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Why Is My Friend Suffering From The Same Domestic Violence She Saved Me From?? by GalaxyTrends: 9:48pm On May 14, 2019 |
I am just sitting by her hospital bed wondering to myself and decided to send you a mail so I don’t wallow in my self thoughts. My girlfriend best friend was beating almost to death by her husband yesterday night, and from the doctors observation this woman has always experienced this, for the first time I saw my friends body and I was shocked . The shock was not the scars but why she could not save herself. I use to be married to a woman beater and it was this same myself that advised me to leaving him, she even gave me 5 million naira just so I can start up my life again , she paid the lawyer that stood for my divorce and stood by me and made sure I divorced my husband. My friend will use police to arrest my husband anytime he hits me and even fight him on my behalf, so I am so shocked why she could not do same for herself. I am just here looking at her with so many questions on my mind I wish she could just get up and answer them . I need answers , why will she suffer same thing I did and choose not to save herself but was willing to die saving me ? My friend is even richer than her husband so why is she still here , she does not have kids for him and I even had 2 for mine then why is she stil here ? Is this the endurance they talk about, did I make a mistake leaving my husband, he has been begging to come back should I go back , seeing this is making me regret my actions . PS: This got sent to a relationship Community on Instagram Called Relationship and Life (DEARRAL). Source: CLICK HERE TO READ MORE TRUE LIFE STORIES, HOOKUP/MATCH MAKING, COUNSELLING/RELATIONSHIP AND LIFE ADVICE, INSTAGRAM FOLLOWERS GROWTH SERVICE, MONDAY CASH/AIRTIME GIVEAWAYS AND MUCH MORE |
Re: Why Is My Friend Suffering From The Same Domestic Violence She Saved Me From?? by GalaxyTrends: 9:57pm On May 14, 2019 |
Re: Why Is My Friend Suffering From The Same Domestic Violence She Saved Me From?? by GalaxyTrends: 9:57pm On May 14, 2019 |
Re: Why Is My Friend Suffering From The Same Domestic Violence She Saved Me From?? by GalaxyTrends: 9:57pm On May 14, 2019 |
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Re: Why Is My Friend Suffering From The Same Domestic Violence She Saved Me From?? by daddio(m): 11:49pm On May 14, 2019 |
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Re: Why Is My Friend Suffering From The Same Domestic Violence She Saved Me From?? by saintvc(m): 12:13am On May 15, 2019 |
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Re: Why Is My Friend Suffering From The Same Domestic Violence She Saved Me From?? by LilMissFavvy(f): 1:35am On May 15, 2019 |
Your friend does not want to open up to you that she is barren, if she leaves that marriage, finding another man will be hard because on the second marriage, people will still come to realize that she hasn't given birth. If she is that rich, it means she definitely tried IVF, yet no way. In your case, you had two great gifts, ie your children, you didn't leave empty. you should pray and support your friend, till a miracle happens, or till she is strong enough to quit the marriage. GalaxyTrends: |
Re: Why Is My Friend Suffering From The Same Domestic Violence She Saved Me From?? by Tunagee(m): 3:02am On May 15, 2019 |
The lesson here is that you should not take your marriage issues to third parties, they would worsen your case, while they remain in their own marriages enduring same thing,even worse than yours. A number of homebreakers are everywhere, pretending as if all is well with their marriages on social media. She made you to divorce your husband while she remains in her own marriage, enduring same. People, be wise on how you relate your marital issues to third parties; its not advisable. Settles your differences with your husband. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is My Friend Suffering From The Same Domestic Violence She Saved Me From?? by Deepfeel(m): 7:49am On May 15, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy:Is marriage the ultimate achievement in life for a woman, you just remain in an abusive marriage cause you are barren? I don't think so |
Re: Why Is My Friend Suffering From The Same Domestic Violence She Saved Me From?? by LilMissFavvy(f): 9:21am On May 15, 2019 |
She is not remaining there becos marriage is an achievement, she is remaining there because she got no kids and is afriaid of the future. If she had kids plus her wealth, she would have quit. Deepfeel: |
Re: Why Is My Friend Suffering From The Same Domestic Violence She Saved Me From?? by Deepfeel(m): 10:25am On May 15, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy:But I have seen women who remain in abusive marriage cause of the kids not wanting to separate them from their dads, this lady got no kids and this man is not the only man in the world, with her wealth she can go abroad pay a young lady buy sperm donor from a man of her choice the young lady will conceive on her behalf have a child for her with no stress, besides that does it mean women with no children got no future? The richest black woman in the world opera Winifred got no child, she chose not to have any |
Re: Why Is My Friend Suffering From The Same Domestic Violence She Saved Me From?? by LilMissFavvy(f): 11:15am On May 15, 2019 |
I said she is afraid of the future, I did not say she's got no future. If only she could be wise, to free herself from the abusive marriage, and get a surrogate mum. Deepfeel: |
Re: Why Is My Friend Suffering From The Same Domestic Violence She Saved Me From?? by Deepfeel(m): 11:18am On May 15, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy:That's just it she's not wise, or what tied her to the man is something totally different |
Re: Why Is My Friend Suffering From The Same Domestic Violence She Saved Me From?? by LilMissFavvy(f): 11:20am On May 15, 2019 |
Something totally different like? Deepfeel: |
Re: Why Is My Friend Suffering From The Same Domestic Violence She Saved Me From?? by Deepfeel(m): 11:46am On May 15, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy:I don't know perhaps an oath maybe, you know Africa na stuff like that happen |
Re: Why Is My Friend Suffering From The Same Domestic Violence She Saved Me From?? by LilMissFavvy(f): 11:49am On May 15, 2019 |
Nawa o. Very possible jare. Deepfeel: |
Re: Why Is My Friend Suffering From The Same Domestic Violence She Saved Me From?? by Deepfeel(m): 11:52am On May 15, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy:Thanks for seeing it from my own angle, xx |
Re: Why Is My Friend Suffering From The Same Domestic Violence She Saved Me From?? by Nobody: 1:15pm On May 15, 2019 |
GalaxyTrends: Answer is simple, a prostitute won't want her love ones to ply that trade, likewise and armed robber won't want his son to be one.. Your friend knew what u passing through, the fact that she's tied to it, she won't want u to do same. |
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