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Help. How Do I Tell Her I Am Not Into Her by kamtrix(m): 11:08am On May 06, 2019
please I need advice. I have this female friend who was actually once my boss at an organization but we both no longer work there . she is a little older than I am.
Recently we started meeting up frequently as we're in the same area, I've always suspected that she likes me but as we met more often she opened up and told me that she really likes me. I didn't think she was serious and I made a mistake and kept playing along andvnow she is so into me and wants to know what I'm up to always and even doesn't want to imagine me doing something unless it's with a girl. she's always making jokes like you went to the mall with one babe abi. It's tiring because I don't really have interest in her. And I don't want to break her heart by rejecting her which is why I initially didn't reject her thinking she'll go farther from me soon.
How can I make this all end. She wants to come to my home everyday.

ps: I've never had sex with her as I believe in celibacy before marriage. [b][/b]

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Re: Help. How Do I Tell Her I Am Not Into Her by SageMK: 11:15am On May 06, 2019

I don't want to break her heart by rejecting her which is why I initially didn't reject her thinking she'll go farther from me soon.






Simply tell her you are dying of HIV AIDS.

Thank me later.

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Re: Help. How Do I Tell Her I Am Not Into Her by donbachi(m): 11:21am On May 06, 2019
c'mon abunna u not fit shine...u dey dia dey form celebrity abi celi dis celi dat...go and put her on rapid.na God give u.
Re: Help. How Do I Tell Her I Am Not Into Her by bigkahuna704(m): 11:39am On May 06, 2019
Just tell her plainly

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Re: Help. How Do I Tell Her I Am Not Into Her by kamtrix(m): 1:06pm On May 06, 2019
bigkahuna704:
Just tell her plainly
it will shatter her. cuz she keeps telling me she has never felt close to anyone like to me. That I am the only one that knows many of her secrets. She's not really good at making friends or relationships. I just wanted to be nice to her. nothing more

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Re: Help. How Do I Tell Her I Am Not Into Her by anthonyuncle(m): 1:40pm On May 06, 2019
take her out,
have some personal time with her,

compliment her on her values,

then tell her that u aint good enough for her

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Re: Help. How Do I Tell Her I Am Not Into Her by Amanew(m): 2:53pm On May 06, 2019
SageMK:




Simply tell her you are dying of HIV AIDS.
Thank me later.
kikikikikii Nigerians

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Re: Help. How Do I Tell Her I Am Not Into Her by Memberclub(m): 7:11pm On May 06, 2019
anthonyuncle:
take her out,
have some personal time with her,

compliment her on her values,

then tell her that u aint good enough for her
That's bullsh¡t. Tell her straight. Rubbish advice angry

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Re: Help. How Do I Tell Her I Am Not Into Her by kamtrix(m): 7:15pm On May 06, 2019
anthonyuncle:
take her out,
have some personal time with her,

compliment her on her values,

then tell her that u aint good enough for her
I think this is good advice
Re: Help. How Do I Tell Her I Am Not Into Her by Ciaos: 7:24pm On May 06, 2019
Make we no hear say she commit suicide because of you because you told her you weren't into her late. Tell her now as he dey hot make she find man way go dey into her. Hmmmmm!!!!

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Re: Help. How Do I Tell Her I Am Not Into Her by teacherbim(f): 9:17pm On May 06, 2019
kamtrix:
Thanks. This can work.
Yeah, it works make a research
Re: Help. How Do I Tell Her I Am Not Into Her by Biglittlelois(f): 9:18pm On May 06, 2019
Really really sad...
Re: Help. How Do I Tell Her I Am Not Into Her by aanuoluwami14: 9:35pm On May 06, 2019
kamtrix:
it will shatter her. cuz she keeps telling me she has never felt close to anyone like to me. That I am the only one that knows many of her secrets. She's not really good at making friends or relationships. I just wanted to be nice to her. nothing more

You just want to be nice to her and nothing more? lipsrsealed na lie. Tell her joking that your girlfriend is coming to greet you.
Re: Help. How Do I Tell Her I Am Not Into Her by anthonyuncle(m): 9:58pm On May 06, 2019
Memberclub:
That's bullsh¡t. Tell her straight. Rubbish advice angry

oga,

u that know better advices,

have u ever been in such situations before

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Re: Help. How Do I Tell Her I Am Not Into Her by Nobody: 2:44am On May 07, 2019
Read similar threads on NL
Re: Help. How Do I Tell Her I Am Not Into Her by teacherbim(f): 6:26am On May 07, 2019
lilwetdick:


what sort of nonsense advice is this..must you put people life at stake just because you want to sell a product... you claim it doesnt has side effect, which drugs in the world doesnt have side effects
some some people are too thin because of their bad eating habits and stressful work so make your research Apetamin only increases Apetamin and make you sleepy.
Re: Help. How Do I Tell Her I Am Not Into Her by Quality20(m): 7:37am On May 07, 2019
tell her u are infected with HIV and aids, but that u can still marry her and be using CD or going raw when ur viral load is down
Re: Help. How Do I Tell Her I Am Not Into Her by mmadu5(m): 7:55am On May 07, 2019
SageMK:





Simply tell her you are dying of HIV AIDS.

Thank me later.


so she can go about telling people the guy is hiv positive abi ? simply becaus he wants to break off with hoe you must have no brain in your big head

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Re: Help. How Do I Tell Her I Am Not Into Her by Deepfeel(m): 8:27am On May 07, 2019
All she wants might just be friendship and attention not necessarily sexual, but if u feel she's been obsessed with you and crossing the limit, let her know where the limit line is, it's something simple she's a mature lady she will understand

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Re: Help. How Do I Tell Her I Am Not Into Her by Uyi168(m): 8:31am On May 07, 2019
SageMK:





Simply tell her you are dying of HIV AIDS.

Thank me later.
..
Which kain advice be this..

Re: Help. How Do I Tell Her I Am Not Into Her by Jodha(f): 8:34am On May 07, 2019
Give her attitude... she'll get it and leave yhu.
Re: Help. How Do I Tell Her I Am Not Into Her by faithfull18(f): 8:46am On May 07, 2019
Nairaland association of bad advisers.
Re: Help. How Do I Tell Her I Am Not Into Her by babyfaceafrica: 9:55am On May 07, 2019
kamtrix:
it will shatter her. cuz she keeps telling me she has never felt close to anyone like to me. That I am the only one that knows many of her secrets. She's not really good at making friends or relationships. I just wanted to be nice to her. nothing more
stop been nice.....say the truth and move pm

when has bee. nice to women paid off?...ladies cheat on nice guys..they like bad guys

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