a lot for him...even though d wife hasnt been able to give him a child..after 4yrs of marriage..
For d guys can u take up such risk and sacrifice?.
For the ladies what will u do if u are d wife and happen to find out?
Meanwhile he told me he will be traveling with her to lagos on thursday bfor the take off to india!!!

Seems like he has checked out
Re: Please How Do I Convince My Friend About His Decision!!! by eneojoedu(m): 9:54am On Apr 28, 2019
just leave am by the time he is done donating the kidney, I can bet my balls the ex will dump him again right there at the hospital. fear women.

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Re: Please How Do I Convince My Friend About His Decision!!! by WhiZTiM(m): 9:54am On Apr 28, 2019
This one is strong and twisted ohh. shocked

Re: Please How Do I Convince My Friend About His Decision!!! by fawaz22(m): 9:56am On Apr 28, 2019
waiting for the elders....but from all indications the decision is stupid am sure the woman will rather marry the man sponsiring the sugery

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Re: Please How Do I Convince My Friend About His Decision!!! by Jayslicky: 9:59am On Apr 28, 2019
Tell your friend that he is a very stupid fellow, he is crazily mad, he has supernatural madness.
On a serious note, I advise you tell his wife about his plans, so she knows how to take the matter up with his family members, if the said ex was so loving to him, she wouldn't have allowed him to marry another woman, I know your friend is a carefree type and doesn't want to exhaust his energy on making his marriage work, marriage is about compromise, patience and faithfulness, ask him why he wants to divorce his wife and make him see reasons why he should try his possible best to try and make it work, no woman is perfect they have all got flaws, what his wife has his ex may lack and vice versa.

About his wife not been able to have children, they should try see a doctor examine them, you can never tell what the problem is, could just be that they haven't been taking the right steps in copulation.

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Re: Please How Do I Convince My Friend About His Decision!!! by Jayslicky: 10:01am On Apr 28, 2019
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Re: Please How Do I Convince My Friend About His Decision!!! by anochuko01(m): 10:02am On Apr 28, 2019
This is a complicated life here...
Re: Please How Do I Convince My Friend About His Decision!!! by iTearHerToto: 10:12am On Apr 28, 2019
even though d wife hasnt been able to give him a child..after 4yrs of marriage..

Ok so olosho aborted all the kids oluwa gave her those years she was hopping from one dccck to another. She killed all the 13 poor babies oluwa gave her and ended up with your unfortunate friend If I'm your friend I'll give out all my kidneys to my beloved ex (mother of my 2 kids). Some people are carelessly heartless. They don't deserve even 5naira chewing gum. They are horrible. They make me wanna puke angry

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Re: Please How Do I Convince My Friend About His Decision!!! by MrOjay1(m): 10:13am On Apr 28, 2019
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Re: Please How Do I Convince My Friend About His Decision!!! by Abfinest007(m): 10:27am On Apr 28, 2019
tell his wife bcus if something should go wrong after d donation d family/wife will not be happy with u n also advice ur friend
Re: Please How Do I Convince My Friend About His Decision!!! by shege45: 10:33am On Apr 28, 2019
Abfinest007:
tell his wife bcus if something should go wrong after d donation d family/wife will not be happy with u n also advice ur friend
y? Its his decision, he is an adult. He confided in his friend. Its his problem
Re: Please How Do I Convince My Friend About His Decision!!! by daddytime(m): 10:38am On Apr 28, 2019
My name is karma and I am gently seated on a corner...looking at your friend, shaking my head and feeling sorry for him.

By the time I'm done with him...we won't even find a house to come to...

Evil sissy guys all around us...
Re: Please How Do I Convince My Friend About His Decision!!! by Biglittlelois(f): 12:53pm On Apr 28, 2019
What manner of brain damaged man is this one abeg
Re: Please How Do I Convince My Friend About His Decision!!! by Nobody: 1:01pm On Apr 28, 2019
Tell your friend to be man enough to inform his wife of his plan. Let him set her free already. Just 4 yrs? and dude is already acting that way? He was never over his ex in the first place, he married the available one just for convenience.



Ladies please be wise, Be sure a man is completely healed and drained of romantic emotions for his ex before you say I do. Be wise! Don't be fooled by hurtful things he says about her.

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Re: Please How Do I Convince My Friend About His Decision!!! by Diamond23(f): 2:15pm On Apr 28, 2019
very very complicated...... he should just inform hz wife before embarking on any mission.Nd....errrhhhh,,,,,,,,,,

Re: Please How Do I Convince My Friend About His Decision!!! by placeofallure(f): 8:08pm On Apr 28, 2019
iTearHerToto:
even though d wife hasnt been able to give him a child..after 4yrs of marriage..

Ok so olosho aborted all the kids oluwa gave her those years she was hopping from one dccck to another. She killed all the 13 poor babies oluwa gave her and ended up with your unfortunate friend If I'm your friend I'll give out all my kidneys to my beloved ex (mother of my 2 kids). Some people are carelessly heartless. They don't deserve even 5naira chewing gum. They are horrible. They make me wanna puke angry

If the narrative above were to be a comprehension passage, that's how you would have failed woefully cos you lack basic comprehension skills.

*There was nowhere in the post that it was suggested or implied that the wife's infertility is as a result of multiple abortions or reckless living.

* It's also a mere speculation that the ex's two kids might belong to the man. The OP never even suggested this.

To this end I wonder what forms the basis of your comment. Or might be you're trying hard to be a troll? angry

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Re: Please How Do I Convince My Friend About His Decision!!! by ben2nice(m): 8:19pm On Apr 28, 2019
[quote author=placeofallure post=77936664]

If the narrative above were to be a comprehension passage, that's how you would have failed woefully cos you lack basic comprehension skills.

*There was nowhere in the post that it was suggested or implied that the wife's infertility is as a result of multiple abortions or reckless living.

* It's also a mere speculation that the ex's two kids might belong to the man. The OP never even suggested this.

To this end I wonder what forms the basis of your comment. Or might be you're trying hard to be a troll?

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Re: Please How Do I Convince My Friend About His Decision!!! by anthonyuncle(m): 8:50pm On Apr 28, 2019
dz ur friend neither loves himself nor those around him.
start preparing to bury him
Re: Please How Do I Convince My Friend About His Decision!!! by siegfried99(m): 9:12pm On Apr 28, 2019
Eleyi Gidi Gan
Re: Please How Do I Convince My Friend About His Decision!!! by aanuoluwami14(f): 9:19pm On Apr 28, 2019
It's better you inform his parents or any of his family.
Re: Please How Do I Convince My Friend About His Decision!!! by austine4real(m): 9:36pm On Apr 28, 2019
my mind is telling me that the ex just want to use him .

okafor law came to mind.


after surgery who would foot the bills??
Re: Please How Do I Convince My Friend About His Decision!!! by Nobody: 12:41am On Apr 29, 2019
MariaLavina:
Tell your friend to be man enough to inform his wife of his plan. Let him set her free already. Just 4 yrs? and dude is already acting that way? He was never over his ex in the first place, he married the available one just for convenience.



Ladies please be wise, Be sure a man is completely healed and drained of romantic emotions for his ex before you say I do. Be wise! Don't be fooled by hurtful things he says about her.
OP should just look for a way to kidnap him or do anything possible to stop him from traveling.
The man is not in his senses at the moment.
Re: Please How Do I Convince My Friend About His Decision!!! by Nobody: 2:11am On Apr 29, 2019
If you love your friend, confide in a policeman, give them money if necessary to fake a house arrest on him for awhile since you already know his travel plans and date. Again, it depends on how far you are willing to go for your friend.
Re: Please How Do I Convince My Friend About His Decision!!! by Wizywiz(m): 5:22am On Apr 29, 2019
eneojoedu:
just leave am by the time he is done donating the kidney, I can bet my balls the ex will dump him again right there at the hospital. fear women.
i pointed this out to him...but he told me they love each other and they hav made arrangement to hav a court marriage in lagos before travelinv
Re: Please How Do I Convince My Friend About His Decision!!! by Wizywiz(m): 5:24am On Apr 29, 2019
fawaz22:
waiting for the elders....but from all indications the decision is stupid am sure the woman will rather marry the man sponsiring the sugery
the womans family including him provided d fund...wonder y none of her family member agreed to donate der kidney for her
Re: Please How Do I Convince My Friend About His Decision!!! by Wizywiz(m): 5:28am On Apr 29, 2019
iTearHerToto:
even though d wife hasnt been able to give him a child..after 4yrs of marriage..

Ok so olosho aborted all the kids oluwa gave her those years she was hopping from one dccck to another. She killed all the 13 poor babies oluwa gave her and ended up with your unfortunate friend If I'm your friend I'll give out all my kidneys to my beloved ex (mother of my 2 kids). Some people are carelessly heartless. They don't deserve even 5naira chewing gum. They are horrible. They make me wanna puke angry
quite harsh on her...she is wonderful lady..although she is much more older than him with about 11years....the lady ex hubby is d father of d kids not my friend..
Re: Please How Do I Convince My Friend About His Decision!!! by J4JUVENTUS(m): 5:54am On Apr 29, 2019
Your friend has been JUJULISED. grin
Not his clear eyes now,but when he is back from Indian,thats if he survives it there,his eyes go clear.
Re: Please How Do I Convince My Friend About His Decision!!! by Goddys(m): 6:04am On Apr 29, 2019
I sensed a man whose drink was laced with the menstrual blood of his Ex.






The only person I can donate my kidney for is my child. Even my parents if in condition of kidney failure would not accept any of their child donates for them.

People must continue to die. Sometimes you need to let it happen. Death is part of life and not a bad thing
Re: Please How Do I Convince My Friend About His Decision!!! by Uyi168: 7:15am On Apr 29, 2019
It's not that complicated..
The man is still seeing the ex..
Intact he owns those two kids.. And since the one at home couldn't give birth, there is no need remaining in the marriage with her..
He's still in love with the ex and he's willing to do everything to have her back..


And pls do not tell the wife, he nor use am send u message.. wink

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